As for the rest of your observations, try not to be all profound about it its really a simple explanation its a reaction similar to paedophillia, you are revolted by that surely ?
The self deception thing, I would assume, like you....if I may, that heterosexual men who say they don't at least hold any dislike what so ever for male homosexuality are the ones with the deception, I may be wrong as really I can only comment from my own perspective
I'm trying to understand why that remark has you so rattled "revolting"...maybe your gay not that it matters but it would explain somewhat.
I understand why you would say that I'm lying to myself because I find male gay sex revolting...this is exactly the type of attitude I was trying to highlight in my original post, the PC crowd pressure, passive aggressive insults to either silence or make you conform. people have a right to feel the way they do and express opinion without intent of insult like we are in a forum (maybe)
I suggest if you don't like others opinions then your in the wrong place.
Why does a hetrosexual man 'have' to hold at least a dislike for male homosexuality? Why do they have to care?
As I've said before, there's two aspects at play here.
First, why is it that the moment you think of homosexuality that you immediatly jump to thinking of the sex?Is there really any need for you to actually do that, especially since most topics about homosexuality have actually nothing to do with the actual sex?
Second, why do you make it a big deal? Everyone has something that they find 'revolting' it can be food, or drink or sport or just about anything else. The thing is most people are mature enough to not think of the thing they find revolting or care that others do the opposite. I think coffee is revoltin, can't stand the stuff. But do I think about it? No.Do I try and stop others from drinking it? No. Do I even care that others drink it? No. If I see other people drinkin it do I make a deal about it or think about it? No. Why is it that those that find homosexual sex revoluting seem incapable of doing one or mre of those things?
Personally I don't think the self deception thing applies to as many as others. It may be the case for some, we've seen it from religious people a few times, but I doubt it applies to all.
Now, I want to go back to an earlier point in your post. The point being pedophilia. Now pedophilia keeps being bought up, so I'm going to comment to explain something rather obvious. There is big diference between homosexuality and pedophilia. The difference being that gay people, much like straight people, have relationships and sex between consenting adults. The key words there are conenting adults. Pedophilia, on the other hand is about someone abusing a child or children sexually. There's no consent and the child isn't an adult, so it doesn't compare to homosexuality or hetrosexuality. You know what it can be compared with? Rape.
In both rape and pedophilia a person is being harmed and abused against their will. That is something that's absolutely worthy of universal revulsion. Sex between consenting adults (regardless of what the sex actually entails) should not in any way EVER be compared to those things. Such a comparison isn't valid, it isn't clever and it doesn't make sense, and it should be opposed wherever it appears.