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[charu]

My father expired in jan & my young nephew who was just 17 he used to stay with us committed suicide after 15days of his death , i have been having dreams about both of them every night since past 2 months as i jus got married 2months back , i wake up evry single night with their dream , its more of my nephew that i see in my dreams  . I dunno why is it happening to me , can anyone help me ?

[lizzieboo]

I remembered another dream about a dead relative. The night before I got married, my grandmother came to me to tell me that even though she couldn't be there in body, she and my grandfather would both be there in spirit. Oddly (or maybe not so oddly), I had a very strong sense of my grandparents' presence behind me as I stood at the altar. Yeah, there was a whole church full of people behind me, but what I felt was very specific: My Grandmom and Grandpop were standing all the way at the back of the church, watching over me. I was so certain that they were there that I knew if I turned around, I'd see them. But I also knew that if I did, they'd vanish, and I wanted them to stay, so I didn't turn around.

Over the years I've had other dreams about dead relatives, but never any others in which they were actually there, speaking to me directly through the medium of a dream.

[kortkool14]

HELLO EVERYONE,


  Im so happy to read everyones experience. my uncle commited suicide about 5 years ago and about a year ago
i saw him in a dream , i have been very angry with him because we were very close and i couldnt understand why he did this, so when he came to me in a dream i new i was dreaming and it took me a while to go and talk to him , when i finallly did i was just so happy to see him i didnt ask why, we just talked and laughed, after our conversation he got up and gave me a huge hug and told me he was sorry and that he loved me and he walked out. i felt so much better after this . a few weeks later i was having a dream i was on a family vacation and my mother and i were having a conversation and my uncle suddenly interruped us so i stood up and asked him to follow me into the kitchen, i looked at him and i told him i knew he was dead and that i knew i was dreaming , my dream suddenly got really fuzzy and he started to say that i wasnt supposed to be able to tell i was dreaming and that i shouldnt know he was REALLY there, he told me if i kept it to myself he could stay and he could keep visiting me . after that the dream went back to normal and i just stared at him the whole time, but unfourtunatly i told my mother about the dream and he hasnt visted since..

i also had a dream about my great grandmother who passed away about 1 year ago at 103 years old , like the last time i knew i was dreaming, she was sitting on the porch and when i saw her and i immediately started to cry she told me that she missed me and that she loved me and we just sat and held hands, before i woke up she told me to tell everyone that she loved them and she is very happy . i was so happy that i got to see her and that she is happy .

[KrissyC]

It has been a year since my cousin passed away. She was like a little sister to me, she was only 18yrs old ... I cannot stop having dreams about her. She died in a car accident and for a long time I did not go out bcuz I was depressed. Few months later I slowly went out with some of my cousins. I had a dream a guy who we both knew passed away about 2 yrs ago and told me it seemed like i didn't care for my cousin bcuz I was going out. I told him I did care but when i'm at home all I can think about is her. Like the next month she comes and asks me if I miss her. I told her of coarse, there's not a day I don't think about her. Well i've only been to the cemetary about 4 times since she's passed. I never thought that would be the place I would visit her so I try to stay away from there. Recently I've been having dreams about her being real mad at me. And I try to talk to her and she tells me to go away with an angry face. 2 days later same thing, she's sitting a chair next to me, I start crying bcuz she is angry with me and I am clueless to why she is angry with me. She then gets close to me and hugs me. I tell her I don't know why you're mad at me. I just want to know what these dreams mean and if she's upset bcuz she thinks I forgot about her since I haven't been to the cemetary since April. I don't know what to do ... should I go to the cemetary and let her know all this ? Is this why she may be upset ????

Edited by KrissyC, 20 August 2012 - 02:05 AM.

[White Unicorn]

KrissyC, on 20 August 2012 - 01:59 AM, said:

It has been a year since my cousin passed away. She was like a little sister to me, she was only 18yrs old ... I cannot stop having dreams about her. She died in a car accident and for a long time I did not go out bcuz I was depressed. Few months later I slowly went out with some of my cousins. I had a dream a guy who we both knew passed away about 2 yrs ago and told me it seemed like i didn't care for my cousin bcuz I was going out. I told him I did care but when i'm at home all I can think about is her. Like the next month she comes and asks me if I miss her. I told her of coarse, there's not a day I don't think about her. Well i've only been to the cemetary about 4 times since she's passed. I never thought that would be the place I would visit her so I try to stay away from there. Recently I've been having dreams about her being real mad at me. And I try to talk to her and she tells me to go away with an angry face. 2 days later same thing, she's sitting a chair next to me, I start crying bcuz she is angry with me and I am clueless to why she is angry with me. She then gets close to me and hugs me. I tell her I don't know why you're mad at me. I just want to know what these dreams mean and if she's upset bcuz she thinks I forgot about her since I haven't been to the cemetary since April. I don't know what to do ... should I go to the cemetary and let her know all this ? Is this why she may be upset ????

Before she passed was there something you two were planning to do together that never happened because of the accident?

Something like that might  cause the feeling you are getting about anger and even some guilt on your part.  I understand going to the cemetery is a hard thing but I noticed you said "I try to stay away from there" I think you might really be feeling a little guilty about something. I think something needs to be reconciled before you can find acceptance and move on with your own life.

[Seeker79]

KrissyC, on 20 August 2012 - 01:59 AM, said:

It has been a year since my cousin passed away. She was like a little sister to me, she was only 18yrs old ... I cannot stop having dreams about her. She died in a car accident and for a long time I did not go out bcuz I was depressed. Few months later I slowly went out with some of my cousins. I had a dream a guy who we both knew passed away about 2 yrs ago and told me it seemed like i didn't care for my cousin bcuz I was going out. I told him I did care but when i'm at home all I can think about is her. Like the next month she comes and asks me if I miss her. I told her of coarse, there's not a day I don't think about her. Well i've only been to the cemetary about 4 times since she's passed. I never thought that would be the place I would visit her so I try to stay away from there. Recently I've been having dreams about her being real mad at me. And I try to talk to her and she tells me to go away with an angry face. 2 days later same thing, she's sitting a chair next to me, I start crying bcuz she is angry with me and I am clueless to why she is angry with me. She then gets close to me and hugs me. I tell her I don't know why you're mad at me. I just want to know what these dreams mean and if she's upset bcuz she thinks I forgot about her since I haven't been to the cemetary since April. I don't know what to do ... should I go to the cemetary and let her know all this ? Is this why she may be upset ????

I am so sorry for your loss Krissy.

Let me tell you. As one who knows the spirt world fairly well, aswell as the dream world.

Your dreams are where we play out inner conflicts. Just let those dreams happen, it's your sub conciousness way of working through things. You may have a legitimate encounter with your cousin one day, and I gurantee you will know it.

[dreamingofbaja]

My friend committed suicide 2 months ago.  I live across the street from his house.  Last night I was dreaming that I was cleaning a restroom in a local historic park and he showed up and started telling me about the history of the buildings in the area.  I was bending down cleaning the floor and realized that this was a dream and I knew he was dead.  I decided to ask him why he did it.  I stood up and told him I wanted to ask him a question.  I asked him why he did it.  He looked at me and said because...and what he said I couldn't understand and he started crying.  I said "it's ok" aloud and woke myself up.  

When I was young (20+ years ago) my dad practiced taking control of dreams.  This is only the third time I recall being able to control a dream but my first dream with someone who has passed away.  It was all so real and I felt so strange when I woke up like he was still there.

[raat ki rani]

hi all,

rly glad to hv had encountered this site as im rly looking for some answers.

im 24 years old . my mom died 10 years back and her mother died 2 years before she died. im a single child and i was my moms obsession. both of them died due to illness. they didnt hv an easy death as my moms death was uncalled for .n i would like to mention that she had faced a lot of problems due to my father and his family which gt resolved before she passed away.she faced a lot of injustice from her own real sister who pretended to be loyal and loving. somewhere she died due to my aunts selfish interests.

I never had their dreams till i turned 21. i was an atheist and was told by my tarot card reader 2 years ago tat i wud bcum a reader myself and be vry spiritual.and exactly aftr 6 months i was gifted my first tarot deck ,with time i got better at my tarot practise and became more and more spiritual.

since i started doing angel tarot which is 3 months from now i hv been having my moms dreams where i feel she is really upset and crying. Yesterday i got had a dream where i felt that she wants me to feel the injustice done to her by her own sister.And today in the morning i was really emotionally drained. Also i nvr dreamt about my maternal grand ma but recently i had a lucid dream that she is shouting and screaming and i woke up all sweating and scared.

I have noticed that since i hv started doing angel tarot and asked them for guidance ,also, due to a lot of meditation iam beginning to feel that they are in pain which is very emotionally draining for me.

i really need all of u to help me in figuring out as to how should i deal with this as i want to help my deceased ones to be at ease as i hv a vry strong intution that thy r trying to connect with me to get justice and make me aware about my aunts misdeeds.

Looking for support from all of u

[CoolTeenNC]

My mom, grandmother and great grandmother (now dead) all see dead "relatives" in thier dreams. Even once all shared the same dream.My mom even had one of my "relatives" in her dream reveal things there were no way for her to have known on her own. I dont believe in ghost though, only Angels and demons. I believe that these "relatives" arejust demons trying to trick my paranomally sensitive family into fully believing in them, and thats when theg get ya, thats when possession happens and they trap you in their web to hell. Their dreams never add up and are never ending over the course of over 10 yrs I believe maybe longer. I know the truth about them so they avoid me. I ses orbs, you can read about under my threads, I pray they are Angels but I will never make contact with them regardless, just praying to God for me. All the dead have no way of contacting anyone, on demon pretend to be your loved ones or as someone you can feel comfort in as a child til they get you. Angel will never decieve you, demons may have a lot of worldy information to gain your trust but Angels know more. I hear Angels come as people you dont know and never lie

[raat ki rani]

hi thanx fr ur revert!

r u saying its nt my relatives but demons..but y wud they want to do sumthn on d lines??

totally confused here

[Seeker79]

raat ki rani, on 20 September 2012 - 09:16 AM, said:

hi all,

rly glad to hv had encountered this site as im rly looking for some answers.

im 24 years old . my mom died 10 years back and her mother died 2 years before she died. im a single child and i was my moms obsession. both of them died due to illness. they didnt hv an easy death as my moms death was uncalled for .n i would like to mention that she had faced a lot of problems due to my father and his family which gt resolved before she passed away.she faced a lot of injustice from her own real sister who pretended to be loyal and loving. somewhere she died due to my aunts selfish interests.

I never had their dreams till i turned 21. i was an atheist and was told by my tarot card reader 2 years ago tat i wud bcum a reader myself and be vry spiritual.and exactly aftr 6 months i was gifted my first tarot deck ,with time i got better at my tarot practise and became more and more spiritual.

since i started doing angel tarot which is 3 months from now i hv been having my moms dreams where i feel she is really upset and crying. Yesterday i got had a dream where i felt that she wants me to feel the injustice done to her by her own sister.And today in the morning i was really emotionally drained. Also i nvr dreamt about my maternal grand ma but recently i had a lucid dream that she is shouting and screaming and i woke up all sweating and scared.

I have noticed that since i hv started doing angel tarot and asked them for guidance ,also, due to a lot of meditation iam beginning to feel that they are in pain which is very emotionally draining for me.

i really need all of u to help me in figuring out as to how should i deal with this as i want to help my deceased ones to be at ease as i hv a vry strong intution that thy r trying to connect with me to get justice and make me aware about my aunts misdeeds.

Looking for support from all of u

They are not in pain... I promise. You however are. You should not be focused on the dead, you should be focused on yourself at the moment. If you are being successful at meditations, one of the first things to happen is welling up of these sorts of things. Just experience it and let it pass.

While you are doing this make sure to
1) take b vitamin supplements
2) vitamin c supplements
3) eat three handfuls of raw organic pumpkin seeds per day.

This will help you keep your chemistry straight while you meditate and face what you are feeling.

( check with your doctor first )

[CoolTeenNC]

raat ki rani, on 22 September 2012 - 10:37 AM, said:

hi thanx fr ur revert!

r u saying its nt my relatives but demons..but y wud they want to do sumthn on d lines??

totally confused here

OMG No! Lol im saying they are Demons pretending to be people no longer connected to anything on earth

[alianne]

My father passed away two weeks ago. He was sick for three years and his personality had totally changed completely, he was no longer my father, it felt. And then he went into the hospital and we thought that everything was going to get better, that when he got out he'd be back to his normal self. Then he had a heart attack. He was in Intensive care for a month...getting worse and worse. My mother and I went to see him every day. Sometimes more than once. We got to decide what day to put him on comfort care........December 1st. Everyone was there. It took him two and a half hours to pass away. But I miss him so much. He was the best father ever. I feel like I'll never be okay....

I wish that I could have a dream with him in it...a good dream. I don't remember my dreams often, but I think that I may have had a dream or two of him in it. If so, though, they weren't good dreams.

[theimmigrant]

I'm fourteen years old. My grandfather (mom's side) just passed away yesterday. Although we live in America where this is quite strange to some, he came with his wife (my grandmother) and lived with me and my parents because of our Filipino culture. Whenever the topic came up, my dad's friends would tell him how pitiful our situation was. I, along with my parents, truly love my grandparents, but they are quite a lot of work. I absolutely hated seeing my mom and dad get so tired all the time having to keep going back and forth to the hospital because of my sickly grandfather, as neither he nor my grandma could speak good English. My grandpa had not taken care of his health, as he smoked and ate a lot of unhealthy food and never exercised, practically disobeying the doctors at every turn. He was a fun guy before, but his loss of hearing and insistence to always be correct killed every conversation I tried to start. I didn't like it that he was sometimes stubborn and ungrateful for all my parents did for him, but we're still family, so I hated myself for hating him.
   About a week ago, he couldn't breathe because of a failing heart (this was way past the first time he had a near-death experience), so my dad took him straight to the hospital. He was resuscitated and put on life support. They told my parents and grandma that it would be useless to revive him again, as his heart would only suffer more and his kidneys, legs, and lungs were also in bad shape. We had to settle with the truth that he was going to die. I visited him for the last time yesterday, and I felt like it was my fault. I hadn't appreciated my grandfather at all, and now it all came crashing back to me. With his chest still heaving, I said my last words to him after my parents and grandma, telling him to have fun in Heaven. I also jokingly told him he could eat all the Subway sandwiches he could up there, which were his favorite. The doctor soon came and told us that he was already dead and that the machines/medications/life support was expanding his chest. I didn't even get to say a real goodbye to him.
   I went to sleep last night, trying to forget it all. I then dreamed that he had survived and got discharged. He came back to our house (on his own, strangely since he has weak legs and lungs and a failing heart) just in time for church. My grandma told him to hurry up like usual and get properly dressed. He then insisted we all eat Subway afterwards. Then the dream changed. After I woke up, that was the only dream I could remember. I regretted not spending enough time with him. I guess you don't know what you've got 'til it's gone.

[AmpleFyre]

I once had a dream of my mother shortly after she had passed. The overall experience was rather saddening and depressing for myself.
Yet I would still rather my mother be at peace, than have her watching over me. She's done more for me than I could ever ask for already.