Coming out: panromantic/sexual and genderfluid: part 2
The things in the picture are the exact same things my mother said. It did not go well at all yesterday, I started with the words "do you remember when you told me if I came home and told you one of these things you would still love me?" She started shaking her head quickly and started saying/yelling "you don't like girls, you don't like girls, you don't like girls!" And I told her that I did because hey, I have a girlfriend. So then she asks me "Do you want to kiss them and touch their privates?" And I said no to the private part thing and then she says "then you can't love the same sex if you aren't sexually attracted to them." Which is wrong because you don't have to love the same gender just because you want sex (( sexual attraction )) which is basically saying "I wanna have sex with this person" and being romantic (( romantic attraction )) is completely different from being sexual, being romantic mainly means that they probably wanna go one dates, dinners, holding hands, and cuddle. Others may include kissing with that. Others may not like anything that involves touching. Whatever activities, thoughts, and feelings you think of when you consider what is "romantic," those are what you'd think about, feel toward, and want to do with someone you are romantically attracted to.
Next we get in the car to go home, so then she asks me "what's your sexuality?" And I said panromantic, she looks at me with disbelief and starts laughing her ass off and says "Who the hell made that **** up?" And didn't even apologize, it's funny when your "Christian" mother just swears I front of her children and doesn't apologize, I told her the meaning on panromantic:
Panromantic. A person who is romantically attracted to others but is not limited by the other's sex or gender. Similar to biromantic. Panromantics will tend to feel that their partner's gender does little to define their relationship.
So she starts yelling at me that there are only two sexes and genders, which there's not, examples of different genders: ⬇️
Agender (Also Non-gender): not identifying with any gender, the feeling of having no gender.
Bigender: To identify as both genders and/or to have a tendency to move between masculine and feminine gender-typed behavior depending on context; 2) Expressing a distinctly male persona and a distinctly female persona; 3) Two separate genders in one body.
Genderqueer: An umbrella term for people whose gender identity is outside of, not included within, or beyond the binary of female and male; 2) Gender non-conformity through exp<b></b>ression, behavior, social roles, and/or identity; See also Fluid, Non-Binary.
Transgender (TG): An umbrella term describing a diverse community of people whose gender identity differs from that which they were designated at birth; 2) Exp<b></b>ressions and identities that challenge the binary male/female gender system in a given culture; 3) Anyone who transcends the conventional definitions of man and woman and whose self-identification or exp<b></b>ression challenges traditional notions of male and female.
Polygender: Identifying as more than one gender or a combination of genders.
Transgender Man (Transman): A transgender individual who identifies as a man (see also FTM).
Transgender Woman (Transwoman): A transgender individual who identifies as a woman (see also MTF).
Gender fluid is a gender identity which refers to a gender which varies over time. A gender fluid person may at any time identify as male, female, neutrois, or any other non-binary identity, or some combination of identities. Their gender can also vary at random or vary in response to different circumstances.
And there's many other genders that I can't name, my mom says I have no idea what I'm going through and I do, she also says that I need to do research because I'm clearly "confused". But you can see from this post that I've clearly done my research, and I'm not confused, this is who I am, I'm not being panromantic to get attention, this is me.
But long story short, things did not go so great yesterday..
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