Leah G., on 14 February 2013 - 05:15 PM, said:
Hi Diminstrel,
You spent a lot of time running away while she sang for you and now you want to know her better, right? Well, I'm seeing her looking at you as if to say, "What the Heck!!"
I had to chuckle a bit when I saw this, especially the What the Heck part. I know she's confused about me because I was totally the opposite before.
Leah G., on 14 February 2013 - 05:15 PM, said:
Yes, this could be the love of your life. I really don't see anything standing in your way except her. You will have to impress her, no one likes being hurt and she won't let you hurt her again. She's very strong with a clear mind.
I can attest to her strength. I believe she's much stronger than most people because she's recently taken some hardships. And I am regretful of the fact that I've been part of it. Also, there is another thing standing in my way, but that will be my next question.
Leah G., on 14 February 2013 - 05:15 PM, said:
She could and would be your best friend but it's all up to you. You have to win her over. She's still interested but leery. I can see that you've recently changed your ways from a child to an adult but you have to show her too. And yes, as far as I can see, she is a good girl.
Leah.
Yes. I used to think like a child, always after the toys of life. I didn't want to have a girlfriend because of the responsibilities and emotional investment so I avoided any girl who attempted to get too close. But now, I've started to realize that I need a partner in life. I've also realized I had a lot of thoughts that are actually destructive. Thus, I removed some old beliefs and broke down some walls.
Here is another question:
24 year old male.
About obstacles, there is actually an obstacle for me. My father and grandmother does not agree to my decision of courting this girl because of cultural differences. My father even threatened to kick me out of the house if I continue the courting. They are very much against it! So my question is, How will my folks accept her? Will it be all right?
Edited by diminstrel, 14 February 2013 - 11:45 PM.