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What , why?


DebDandelion

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So had a day that made me long for silence and coffee...I love coffee...

I find that nature calms me and people work on my nerves. Not because they are people as such..busy little bees in the hive of life...its is the falseness of those said little bees that just makes me light a cigarette and blow smoke into the abyss of reason.

I just looked at the pretension in their actions...and it makes me nauseous. Maybe because I am just not what they are. I am a horrible straight and honest person that if ya don't like me move along...I am not gonna make u like me... Could explain. Why I have my coffee more than once a day...alone. No joking. I do have friends. Many are just like me. Don't get me wrong...I don't intentionally hurt your feelings...I simply say what I think and why I think so in a nice way.

Why do people have to pretend?? Why not be...exist... Make ur life full with enjoyable actions.  I dunno.

I am juggling ( part of a management team) ten different personalities ,( can handle that part) juggling their emotional outbursts (can even juggle that part) but seeing them being nice in someone's face ...turning around and then gossiping..THAT I cannot handle. If you can't say it to that person's face don't say it at all. For if you do say it behind someone's back you are not looking for a resolution you are instigating conflict... Or simply making yourself look good. So your goal to begin with was selfish...

Fantastic...that is what we have come down to...selfish souls ...why?

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Every now and then, we get gossip floating around work.  Whenever it comes my way I tell the person that if they have such a problem with another, go and tell them about it, I am not that person nor do I wish to be involved in talking about them behind their back.  Seems to nip things in the bud right away.   ;)

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100% guarantee that anyone who will gossip to you about others, will gossip about you to others. Nothing surer.

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spud the mackem

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People talk about you and others all the time, its when they start whispering you have to watch your back

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DebDandelion

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8 hours ago, spud the mackem said:

People talk about you and others all the time, its when they start whispering you have to watch your back

Oh haha. I do agree tho. Once they engage with  uabout  others the.opposite is true as well

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DebDandelion

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8 hours ago, spud the mackem said:

People talk about you and others all the time, its when they start whispering you have to watch your back

Lol...I am in need.of a body guard

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spud the mackem

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On ‎24‎/‎08‎/‎2016 at 4:45 AM, Debstermania said:

Lol...I am in need.of a body guard

Kevin Costner ??

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