So then the man should have an equal say in whether or not to abort the fetus, right?
Horseshit. IF you don't want to get pregnant, don't have unprotected sex with a man.
How is it even remotely fair that the man in these cases has almost ZERO parental rights, absolutely ZERO say in whether to abort the pregnancy or not, yet they have to pay?
It's because our legal system is about 30 years behind the economic reality that women can support themselves without the help of a man now.