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Integrity

The saying goes...the higher trees get more wind. Well,.let me tell you...it's not the wind that bothers me...it is the items carried by the wind that is getting me under.  I tend to give the benefit of the doubt to most of the situations I come across, and I try to the best of my ability to be fair and just in my actions. Tonight I am sad, I was mad...now just sad.  People I have not wronged in any way is spreading vicious rumours. So bad that It could ruin my marriage.  The marriage

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A journey to chaos

I recently saw a silly little Meme on Facebook about aliens discussing us (humans), and all the things we.do. It really struck me that we are not what we propagate.  And that is sad. We pride ourselves on being evolved,  but we focus on fights of physical adaptation, yet we don't focus on evolving in our thinking and our behaviour towards each other. We propagate freedom of speech,  yet we criticise when people say what they think. So our behaviour is actually preventing some from spea

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You made your bed

The saying goes- you made your bed, now sleep in it. I have always wondered where on earth that would be applicable,  and then I had children. And I realised,  it can be seen literal. Only challenge I experienced...I made their beds and then they slept in it! Looking at the fact that we make.our beds with partners (we chose them) I understand the saying for when you have made that bed and u actually don't want your partner to share the bed with you (cause ur angry or had a fight),

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Imagine

Watching the clouds roll in, smelling the rain as the wind drifts towards the house. I stare at the trees swaying and I realise. We have a legion of different cultures, not to mention religions, different dialects, he'll, we can't even agree on food.  Yet, it is a universal happiness, gratefulness that sweeps every human's face when the raindrops touch the ground. For it is a truth that echoes within humanity, that if we don't have water... we don't have life. So as the clouds rol

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Disappointed

So once again I am filled with a combination of.anger and disappointment -as the human beings we all pride ourselves on being - prove that we are simply not as evolved as we think we are. I can.simply shake.my head at the arrogance of some people - and the fact.they think that the.sun sets when they sit down. I cringe to think they raise children to speak ill of.others - because that's how they conduct themselves. I get nauseated at the idea of them spreading lies about people, ca

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A mile..

I have always wondered where one would get the opportunity to walk a mile in another's shoes. Came to the conclusion that  it might be slightly unhygienic as well, I mean its dark in there and things grow... Then I pondered that if the person before me used their shoes a lot it means the shoe has formed according to their foot contours... Hence it might be very uncomfortable.... All of the above assuming there is much of the shoe left after it was worn beyond repair. So I have to wonder...w

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Trust

There are a few rules in my life that I don't break or even tempt to break, I also make.it very clear to people.that these are my rules if.you want to take.our friendship from friendly greetings to having coffee. I also don't ask people for coffee if I don't want a next level friendship. for me,  having coffee with someone means I am willing to invest time and effort into the friendship. I am also the kind of.person you should be honest with, like earth shattering.honest. I tend to res

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Bloody stubborn

As after so many days I bring this one to a close with me sitting and shaking.my head at the inability of some people to HEAR, THINK AND PROCESS what people are trying to tell them. I don't know whether it is mere stubbornness that brings this about.or the fact that your paradigm within which you function just doesn't accommodate the views of others. Are we (some.of Us) so self centered that we literally cannot understand and process when.something is said that is different to our thou

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Motivation jip

I have looked at the souls around me this past week and I find that each one has to have.motivation. According to what I have.observed, motivation leads to reaction to the motivation. example you ask...well let us take going to work.  Without the internal motivation of actually getting up and.going to work one has to wonder if they would go to work if not motivated for it. so what motivates us to do things? For me there has to be an intellectual intervention or even a 'reward' i w

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Journey

Our human existence is filled with many journeys and adventure intertwined with our daily lives. We have our main journey ( who you see and what you do for a living)  and then you have intervals on this journey where you experience pain. whether it is physical or emotional pain makes no difference,  the actual experience of it creates either a stronger you or breaks you and u need to start rebuilding.  For me it is interesting how pain can push you to accept it's level of discomfo

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Laughter

I find that laughter from others stimulates a smile from myself.  laughter at the worst of.time simply distracts the brain from what is creating the anger/sadness. (IMO) I have glanced across a room filled with people and.locked eyes with a random person, the Stare we shared spoke.more than words could convey. The moment we smiled together the room went quiet of all voices and that small moment was frozen in time. It is amazing that a moment shared by a smile keeps the.memory of the.moment

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Flawed

Human kind has some cruel beings I came  to realize when the rape if a ten year old came across my desk. As if the mere act of it is not bad enough I have to listen to the.mom side step  the police.... I don't know what is worse tho, Mom side stepping,  the rape or the mere fact that the system might allow the transgressor to go... What's worse? He/she will find a.defender to plead his/her case. So someone will defend what he /she did. So the action will become justifiable.  Imagine th

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Sadness

It is with a heavy heart that I had to see my father today. His health has taken a turn for the worse,yet he smiles through the strife.  Spoke about losing him and he said that he had some good adventures and that God's blessed him with a good life, and sad I shouldn't be. So I cried. A lot... Still weeping tho.. Anywho, things I will remember when he leaves me ( after he passes, I am officially an orphan...) A) never had an emotional screaming fight with dad, always logical

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Perplexed

Been reading a lot lately and found myself drowning in work, but hey,  keep on swimming Dory proclaimed...so I bought some fins and a snorkel and I am making some waves.  I find that people tend to take the under-dog's side without questioning how the under-dog got there, or even considering whether what they are reading/ hearing is true. That is just not me,I might be more flawed than I suspected,  never doubted that I am flawed as such, just didn't realise how much...or I might not b

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Energy

Spoke to a fellow teacher the other day about bias when assessments are marked. Example. I want you to answer questions about energy and the type of energy we find in the world.  My question asked is what uses energy. I have an idea of what the answers to the question should be, and when marking the assessment I am Looking for that/those answers. Hence I disregard the answers you give that is not the same as mine. Challenge being you are not taking into account that you posed a vague q

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Life means so little

Listened to a news report where is took 36 deaths of psych patients before the investigations started. It took so many lives to end before it was decided to try and find the reason. Do their lives mean less than one that exists outside the psych ward? Should all live not weigh equal? Why does it take 36 before we investigate....  How many people lost a mom, dad, brother or sister?  How many people mourning and how many more will have to because of a lack of action? Our lives seem

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Grace

Had a long conversation with a friend.of.mine and we. Came to the conclusion that all we have, all we plan it all is surrounded by Grace. Since me and Him are of different religions we find common ground when speaking about just that we should be fighting over...faith. We discussed that no matter what the religion there is a higher power. And to get in the favor and stay in the favor.of that said power is impossible. Thus, if the creator created us what can we as creations do to deserv

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Everybody hurts

Song title.... Well at least the words of a.song i know. But it isn't true. Everybody doesn't hurt. Some people are walking on earth without the ability to feel. Feel what is done to them or what they do to others.  They can simply decide to always be right. To always have the upper hand. It is tiring. No matter how well u think u know someone you find their true nature when the chips are down and their skins are on the line.  Sad really. Some will call it survival. ' I do what I

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Are we?

Sat on the side walk waiting today.  Stared at the people hustling.  And I wondered...are we really all equal? We have this tendency to think we are better than that beggar on the street since 'i would at least try to get a job' Really? Can u even think how he/she feels about where they are? Do u even know their past?  What simple.choice did they make that brought them there? I stare at the business man  Suit and tie. Facing the sun through sunglasses. And I wonder. If societ

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Olden days

As the sun's rays  gently touch the mountain tops and caress the valleys the gods smile upon the earth.  The chariot of the sun gets pulled across the sky so make space for sister moon. The river nymphs giggle and scatter as the shadows grows longer. Hugging each other and lightly bouncing on the feet as the air begins to cool. And deep within the river's secret hide away places the creatures start to stir. The darkness starts to take shape and the water ripples reach the sanctum

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Smile...

I have to smile at the simplicity of some people's thought pattern. We ponder, strategize, organise and run our lives, our friend's lives, family...Co workers and bosses... Because that is what is expected from us. We conform to the rush society has created so that we can reach that goal....what goal is that again? The aim that society has set there...we aim to please...everyone.... And then the days starting blurring into weeks...weeks melt into years and before you know it you have a

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Gaze

I find myself staring at the moon, glancing at the unseen galaxies and I have a yearning in my soul. I find myself wondering whether there might be more to my life than the steps that I have already taken. I have this longing in my soul, a restlessness that I cannot voice. My soul longs for more... Words cannot describe the pull toward the unknown that I battle with. I gaze into the stars and I wish upon the moon. I want to click my heels and wish to go home...where may that be...

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Human Nature..

Human Nature...so they say...think about that statement long and hard. We are all human right, well we hope so...and we have different creeds...cultures and ideas. So what I ask humbly United us under the blanket.word of  human nature. I read the articles and smile to myself for this is a generalisation of an observation... Applied to the masses. Reality being they can't explain why it was done ( at least to everyone's satisfaction)  and therefor it shall be Human nature. I think

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What the heart wants

The days that the heart wants are the longest in my life. For what the heart wants is just outside my reach. The pure calmness of acceptance sometimes leaves me and I am surrounded with turmoil and sadness. It is no one's fault really, simply a few acts of insanity that lead to a simple change of course. The change of course lead to the fear of waking up to this daunting task every day. The fear became reality..and now the ship of sanity is closely sailing to a sea monster...and t

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What , why?

So had a day that made me long for silence and coffee...I love coffee... I find that nature calms me and people work on my nerves. Not because they are people as such..busy little bees in the hive of life...its is the falseness of those said little bees that just makes me light a cigarette and blow smoke into the abyss of reason. I just looked at the pretension in their actions...and it makes me nauseous. Maybe because I am just not what they are. I am a horrible straight and honest pe

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