No one else can have the same relationship with them . With god it is a little bit different because a human being can share the consciousness of god as he shares our consciousness, and thus have a shared understanding of and with, him. But again, as every human mind is different, the understanding of the nature of god will be unique to each human being.
When you are open you can receive the connection. I feel sad for those who have blocked their ability to receive with bitter name calling and insults. I can't imagine living a life filled with such hostility. It must be a somber place to be. Filled with erratic anger and damaged relationships. I know so well over time what this looks like. It is especially hard on children in such homes. And so this is why I think God reaches those who are in need or lost or victims. God finds a way. It will always be individual to the person and God's will with you. It is a blessing.