everything you have said in this post is your own interpretation and your own slant on how things should be. i would like to point out that you are a man as well, so in my opinion your attitude about a woman's body is irrelevant.
if your wife or significant other plans to abort 'your' child then you work it out between the two of you. the law, the church, the government have no business with that.
edit to add:
where i live abortion clinics are not a business. they are an extension of our health care system
I agree. It is so easy to judge women and have no clue what was going on in their lives for them to even consider abortion.