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Dating don'ts! What puts you off?


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#121    Biff Wellington

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Posted 02 November 2012 - 09:40 PM

Women that only like "typical" sex. I grew up with the internet, missionary just isn't gung to cut it. & religious women. Sorry but we are just going to butt heads in that department. Though it would probably lead to fun, angry "I hate you" sex


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Posted 02 November 2012 - 09:45 PM

View PostHasina, on 02 November 2012 - 07:01 PM, said:

snake going into my burrow.

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Posted 02 November 2012 - 10:03 PM

Women, who, when asked to tell me about themselves immediatley start with the sentance...

"Well, after I was released, I moved back in with my mother..."

If what I type offends you, don't see it as an attack, but as my opinion.

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Posted 06 November 2012 - 10:19 AM

View PostRedefining Success, on 02 November 2012 - 10:03 PM, said:

Women, who, when asked to tell me about themselves immediatley start with the sentance...

"Well, after I was released, I moved back in with my mother..."

LOL. A buddy and I stopped in a wing place for a pitcher of beer and some wings and noticed that the waitress was someone we went to high school with - not someone we actually KNEW, but someone we recognized. She clearly recognized us too so we decided to mess with her.

We told her we'd been in prison for the last 6 years because we shot a store clerk during a robbery. We just got out that very morning and having our priorities in order, we were going to kill a pitcher of beer and then find a woman we could take out six years of pent up sexual energy on. At this point, I give her that little eyebrow raise and ask her when she gets off. Her response, "Sorry, I'd love to, but I'm married so I can't help... wait a minute!!" - then she gives us her SISTER'S phone number.


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Posted 06 November 2012 - 01:09 PM

I'm with Biff on this one, I can't stand traditional minded women persist the man has to go first in a relationship, which to me is submission to her male lover and she feels men have to be "assertive", but it reminds me of an abusive dominating role instead of egalitarianism.

You have to be careful discussing politics, religion or anything "divisive" (includes sports) on a date, then I want a date who I can have an intelligent conversation with and has an open mind, not react towards me in a way "you're wrong" and "you didn't do your research". Later dates are when you can open up more on how you feel in such things, therefore avoid those kinds of subjects unless your date doesn't object to them.

Chivalry of a man paying for a date is still a popular aspect of good dating behavior, but a date should offer an option to help pay for a dinner when in today's world, more women are financially stable and independent.  

And have basic manners, doesn't hurt to have some etiquette or common sense in a date. Both genders in dates don't burp, fart, swear or curse in public, and act like jerks (period). No loudness/tone, unexcused interruption and dominating the conversation.

Edited by Tsa-La-Gie Oyate, 06 November 2012 - 01:11 PM.

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Posted 06 November 2012 - 01:23 PM

View PostBiff Wellington, on 02 November 2012 - 09:40 PM, said:

Women that only like "typical" sex. I grew up with the internet, missionary just isn't gung to cut it. & religious women. Sorry but we are just going to butt heads in that department. Though it would probably lead to fun, angry "I hate you" sex
Not before marriage! :D

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Posted 06 November 2012 - 01:52 PM

View PostTsa-La-Gie Oyate, on 06 November 2012 - 01:09 PM, said:

I'm with Biff on this one, I can't stand traditional minded women persist the man has to go first in a relationship, which to me is submission to her male lover and she feels men have to be "assertive", but it reminds me of an abusive dominating role instead of egalitarianism.

On this, I can go either way. I'm a little on the assertive side anyway but don't have a problem with egalitarianism (as long as she's not constantly talking about egalitarianism, then I start thinking about being abusive).

View PostTsa-La-Gie Oyate, on 06 November 2012 - 01:09 PM, said:

You have to be careful discussing politics, religion or anything "divisive" (includes sports) on a date, then I want a date who I can have an intelligent conversation with and has an open mind, not react towards me in a way "you're wrong" and "you didn't do your research". Later dates are when you can open up more on how you feel in such things, therefore avoid those kinds of subjects unless your date doesn't object to them.

See, I feel the exact opposite on this. I believe you can spend a lifetime getting to know someone you're compatible with but it only takes a couple of minutes on the right topic to figure out if you're not compatible. Why waste time? If I'm actually on a date with a woman it means we've already had sex and I approve of her qualities in that area so what I'm looking at now is whether her personality/interests fit well with mine. I'm not saying start an argument, but if she's the type to escalate a minor disagreement into one, the sooner I know, the less time I waste on her.


View PostTsa-La-Gie Oyate, on 06 November 2012 - 01:09 PM, said:

Chivalry of a man paying for a date is still a popular aspect of good dating behavior, but a date should offer an option to help pay for a dinner when in today's world, more women are financially stable and independent.  



View PostTsa-La-Gie Oyate, on 06 November 2012 - 01:09 PM, said:

And have basic manners, doesn't hurt to have some etiquette or common sense in a date. Both genders in dates don't burp, fart, swear or curse in public, and act like jerks (period). No loudness/tone, unexcused interruption and dominating the conversation.

... unless you have a tendency to burp, fart, etc. pretty much anytime. Being on your best behavior is just wasting both your time. If she doesn't like who you really are, what's the point?


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Posted 12 November 2012 - 07:57 PM

View PostPulsar_J, on 06 November 2012 - 01:23 PM, said:


Not before marriage! :D
That's when all the REAL perversions come out.


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Posted 13 November 2012 - 08:57 PM

View PostTHE MATRIX, on 18 October 2012 - 11:37 PM, said:

When she gets mad because while dating her, I was dating her  prettier younger sister or her mom behind her back.

Ya I'm sure that just happens to you like all the time, you're beat'n them off with a stick I bet uh ahaha okay then you woke up!!

Haha omg that's too funny, I love it!


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Posted 13 November 2012 - 09:00 PM

View PostViviana98, on 13 November 2012 - 08:57 PM, said:

Ya I'm sure that just happens to you like all the time, you're beat'n them off with a stick I bet uh ahaha okay then you woke up!!

Haha omg that's too funny, I love it!

On a related cautionary note, I can say from experience that pretending to accidently call out a woman's sister's name during sex is a bad idea...


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Posted 13 November 2012 - 09:11 PM

I really like a guy I can have fun and be goofy with but also knows when to be serious.


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Posted 13 November 2012 - 09:17 PM

View Postsam12six, on 13 November 2012 - 09:00 PM, said:

On a related cautionary note, I can say from experience that pretending to accidently call out a woman's sister's name during sex is a bad idea...

If there wasn't some kind of inside joke you guys had about her sister or something and it was just came out of no where then ya I could see that being a bit of an issue lmao. Why would you call her sisters name out...what exactly was going through your mind at that moment that made you think that, that was a good idea??

Edited by Viviana98, 13 November 2012 - 09:20 PM.


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Posted 13 November 2012 - 09:50 PM

View Postsam12six, on 13 November 2012 - 09:00 PM, said:

On a related cautionary note, I can say from experience that pretending to accidently call out a woman's sister's name during sex is a bad idea...

In this neck of the woods that's known as Rodeo Sex......Call her by her sister's name then see how long you can stay in the saddle!

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Posted 13 November 2012 - 10:37 PM

View Postealdwita, on 13 November 2012 - 09:50 PM, said:

In this neck of the woods that's known as Rodeo Sex......Call her by her sister's name then see how long you can stay in the saddle!

I have heard so many guys over here say the same thing.. thinking they are funny  lol

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Posted 13 November 2012 - 11:00 PM

View PostViviana98, on 13 November 2012 - 09:17 PM, said:

If there wasn't some kind of inside joke you guys had about her sister or something and it was just came out of no where then ya I could see that being a bit of an issue lmao. Why would you call her sisters name out...what exactly was going through your mind at that moment that made you think that, that was a good idea??

I'm just weird.

One of my favorite things to do is set the stereotypical seduction mood with a fire and lights turned low, slowly sit next to her and hand her a drink with deep and serious eye contact, then hit the remote on my CD player just to see her reaction as the dulcet tones of Alvin and the Chipmunks inform us that Christmas time is here. Also, I've been known to pause in mid-coital activity and say, "Knock-Knock..."





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