Posted 19 June 2011 - 06:36 PM
my husbands mum died when my son was 2 ish. (note he was an early talker , been chattering from when he was about 9 months old) he always would say that grandma would often come and see him during the night because he made her happy! he said she would sit on his bed and smile at him. one time i asked him if she came alone and he replied that no, sometimes she would bring a man and a dog. when i asked who the man might be my son just said bob. (her husband who died 20 years ago and never met my son was called bob) another time he was talking about the dog (he loves dogs) and he said the dog was small like a cat and called tippy. i asked my husband if his mum had had a dog called tippy and as a young girl she had a dog named tip but it was a border collie so not a tiny one.
a month or 2 later i was having a bit of a clear out and had found a picture of my mum in laws yorkshire terrier, i never thought any thing of it and stuck it behind an ornament on the mantlepiece. my son comes in and straight away sees the picture and says oh look theres tippy! the dog wasnt called tippy but teaka, and shed died about 15 years before my son was born, was in life my mother and father in laws world.
i dont know if it was my mum in law visiting, but it would be so nice if it was..she was too ill during the 2 years she had with my son to get to know him well, and it would be nice to think she was popping in. my son is now 11 and never mentions his visits now, he stopped talking about them when he was about 5.