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Integrity


DebDandelion

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The saying goes...the higher trees get more wind. Well,.let me tell you...it's not the wind that bothers me...it is the items carried by the wind that is getting me under. 

I tend to give the benefit of the doubt to most of the situations I come across, and I try to the best of my ability to be fair and just in my actions. Tonight I am sad, I was mad...now just sad. 

People I have not wronged in any way is spreading vicious rumours. So bad that It could ruin my marriage.  The marriage I am not worried bout cause it's not true,(the rumours) and I am honest with my partner about the rumours,  but I am seriously doubting the integrity of human kind.

I hate that feeling of absolute sadness that has filled my soul. My brain tells me to get angry and fight these allegations with fire, the joke of the matter? Rumours started when I got the promotion... And the dude that is part of the rumours is not the one that recommended me for the promotion.  Irony...

So yeah...I fell into this :td: feeling and I can't shake it. I am suppose to feel:angry: and take this bull by the horns, yet all I feel is sad and disgusted with human kind.

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spud the mackem

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Nil Desperandum , People spread rumours because they are jealous so hold your head up high and ignore the cretins. Best Wishes .

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Sorry to hear that, Deb. I've seen that kind of malicious behavior too many times. Spud the mackem is right: keep your head up, and take the high road.

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Keep your chin up words are cheap and jealousy  Remember this The only thing more frustrating than slanderers is those foolish enough to listen to them

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.ZZ.

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Spring is just around the corner, best wishes to you. :)

Edit: I just noticed you are in South Africa, well, best wishes anyway. :lol:

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45 minutes ago, .ZZ. said:

Spring is just around the corner, best wishes to you. :)

Edit: I just noticed you are in South Africa, well, best wishes anyway. :lol:

:D 

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MWoo7

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Natives have some saying about Kulls , waste of skin and bone and they're not worth your time, possibly if you've thought of Karma , with any luck they'll get a taste of it.
Lastly...
Time shall soothe, when in the throes or a hard time -- indeed, TIME -- will certainly ease things for you, stay busy, keep your mind busy.  THese things have a way of working out.

That's everything I've got.

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Can't the 'dude that is part of the rumours' clear this up for you and explain (to those believing the rumour) that he did not promote you?
There must be a way of clearing this up surely.    Or can't the one who DID promote you tell them?

Gossip is a common feature of humans but then so are noble qualities like compassion and kindness.  Don't let a few a few rotten apples taint your view of the whole of humanity.   If that's how you are currently feeling then there are countless videos on youtube entitled "restoring faith in humanity".  I can really recommend watching some of these - they have a 'feel good' factor to them! color.gif

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I am sorry you are going through this.  It's very hard when others speak ill and don't even know you.   Please hang in there, hold your head high.  People can be very immature and jealous, unfortunately.  

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On 10/02/2017 at 1:47 PM, sees said:

Can't the 'dude that is part of the rumours' clear this up for you and explain (to those believing the rumour) that he did not promote you?
There must be a way of clearing this up surely.    Or can't the one who DID promote you tell them?

Gossip is a common feature of humans but then so are noble qualities like compassion and kindness.  Don't let a few a few rotten apples taint your view of the whole of humanity.   If that's how you are currently feeling then there are countless videos on youtube entitled "restoring faith in humanity".  I can really recommend watching some of these - they have a 'feel good' factor to them! color.gif

We have escalated this to my bosses boss.so hopefully this will conclude the issue.  Thank u for caring

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13 hours ago, tcgram said:

I am sorry you are going through this.  It's very hard when others speak ill and don't even know you.   Please hang in there, hold your head high.  People can be very immature and jealous, unfortunately.  

It's rough. But thanks for the words of encouragement 

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