Frank Merton, on 01 February 2013 - 03:42 PM, said:
And I look at the same thing and see so clearly that there can't possibly be a God. Interesting how two people can look at the same thing so differently.
Indeed this is most true.. People will view it in a different light.
A real life situation that sickened me ..My husbands uncle Gerald, spent his life working in the TV repair business, and part time, he worked for his local church.. He was a regular church goer and he organised many church functions.. He was a really decent bloke..
Garys mother ( my monster in law ) never went near church, unless if she was invited to the odd wedding and funeral.. Other than that Eileen wouldn't show her face... She never cared to look at a bible, and Gary told me she wasn't the praying type.. In fact, Sunday mornings were her hangover mornings..
His uncle Gerald, is diagnosed with brain cancer... He was going in for treatment...He prayed hard that all will work out.. He was only in his early 50's and was looking forward to seeing his new grandchildren.. He had so much planned.. The minister to whom Gerald was close friends with, ( same minister is my brothers father in law ) held some church services asking for others to pray for Gerald...
After chemo, everyone thought Gerald was going to be better.. I must admit, when I saw him at his sons wedding, I thought he might make it..But he was still sick, he looked so frail ... Months later before his eldest had another baby, Gerald was told his cancer has spread too far, and nothing more can be done... Gerald died a few years ago..This indeed was sad.. All the praying, church services and treatments, could not save him
What sickened me.. Garys mother, the one I mentioned earlier .. Had a cancer scare.. What she was told is, bad cells showing up on her tests, look like it can turn cancerous, if they are left longer.. She needed to act ASAP to eliminate them before anything were to develop into cancer ... She is one heck of a milker.. She milked the life out of this and fishes for a lot of attention.. Planned meetings to have people sit down to hear her news.. She didn't like it when some said, you are lucky to catch this early and it isn't cancer as yet, so NOT what she wanted to hear.. What she wanted was, for people to cry and show her how saddened it all is..But people were trying to keep her positive.. Eileen even put on one of those sick voices, like as if she had a sore throat..and talked like she did...
Thing is, she didn't need any cancer treatments ( because it wasn't cancer and just a few cells ) but still had regular visits to the hospital and was given meds.. Later her sister convinces her that god spared her, and now Eileen goes to church every week...
She tells people how god looked out for her.. She plumb forgot about her brother in law Gerald, who was a much nicer man, and dedicated a lot of his time to god and the church, but he was not spared despite church services and prayers along with treatments..
My husband Gary will admit that it just looks so weird.. He is glad his mother never had to face cancer, but he cannot understand why his uncle did.. . He knows what his mother is like.. The sad thing about this was - His uncle Gerald was so looking forward to seeing his grandkids come into the world and grow up a bit... His mother
Eileen ( the monster in law )
told my husband she didn't like the fact I was having a second child... So when my little girl did die, Eileen never so much as paid me a phone call.... She doesn't appreciatethe idea of other grandchildren.. All she cares about is herself and when is the next cruise date lined up for her, so she can go off on her usual holidays
Two completely different human beings.. To lay the emphasis -
One was a gentleman, who was well liked, the other a spoilt rotten wind bag that loves to interfere and huff a lot, who should make special appearances on CSI drama, as she is great at playing the victim ( Ok I am getting a bit carried away there lol ) . Yet one was spared and the other suffered and died.. The only thing Eileen had to suffer was from a hangover.. So when she thinks she can come into our house and nag about going to church, with her usual line - "But you HAVE to go.. God spared me".. I cringe I would love to slap her in the gob and say - Did god spare you from that? But I wouldn't, I couldn't do that, she just annoys the life out of me and others..
This world we live in is weird..
Edited by Beckys_Mom, 01 February 2013 - 05:06 PM.