Whats your opinon on Phyllis Krystal method?

[Big Bad Voodoo]

Cutting the Ties That Bind

We are all bound by invisible chains that bind us, block us and keep us from being who we really are. These ties come from childhood from family environment, culture, fears or reactions to events that took place years ago.

A method developed by Phyllis Krystal can help us to cut the ties that bind us to anyone or anything that acts as an authority and exerts control over us. Detachment from such control will allow us to remove the accumulated layers of conditioning which obscure the inner light of the Higher Consciousness (Hi C) or Real Self. The exercises that are contained in this method can help to free us from everything that prevents the Real Self from being expressed through the exterior shell or receptacle comprised of the body, mind, personality and ego.

Anyone have experience with this method?

Has anyone read her book?

Thanks in advance

[Big Bad Voodoo]

Anyone?

[Simbi Laveau]

*scratches head* This is new to me,and I've heard of a lot of weird stuff.

I cannot see how this can be a credible thing .

In my world,someone has to do magick on you,to bind you to them,and that's considered black magick.

Or,you mentally allow yourself to be subjugated by someone else.

I realize that's not what's being demonstrated here,but that's why I dont find it legit.

People are not arbitrarily bound to others by unseen cords of energy.I know I never have so....its bizarre to me ,is all I can say.

Edited March 26, 2012 by missymoo999

[karmakazi]

I have never heard of Phyllis or her book, but this is similar to something I've been working on for a while and have written about.

I refer to it instead as expectations, the expectations we have of our selves, of others, that they actually have of us and the expectactions we think they have of us. These four things shape how we react to situations and make decisions, impact our emotional responses to events in our lives and as long as they are left as our primary mode of having interactions and relationships they essentially become "us". This is not unlike Jung's concepts of archetypes... well not entirely unlike it anyway

I'm not sure what Phyllis' technique is, but for me it is to constantly question why I do the things I do, why I have the expectations of others that I have, why, why, why. If you ask it enough times, eventually you get to a real answer, a deep truth, and it can shape the way you think afterwards if you let it.

[Leonardo]

Cutting the Ties That Bind

We are all bound by invisible chains that bind us, block us and keep us from being who we really are. These ties come from childhood from family environment, culture, fears or reactions to events that took place years ago.

A method developed by Phyllis Krystal can help us to cut the ties that bind us to anyone or anything that acts as an authority and exerts control over us. Detachment from such control will allow us to remove the accumulated layers of conditioning which obscure the inner light of the Higher Consciousness (Hi C) or Real Self. The exercises that are contained in this method can help to free us from everything that prevents the Real Self from being expressed through the exterior shell or receptacle comprised of the body, mind, personality and ego.

I have never heard of the person, nor read any of her works but, from what is posted, it seems to me from there are some serious flaws in her fundamental understanding of identity.

Our 'real self', or identity, does not grow in isolation but is a composite of our own solitary experiences, and our experiences of/with others. Who we are is, at least in part, molded by others - and there is no escaping that, short of going to live a completely solitary life from a very early age.

The terminology used in the brief exerpt posted ("Higher Consciousness", "Real Self") invoke a "New Agey" sense, in my opinion. Without 'healing crystals' or props like that, maybe, but "New Agey" nonetheless. There also seem to be elements derivative of Buddhism in what she espouses.

[markdohle]

Cutting the Ties That Bind

We are all bound by invisible chains that bind us, block us and keep us from being who we really are. These ties come from childhood from family environment, culture, fears or reactions to events that took place years ago.

A method developed by Phyllis Krystal can help us to cut the ties that bind us to anyone or anything that acts as an authority and exerts control over us. Detachment from such control will allow us to remove the accumulated layers of conditioning which obscure the inner light of the Higher Consciousness (Hi C) or Real Self. The exercises that are contained in this method can help to free us from everything that prevents the Real Self from being expressed through the exterior shell or receptacle comprised of the body, mind, personality and ego.

Anyone have experience with this method?

Has anyone read her book?

Thanks in advance

I have never heard of this method my friend, will look into it.

Peace

mark

[Clarakore]

This sounds like Berne's Transactional Analysis crossed with a reverse form of Henry Melvill's quote on sympathetic threads.

In transactional analysis the scripts we formed in childhood form the basis of our behaviors in adulthood. So it is not specific as to what person gave us the model for a any script even if we still operate using those same scripts. So change is not about cutting the ties that bind us to others but simply changing the script.

Melvill pointed out how we are all connected to each other, whether we choose to be or not, and not necessarily in a positive or negative manner but neutrally. It can be negative in the fact that most people who are overweight have gained it in clusters but the reverse also holds true in that if those around you begin to live more healthier lifestyles you would be doing the same too. Another example is that women living within close proximity, such as an apartment complex, but never actually talk to each other, would still synch up their monthly periods just as best friends do.

I have also done one spell using knot magic to unbind myself from another. Not that either of us intentionally bound ourselves but through the fantasies we shared and lies we told ourselves some illusions had to be shattered on my part to move on long after they seemingly did.

Well this Phyllis Krystal method doesn't seem so foreign or strange to me but since it appears to be aimed at those who are hurting I would be very leery if it came with a price tag.