Still Waters Posted November 15, 2014 #1 Share Posted November 15, 2014 (edited) Lying can often be easier and kinder than the truth, and anybody who claims they've never lied is probably lying right then. But it's surprising to see the stark figure that we lie, on average, ten times a week. The small fibs are so innocuous that they apparently trip off our tongue without us even noticing that we've deviating from the truth. But why do we lie so often - and at what point does lying become pathological? http://www.telegraph...why-we-lie.html Edited November 15, 2014 by Still Waters 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Minds_Eye Posted November 15, 2014 #2 Share Posted November 15, 2014 I don't know if anyone could take absolute honesty, especially if it's about themselves. Lying is both self-motivated and self-protective, and it does become dangerous when it's distorted to serve our own purposes. I'd rather omit the truth or bend my words than to outright lie. I struggle with being completely honest in situations where it could hurt or offend someone's feelings even though it's probably better in the long run for them to know the hard truth. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rashore Posted November 15, 2014 #3 Share Posted November 15, 2014 I can't say that I never lie, but I utterly loathe lying. So I will avoid the subject, change the topic, flat out say I'm refusing to answer, be brutally and/or kindly honest, not tell all I know in an answer, and make the truth dance a fine jig... all to avoid outright lying if I can help it. I'd rather take my lumps for being honest than suffer the consequences that lying can bring. It sure has cost me some friendships and goodwill at some jobs, but it has also ensured some friendships and gotten me some stellar references for other jobs. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted November 15, 2014 #4 Share Posted November 15, 2014 (edited) You sound like me, rashore. Try answering the phone at work with six people who constantly ask you to lie about where they were going and when they'd be back. That was a miserable and short employment. Question: Does this make my butt look big? Answer: It doesn't show off your best attributes. Edited November 15, 2014 by Michelle Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
back to earth Posted November 15, 2014 #5 Share Posted November 15, 2014 Some types of it are a type of 'social glue'. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
back to earth Posted November 15, 2014 #6 Share Posted November 15, 2014 You sound like me, rashore. Try answering the phone at work with six people who constantly ask you to lie about where they were going and when they'd be back. That was a miserable and short employment. Question: Does this make my butt look big? Answer: It doesn't show off your best attributes. The colour really matches your eyes . 'Islamic State' woman to another; "Does my bomb look big in this dress?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GrimmOne Posted November 16, 2014 #7 Share Posted November 16, 2014 I find telling the truth all of the time can become a type of prison, I use to lie all the time when I was younger little things though. Nothing huge. Also there is no such thing as a white lie, lying is lying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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