preacherman76, on 27 January 2013 - 09:59 AM, said:
. But I do hate nearly everything he stands for. I mean what can darkness have to do with light? Like the good word says, the dark saw the light and could not comprehend. Like Bush before him, he became the poster child to everything wrong with this government. And those flaws are deep and painful. At the rate our freedoms are being stripped, by the time my kids are grown, they will have nothing left.
Basically you are saying that what he has done, has hurt you and created more worry for you and your kids growing up.. Then yes I can see why you would feel angry, it is natural, I know I would if I felt the same way.. ..A lot of people will disagree and think anger is a choice but it's not, it is natural.. If you didn't choose to feel hurt or saddened by his actions, nor did you choose to feel worried for your kids growing up, so what you felt was natural, including anger... How you choose to deal with it is a different matter...
In ref to hating ...For example - If I hated everything you stood for and all that you did, then I would hate you as a person... Because, everything that you stood for and all that you believed in, is what builds you up as the person you are.. if you took all that away, then it would be pointless hating you..That was just a made up example, I don't hold any hate for you, but you can hopefully see from that example what I mean....It would be no different if I felt you were a kind hearted person, who did all things nice, and I liked all you stood for, if you removed all of that, then who are you as a person? I would like you as a person because of those things ...
I must strongly note - I am not here to tell you that you are wrong to hate or show anger....I have had arguments with a number of religious people telling me it is wrong to hate and show anger.. Some are happy to point out that Jesus says anger is wrong and can lead to murder.. I do not agree with that, I believe anger and hate is a natural part of life...We will naturally feel it,
but dealing with it is different, it is up to us how we do that..each to their own
Let me ask you a few questions...
Do you think that if you were to keep posting your anger and hate for someone constantly on line ( in a blog, forum or whatever ) would this help you feel better and become more at ease?
OR Would it make you become more obsessed with anger and hate for that person, and it drives you to more extreme measures that you wind up looking worse or no different from those groups who are forever hating, and they became most hated?
Another thing - If someone came to you and told you the felt so much anger and hate for a certain person .. They claimed they hated all that person stood for, and what the person did, hurt them.. What advice would you give this person? I would like to hear what you would do and say in this situation?
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My point is, during that whole time I was called hatefull and racist, and that simply wasnt true. It wasnt true for me, nor was it true for I believe most others who felt the same way as me.
Was this in real life? Or on the internet? I don't know what you said or done to have people see you as a hateful racist ( as you mentioned above ) ..I just hope for your kids sake it was not in real life.. People can be cruel and make life hard for those they brand a hater in real life, and make it hard for their kids too.. I have seen it happen from time to time.. It's the kids I feel sorry for
Edited by Beckys_Mom, 27 January 2013 - 01:54 PM.