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#1    SereneScene

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Posted 07 December 2012 - 04:22 AM

So there is this girl at work and I have this intense feeling whenever I see her, I am really attracted to her and really want to get to know her, she also keeps popping up in my mind.

I have been in relationships before but the reason I ask this is because I never got this intense feeling before, not the first time seeing my ex for example, there are plenty of hot chicks at my job and while yes I think "Man shes really hot!" I dont get some crazy feeling like this, anyone ever feel like this?

Every time I see her I wanna talk to her but I get nervous :(

Odd feeling.


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Posted 07 December 2012 - 04:27 AM

Whoops, didn't read your gender. So I deleted my post.

Anyway, it still stands that a subtle X-mas card might be a good start.

Edited by pallidin, 07 December 2012 - 04:30 AM.


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Posted 07 December 2012 - 04:30 AM

View Postpallidin, on 07 December 2012 - 04:27 AM, said:

Whoops, didn't read your gender.

Man I dont know about a card, I havent even talked to this girl at all! In fact I hardly see her as she is in a different area, its just when I do...wow.


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Posted 07 December 2012 - 04:40 AM

View PostSereneScene, on 07 December 2012 - 04:30 AM, said:

Man I dont know about a card, I havent even talked to this girl at all! In fact I hardly see her as she is in a different area, its just when I do...wow.

That's exactly why a card could go a long way.
People really appreciate other people thinking of them, as long as it's not "creepy"


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Posted 07 December 2012 - 04:51 AM

I guess i should just build up some courage and talk to her first.


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Posted 07 December 2012 - 04:52 AM

That could work. :yes:


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Posted 07 December 2012 - 04:57 AM

Have you ever felt this way before?


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Posted 07 December 2012 - 05:18 AM

I'm in the same situation with a coworker.
I work with a lot of cute girls but there's one I never really talk to that much.
Everytime we do talk it's almost like we don't know what to say, we mumble a lot, ramble on, and end up standing there for a couple minutes awkwardly until one of us has to go.
I'm terrible with women.


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Posted 07 December 2012 - 08:22 AM

View PostSereneScene, on 07 December 2012 - 04:22 AM, said:

I dont get some crazy feeling like this, anyone ever feel like this?
Absolutely! That's a rare situation. I would take heed if I were you. And no, I never get nervous when it comes to that. My middle name is Lupos (Wolf). It's never an odd feeling to me.

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Posted 07 December 2012 - 07:43 PM

Update:

So I talked to her today, it was with other people at first then I talked to her, asked her where she is from, we are from the same place, both speak the same language, I really like her, cant tell if she was interested to be honest but this is a start right? Hopefully I get more chances to talk with her and see if this goes anywhere.


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Posted 07 December 2012 - 07:49 PM

Absolutely. Now you're on speaking terms the sky's the limit!!

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Posted 07 December 2012 - 07:57 PM

Now the hard part, getting her to know that interested without doing it overly or being nervous etc.


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Posted 07 December 2012 - 08:11 PM

View PostSereneScene, on 07 December 2012 - 04:22 AM, said:

So there is this girl at work and I have this intense feeling whenever I see her, I am really attracted to her and really want to get to know her, she also keeps popping up in my mind.

I have been in relationships before but the reason I ask this is because I never got this intense feeling before, not the first time seeing my ex for example, there are plenty of hot chicks at my job and while yes I think "Man shes really hot!" I dont get some crazy feeling like this, anyone ever feel like this?

Every time I see her I wanna talk to her but I get nervous :(

Odd feeling.

I would strut around infront of her in the office and display my masculinity in an obvious manner.

Then instead of asking her to the pub I'd tell her shes going there. If it doesnt go down well you might need some chloroform (joke lol)


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Posted 07 December 2012 - 09:08 PM

You better find out if you have hobbies and entertainment tastes in common or just drop it.
If you do have similar tastes in pastimes then invite her to join.
Do not mistake lust for some magical soul connection. If there is a real connection you are going to have lots of personal tastes in common.

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Posted 07 December 2012 - 09:10 PM

View PostMr Right Wing, on 07 December 2012 - 08:11 PM, said:

I would strut around infront of her in the office and display my masculinity in an obvious manner.

Then instead of asking her to the pub I'd tell her shes going there. If it doesnt go down well you might need some chloroform (joke lol)

View PostMr Right Wing, on 07 December 2012 - 08:11 PM, said:

I would strut around infront of her in the office and display my masculinity in an obvious manner.

post video - wildly curious- lol

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