Husain, on 29 December 2012 - 08:01 PM, said:
Age : 25
Gender : Male
Q : Im going through very lean patches in terms of work and relationships. Basically havent ran into ONE suitable person for the last 2 years and at work its all just sideways movement, despite the fact that I prioritze my career over everything. This rut, is this due to some karma Ive earned by wronging someone in the past? Admittedly I have made some foolish decisions during relationships, so is this all due to someone wishing this upon me? If yes, then can you share any information about who this may be?
Hi Husain,
I'm looking at your energy and it's clear, there is no one wishing you harm, well, at least not anyone that can effect your life. I do see that you are very stubborn though... and that you think you have been doing all you can to please people. You like to be needed and wanted. That is perfectly normal. The only thing I'm seeing out of line is that you think you know what people want and need but don't listen to them well. You think you know what is best for everyone, to know what is best you have to listen to people and their wishes. I'm seeing that you have a hard time actually listening to anyone, I'm not sure if it's a hearing problem or if you just don't have the patience. You are a very lucky man, I see much luck around you so appreciate it. Look on the bright side of things.
There seems to be some pressure on you to find a woman and settle down. I'm sure you would like to do this but since you are being pressured you're picking out women that don't fit in to your life and they don't stick around for long. You have to make the decision to find a wife, find one that you love, not one your parents like. Then stick by her side, defend her, yes, even stand up to your parents for her. It will make them like her more. I suspect that you don't really have a problem finding women, I think you are probably very hansom, have money and a good job. It's the way you treat them that is important. A wife or prospective wife is a partner, not an object, they are not here to serve you or to be waited on, they share a life with you, talk and listen to them. Money and looks only goes so far, personality is everything, you can lose money and looks in one single accident, never marry for those and don't go after someone that does. I'm seeing that in about 6 months, maybe less, you will find a woman that is the love of your life, I hope you remember my advise to you then.
I wish you much happiness.
Leah.