cladking, on 16 December 2012 - 06:51 PM, said:
To whom was I rude?
Nova? They used to do an excellent job with everything but now they target audiences with a
4th grade educational level which is about typical for this country. Is it really rude to point out
that they don't do a very good job any longer and that they did an especially poor job with this
one? If memory serves the narrator even has a speech impediment.
PBS? They do the best they can to attract funding which means they try to appeal to a mass
audience.
Egyptology? I'd wager they each said something worse about people who don't agree with them
in the episode.
You? I don't know how. I'm just trying to warn people that if they expect any sort of in depth treat-
ment or any ideas that haven't been bandied about by a failed theory that there's little point to
watching.
It was certainly not my intention to be rude to anyone and I do apologize if you took my comments
as a personal attack. They were not meant this way.
I have giving replying to you a lot of thought, and discussed this with friends. It was brought my attention that I am being hyper sensitive because of recent mass murders in a theater, mall and school. Especially the death of the children. The violence we are experiencing, and all the suicides triggered by what is happening on the internet, give us cause to consider the importance of good manners. While it might not be your intention to shot people down, that is what you have done, and it is not okay. There is a gender difference between how females and males relate. Women's liberation did not make women more powerful, but lead to them more as the boys, in an insane effort to prove themselves equal, and the social ramifications of this are devastating.
My shelves are full of college lectures from The Teaching Company and I am doubting if I will buy any more, because although they are full of information, they also tend to be boring compared to shows like Nova. The way you tore into Nova shows is unnecessary and offensive male one-up-man-ship. It does not make for good feelings. You could say basically the same thing, without being offensive if you wanted to and gave it some thought.
I have mentioned before the great care with which the Japanese choose their words when disagreeing with each other, in the Japanese news shows. If we take care to not offend others or not, is a matter of culture, and in the US we have a violent culture that goes beyond unintended insults, to deliberate attacks, such you how you attacked the information I offer. I will raise awareness of the wrong of this, when I observe it, at least until the murders of all those children is no longer in the news, and I am not reminded again of a teenager committing suicide because of bullying.
I am reminded of the confession made by tough biker guy in a class about abuse. Although he dove right in the middle of abusiveness he did so as a victim of it, and in class, the realization that life does not have to be so painful, brought him to tears. Culturally we have assumed this aggressiveness is human nature. I was proud to wear black and going to fights, and take risk as young people do. I understand the nature of this behavior, but it is also cultural, not just our nature. There are cultures that discourage this behavior.
Nova shows may not give you the deep study of a subject you want, but that is no reason to run down a show that is entertaining and informative at the same time. I offered good information and you insulted what I offered,
again. That is not okay. It is offensive and bad manners. Male dominate chimps are more aggressive than female dominate bonobo and I am calling for a new Women's Liberation. One that gives us back the social power we had, and manifest a less aggressive and more cooperative and gentle culture.