the thought patterns that govern our daily lives....
they separate us and hold us at odds....
if most people were to hear a subtle voice in the back of their heads telling them that a disaster was coming...
they would sit there and say to themselves...
i cant just go away from here....
i have responsibilities and bills to pay....
then sit and be besieged by the coming disaster....
the whole thought process of ...
i have to have a career....
and have a 9 to 5 job....
i have to buy a house and have a family...
save money and pay for an education for my kids...
set myself up so that when i am old i can still be independent....
take care of your own.....
not that any of this is bad....
in any way shape or form....
its just the way it is right now....
the manner in which these things is understood...
there is the twist....
having a 9 to 5 job is the new way of hunting and gathering....
go to work (hunt) make money... so you can go and buy the things you need to live...
go to the grocery store with earned money (gather) to buy food to feed your family (tribe)
this is taking care of your own....
at least how i see it...
but your neighbour is on his own to do this....
separated from your little tribe....
where we all come from at some point in history...
a tribe is the people that live next to you...
the people that are in the same area...
from the children to the old...
they are also a part of the tribe....
and the responsibility of the individual to feed and hunt for the tribe has been narrowed....
to the point where the tribe is those that live in the walls you pay for....
and all outside are no longer your problem or care.....
buying a house.....
something that you have to do...
"own" a little piece of land that you can call your own....
the problem with that is this...
the land was here long before we came about...
and will be here long after we are gone...
to own something implies that it is yours and you don’t have to pay out to anyone for the use of it...
well..... there is land tax.......
and you pay a rent on the land that you own....
and if you don’t keep up on the payment...
the land that you "own" can be taken away....
sounds a lot like a rental agreement to me...
so that is an illusion....
and within that concept of "owning your own house" ....
if the guy next door ... his house burns down...
you say..... " i hope he had insurance" .....
because your not going to open your doors and let his family live in your house....
you hope he had insurance so that his little tribe will have a means to stay separated from your little tribe...
and the social problems of "his" little tribe don’t interfere with the social problems of "your" little tribe...
whereas the sense of tribe means that everybody in the neighbourhood and community would come together and help this person...
provide temporary shelter...
and help work to so this person's little tribe have a wigwam (home) again....
nope... that’s the job of the insurance company....
but they care about the bottom dollar... and what their numbers look like on paper....
so.....
by the hand of the way we think this person is hooped..
on their own to take care of their little tribe....
regardless of circumstance....
not everyone can afford insurance....
paying for an education for your kids.......
of course everyone wants their kids to have a better life then what they had...
its just human nature......
but this has also changed.....
does your neighbour help with your kids homework?
are your kids getting an education from people with knowledge that are around you in your neighbourhood?
no....
we ship them off to a centralised centre of education that dishes out a preformed regimen...
where they are graded and given messages that the manner in which you live depends on their ability to hold and retain the information they are being given...
and then we end up with kids that have to figure out how the whole social aspect of things work from and with other kids...
in the tribal sense....
the kids worked with the parents and neighbours and learned skills and what it means to be a part of the tribe...
how every person contributes to the well being of the entire community...
not just the parents and siblings they have....
so a fundamental learning in the nature of the school system fails on that point at least...
but its also a manner where children learn that its the strong that survive...
all the aspects of kids being mean to each other...
bullies preying on the weaker (supposedly) kids....
and the social pressure is to fit in with one group or another...
separating the mentality from a community based manner of thinking....
to one of a pack mentality....
setting in stone the teachings from said institutions to a mentality of separation...
the mentality of separation, and "its not my problem" are the root of most of our problems in a modern society....
and a mentality that is one of a group, or tribal mentality has been labelled "hippy" or "alternative" ways of thinking...
when in all reality.....
this is where we come from....
and what things were like for 1000's of years before the advent of modern society...
to look upon a stranger and fear them....
not see them as another person with the same problems as we face....
this is what we are taught....
things have changed to the responsibility of the self over the tribe.....
we all have responsibilities to the self...
even in a tribal sense....
but the importance and willingness to place someone else in need over yourself has been lost....
and this is also at the root of the failings of the individual to the tribe....
things change and grow....
people change and grow....
some things have been allowed to grown and propagate through inaction...
and when we take the responsibility of the tribe back from those that have been entrusted with it...
then things change...
change does not come from some miraculous happening's .......
it comes from the choices "you" make every day....
taking responsibility for the choices "you" make everyday.....
how many times could a kind word have changed the outcome of an argument?
or asking..... "do you need a hand?" ...
all small things that change the world....
so... yeah... its not people....
its the way we think......
and that is your choice.....
Edited by the eternal me, 03 October 2012 - 08:38 PM.