I say we should never ever indoctrinate children into a faith EVER. Children should be able to grow up as free thinkers and discover the world for themselves without being told what to believe. Notice how when you're young you'll believe a LOT of bull****? Yeah, the same applies to any belief a pastor, sikkh, Rabbi or whatever the **** throws down your throat. It's an accepted fact that depending on where you live and more importantly who you live
with; that you're religious 'beliefs' will be what they are because of these factors, your environment in other words. Is it simply a coincidence that most American children are Christian, or that most children from Afghanistan are Muslim? Surely it must be! Allah/Jesus was calling to them...Yeah right. They were indoctrinated, had it burnt into their minds with a hot rod, so much so that it toasted their brain cells and made a lot of them into reactionist, close minded individuals with hatred and contempt for Non-believers of their faith -one only has to look at the persecution and outlawing of Atheists in both those countries or the idiotic blasphemy laws in the middle east, what year are we living in here, 800 BC?
I was educated in a catholic school, taught my prayers by my grandfather, had to pray every morning at the start of school and at lunch also, had to go to church on Sundays etc. A few years ago, I started getting really nasty thoughts about dead relatives and I remember the moment it hit me - I was about 14 at the time - the moment I was walking upstairs in school and thought "Oh ****, God can see my thoughts, I'm in trouble". I lost sleep and lived in fear for ages, believing that these thoughts were all my fault and that I was going to hell because of them. Now I realise I was just a scared child (The same thing happened to my sister too, only she was only like 7 or 8 and used to come into me at night crying because of it). who prayed and pleased with God to forgive me - and yes, I did pray when I was younger, don't know why, I just did, it was just a typical thing. Anyway, you can imagine it - a child of 14, crying himself to sleep at night, waking up wishing he had never been born, a feeling of horrible guilt and depression in a child who should have been enjoying the best years of his childhood - this went on until about last year maybe.
I never did feel a connection with a god, despite my praying and 'believing'. In reality, I was only praying to save my own ass, reassuring myself that I was forgiven but I never really did feel forgiven and the more I would hang onto it, the more guilty I became as even more Sins came to mind. I look back at the last four years of my life and realise that I could have done so much and regret missing out on so much - I've lost friends because of the effects of the worrying and guilt and keeping reclusive so much - they notice I was very "Emo" at school...and I felt it. Imagine waking up every morning and instantly wanting to cry...not anyone's idea of a 'happy childhood' is it?
It's interesting though now that I think about it - I was pleading with God from the Bible, Yahweh. Why was I not pleading with Allah? because he isn't who I was brought up to believe, it would be likewise for a child in Afghanistan when Yahweh is concerned. So you see, we only fear/pray to and 'love' the gods we are led to believe are watching us, how many Christians on here stop and think "Oh no, I may have upset Apollo today by not believing in him"...I bet none and that's because you're confident he isn't real, because you were not brought up with him!, just the way I was confident as a kid that Yahweh existed and that he was watching over my every 'sin' but really, it was more so fear than anything else that provoked my belief.
We believe what we are raised to believe because we are at a vulnerable time in out lives, we believe in an obese man flying around the world giving toys to people FFS. I never felt a love from a god in my life, despite all my prayers to the god I Was brought up to believe - Yahweh. In fact, I can never say that I was a strong believer at all, I ******* hated church, it sucked huge monkey nuts of epic proportions; I'd have rather been at home playing video games. Despite being brought up as a Catholic with school, communion and confirmation Yadayadaydada, my parents' never enforced the religion onto me, it's just common practice in Ireland, more so a traditional thing - My parents would have sent me to church on sunday's but only so they could have an hours peace from us.
Indoctrinating children is wrong and they should be aloud to explore the world and all of it's religions without having their feeble little minds warped by some **** parent who thinks that because they believe in a religion that their child has to. They can go F...UCK themselves. In fact, everyone who thinks they can spurt their religions around the place can go **** themselves as well, they should keep their religions to themselves.
Leave your kids out of it and let them grow as people, not puppets.
Yes, there may be a few curse words in there but **** it, I'll say whatever the **** I want to ******* say when something as special as my childhood is warped by the traditions and words of some ****s who teach children about such horrible things as hell and the fact that a big hairy guy is watching them while they sleep.
Religion is like a P...enis.
It's okay to have one.
It's okay to be proud of it.
But please, don't wave it around in front of me
and above all, don't try and shove it down me or my children's throats.
P.s, I have no hatred for the good, open minded and humble religious people, just those who think there belief is right and that they need to tell everyone about it.
Edited by Sean93, 29 November 2012 - 10:29 PM.