Mr Right Wing, on 01 October 2012 - 11:18 AM, said:
One thing I've noticed over the years is that those who violate others rights live lives which are a disaster.
Whether its alienating people, losing their jobs, getting their heads kicked in or being locked up in a prison cell they cause their own suffering. I have seen many with a narcissistic-sociopthic mentality who suffer time and time again because they seem incapable of grasping what the implications of their behaviour will be.
My answer to your question is that hell is a state of mind not a place. Revenge is also a good thing as it provides appropiate feedback to the person who violated your rights. Not that most of them will learn from it.
I agree with the first two paragraphs, but I think Revenge is unnecessary, you said it yourself these people will reap what they sow. An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind. Someone needs to break the cycle before it spirals out of control. Someone needs to "be the change" they'd like to see as sutemi so beautifully said.
I don't blame those who fall into vengefulness specifically, these emotions are overwhelming and a very strong defence mechanism against some real inflicted pain, emotional or physical. BUT I think in the calm after the storm is a good time to really look and see if we are continuing thru the same old revolving door or can we step away and find a better way to be than filled with hurt, anger and hate. Justice is a mechanical force, we don't need to force it into functioning through acting in vengeance - cause and effect means those that inflict harm will find their own level with their own kind, we do not want to discover we have a home there too.
I love a line from a movie - The Crow, where Brandon Lee says "Victims, aren't we all". We feel pain and suffer so to be heard and to protect ourselves we inflict pain and suffering. Without knowing how, we come to a place where we hit before we can be hit, reject before we can be rejected, insult before we can be insulted - so many live just like this for too much of their lives, it's very sad.
Edited by libstaK, 01 October 2012 - 11:32 AM.