My Incredibly Weird "soulmate" Issue

[SilentWhispers07]

I'm just going to explain this in the clearest way possible, but I will warn you that this is extremely weird... I don't even really understand it myself.

Last year, I read a book that I felt a strange pull towards. In that book, I felt pulled particularly to one character, and it was almost like magic. I could picture him exactly in my mind, and even hear his voice. To me, it was like he was a real person. Every time I tried to find someone that looked like him I failed. It was like there was someone in particular I was supposed to find, but I couldn't.

That summer, a friend showed me a video of a band and I was surprised to find the boy in my head dancing and singing on my laptop screen. He was a real person. There was absolutely no doubt in my mind. He was the boy I'd been searching for. It was like that moment something inside me clicked and I couldn't shake the feeling that I knew him even though I'd never met him.

Over the months I found out that I'd grown to love him, but not for the fame or the fact he resembled a beloved character. I loved him for every part of him that was him. When he felt sadness, I could feel it tenfold, and just seeing his shy smile could make my day better. I felt whole whenever I saw him. and I still do. I think he might be my soulmate or twin flame, because to me, that's the only explanation that makes sense to why I imagined him before I saw him, and how even though he's never spoken a word to me, I can't rid myself of the love I have for him. I'd take him in just a tank top and sweat pants with mussed up hair. I feel as if my heart will never be satisfied until it's finally reunited with his. I really need advice about this... I need to know what people wiser think. Does anyone else have a similar story, or perhaps another pssible explanation? Cuz now I feel like I might be the only one in the world with a situation like this and that kinda scares me.

[John from Lowell]

Hi,

You are hardly the only person with this kind of experience. We all have a number of soul bond relationships. It would be good if you could discover what your physical life potentials would be with this guy. Do you have any type of meditative practice where you can imaging a conversation with a spirit guide or your deep inner wisdom?

Thanks,

John

[Careful_perspective]

I'm not trying to be rude, but I saw from your profile that you are 18. I can remember at that age having a lot of crushes to men in bands, or actors in movies. I was obsessed with one guy in a band, and it was painful to imagine him, the world seemed unjust because I couldn't be with him. Then, simply put, I grew out of it. You are in love with an idea, like a pretty set of clothes. People do it all the time. They imagine what they want (the pretty set of clothes) and we put it on people, we don't care if it looks good on them, we don't care if it fits them, we just want them in those clothes. But it turns out we never truly loved them, just the clothes.

Also, as far as the book goes, I think you are lucky to have found a book you are able to make a real connection with and loose yourself in it. A lot of people don't read and miss the joy a great book can bring you,

[mystic_mind]

I think woodsbooger (what a name lol) is pretty accurate. You're at an influential age and probably fantasy-prone too. Nothing wrong with that but try to be realistic that things may not seem how they "feel". Have you tried to meet this singer out of fun? It wouldn't hurt, and it might give you a better feel of the situation. If, in real life, the emotions aren't there between you two then chalk it up to youth and move on.

[Arienne87]

Well, mystic_mind and woodsbooger you can be right.

But what I hear in your reactions is that you don't take her serious.

to SilentWhispers07 ; Wow this must be confusing for you. I have not expierenced anything like your story, and haven't heard anything alike either.

But we are all different. We all have our own journey. You have yours. You don't have to be scared because you think you are the only one.

You should rather be excited in the belief of finding your soulmate!

What I understand about your post is that you haven't tried to contact him, hang out together, talk face to face?

Im curious why you have been waiting for so long to do so. What are your fears?

You say that you your heart will never be statisfied as long as you two aren't reunited? If your heart is speaking so loudly, what is holding you back to make you reunite yourselfs? Why haven't you made a move yet?

Only then, you will know if he feels the same about you.

[Blue Star]

I'm just going to explain this in the clearest way possible, but I will warn you that this is extremely weird... I don't even really understand it myself.

Last year, I read a book that I felt a strange pull towards. In that book, I felt pulled particularly to one character, and it was almost like magic. I could picture him exactly in my mind, and even hear his voice. To me, it was like he was a real person. Every time I tried to find someone that looked like him I failed. It was like there was someone in particular I was supposed to find, but I couldn't.

That summer, a friend showed me a video of a band and I was surprised to find the boy in my head dancing and singing on my laptop screen. He was a real person. There was absolutely no doubt in my mind. He was the boy I'd been searching for. It was like that moment something inside me clicked and I couldn't shake the feeling that I knew him even though I'd never met him.

Over the months I found out that I'd grown to love him, but not for the fame or the fact he resembled a beloved character. I loved him for every part of him that was him. When he felt sadness, I could feel it tenfold, and just seeing his shy smile could make my day better. I felt whole whenever I saw him. and I still do. I think he might be my soulmate or twin flame, because to me, that's the only explanation that makes sense to why I imagined him before I saw him, and how even though he's never spoken a word to me, I can't rid myself of the love I have for him. I'd take him in just a tank top and sweat pants with mussed up hair. I feel as if my heart will never be satisfied until it's finally reunited with his. I really need advice about this... I need to know what people wiser think. Does anyone else have a similar story, or perhaps another pssible explanation? Cuz now I feel like I might be the only one in the world with a situation like this and that kinda scares me.

Ok, Firstly,

Well done, you have explained this issue in a concise and clear manor, SilentWhispers07.

Thank's for the warning, lovely but it honestly isn't weird to me at all.

It is clear you don't really understand it yourself or you wouldn't be asking now, would you?

It's good to read and it is great to have a clear and well defined imagination and the ability to visualise things, people and events.

So,

Well done there too. : )

Personally, I only read books i feel drawn to myself. It seems the most sensible thing to do after all.

I often imagine people myself and then hey presto! There they are….I meet or have some dealings with them. Doesn't everyone? Well anyway, it is normal for me.

So no need to feel alone, You're not alone in this.

it is possible that it felt strange because you had never consciously been aware of it before.

It does seem to be the way of it,

That when we run around effort-ing about things, the very thing we are searching for alludes us and only when we relax and let it go…. That it then can and does manifest with such incredible ease.

That,

it can be a surprise but really again,

This is just the way of it… some call it the Law of Attraction. You make a call, it is answered.

It is nice to get confirmation about these things so i can imagine your pleasure at finding him, even if only on a lap top screen. Yes he is real.

it is wonderful to have such clarity.

That,

'Something inside me clicked', feeling may well have been your internal realisation that you can trust your own knowings about things and that following your own knowings/ wisdom, is very rewarding indeed. Well done again : )

Good that you are so clear about your soul connection, it can feel so soothing to feel this click in.

It is just the best, to feel love and it's great that you do feel love.

Even if,

You don't really know him, as yet.

It is however clear, that you can now ask yourself…. What is it exactly, you love about this person because as you must see, it is these things that you are in love with….. Rather than him. As you have never met, as yet.

If you see my point.

Isn't being in love, just the best feeling ever?

Now, serious face…

This business about 'feeling whole' … You are whole. No one needs any other 'one' else to feel whole. This is just so off, who you really are. That sounds a bit clingy and needy to me.

Because,

it simple isn't true.

As you are whole. No one else can complete you or any such thing. That is looking for love in all the wrong places, if you get me?

I can not say if he is your twin flame but i can say there is a definite connection there. As for it being the only explanation…. Well, honestly no, i can think of many other explanations besides but which one is true is really up to you, lovely : )

How deep that connection goes and what it means in the future, only you can know this.

Allow it to unfold for you. Step by step.

Enjoy the now,

Unfolding and allow it to yield up the pathway, all of its own.

No need to push or force anything, just allow and it will become clear to you.

Enjoy the process of the unfolding and allow it to be what it is.

Why would you wish to rid yourself of this love you have?

That doesn't make sense to me… love is love, is Love….. Enjoy, bask in the love you have for him, that's cool. Isn't it?

Now, again with the dramatics…..

Your, 'heart will NEVER be Satisfied, until it's finally reunited with his'

WTF!!!!!

Now, hold on a cotton picking' mo', there….

Firstly,

There are always going to be other things you are wanting. It is the way of expansion, creation, life, thats all.

If you want satisfaction, then have a lobotomy.

Because,

You ain't gonna reach a point of satisfaction via anyone else thats for sure, they can't fulfil you.

That's no else's job but yours.

You are the one to please you and satisfy you, no one else can do that.

And

As for 'Finally, 'finally'!

Man, life is an on going expansion, to be explored, experienced and lived for the fun, love and delight of it all.

There is no end date to this, until you crock but even then…. Well, thats another subject…..

So, whats with the 'Finally reunited' thing????

Doesn't that just sound as off to you, as it does to me?

You are focusing on the lack of what you want there, rather than the having of what you desire. You can never get there, from there. You can only attract more of the lack… understand, like attracts like. You have to look to what it is you really want, not what is missing. Keep refocusing on what you desire.

i hope this has helped in your clarity and your trust in your own knowing wisdom more than listening to others opinions…For only you can really know what is best for you.

But something bothers me about how you end your post…. With 'scared'…..

Fear, is the short cut to nowhere your wanting to go.

So, what exactly is it you are scared of, my dear?

Edited February 3, 2015 by Blue Star

[SkyRainSea]

Ok, Firstly,

Well done, you have explained this issue in a concise and clear manor, SilentWhispers07.

Thank's for the warning, lovely but it honestly isn't weird to me at all.

It is clear you don't really understand it yourself or you wouldn't be asking now, would you?

It's good to read and it is great to have a clear and well defined imagination and the ability to visualise things, people and events.

So,

Well done there too. : )

Personally, I only read books i feel drawn to myself. It seems the most sensible thing to do after all.

I often imagine people myself and then hey presto! There they are….I meet or have some dealings with them. Doesn't everyone? Well anyway, it is normal for me.

So no need to feel alone, You're not alone in this.

it is possible that it felt strange because you had never consciously been aware of it before.

It does seem to be the way of it,

That when we run around effort-ing about things, the very thing we are searching for alludes us and only when we relax and let it go…. That it then can and does manifest with such incredible ease.

That,

it can be a surprise but really again,

This is just the way of it… some call it the Law of Attraction. You make a call, it is answered.

It is nice to get confirmation about these things so i can imagine your pleasure at finding him, even if only on a lap top screen. Yes he is real.

it is wonderful to have such clarity.

That,

'Something inside me clicked', feeling may well have been your internal realisation that you can trust your own knowings about things and that following your own knowings/ wisdom, is very rewarding indeed. Well done again : )

Good that you are so clear about your soul connection, it can feel so soothing to feel this click in.

It is just the best, to feel love and it's great that you do feel love.

Even if, ....................

This is a beautiful post, Blue Star. Much wisdom here - I hope the OP finds some comfort and inspiration in your words.