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[SmilinJack]

AquilaChrysaetos, on 18 December 2012 - 04:09 AM, said:

This is the problem. If you truly love the girl, then the last thing you would want is to seperate her from a relationship she's already happy in. Although you would obviously want to be with her if you love her, her happiness would take precedence over yours. You seem to simply want the girl, which is quite different than love. It's very common, but that doesn't make it right.

Try and take her feelings into consideration. Instead of trying to "get the girl", try and just make her happy, and that might just mean you have to leave her alone. Otherwise you'd only make yourself out to be selfish, which is the last thing you should ever be when you're in love.

Just realized this would make for an interesting topic if it isn't one already. This is something that would be good to debate as I'm not 100% sure where I stand on it.

Edited by SmilinJack, 18 December 2012 - 07:07 AM.

[hungryvampyre]

Pod99966, on 17 December 2012 - 07:37 PM, said:

I say go for it. Seriously, what have you got to lose.

You say nothing, you lose the girl.

You say something and she stays with her current boyfriend.. same outcome.

But if you never say something to her, she has no chance to ever say yes.

thnxs i talked to her and she gave me a chance

[MarvelAtTheWords]

Was it be because she wanted to be turned vampire?
Do try not to drain her for blood...eh?

[Eldorado]

Get in there, son!  Strike while the iron is hot.

[euroninja]

hungryvampyre, on 17 December 2012 - 07:13 AM, said:

i need help !!!

Have a love triangle.

[AquilaChrysaetos]

SmilinJack, on 18 December 2012 - 07:06 AM, said:

Just realized this would make for an interesting topic if it isn't one already. This is something that would be good to debate as I'm not 100% sure where I stand on it.

I'm not quite sure exactly what parts are to debate here, or how this could be made into a new topic. Could you please clarify for me...

[onereaderone]

this  is  so  easy   its strange .
if  you  do  nothing  ,  nothing  will  happen  as  planed .

what  ever  you  do  you  will  fail ,  but  it  will  be  the  same  if  you  do  nothing  so  it  makes  no  difffrance  at  all.

understand  that  if  you  tell  her  your  deep  love  ,  she  will  see  you as a nut  case .
if  you  say  nothing  ,  she  will  see  you  as  heartless   and  not  have  a clue  how  you feel...  either  way  you lose...  so  go  for  it ...  you have  nothing  to  lose .

if  your  just  her  friend...   you  will   bethere  when  it  blows  up ,  and  you  can  watch  from  close  up  her  get  her  next   stupid  boyfriend  who  will  treat  her  badly ...   and  maybe  even  help  her  dump  the  current  jerk  ,  which  will  make  her  and  him  blaim  you
  for  every  bad  thing  they  do  to  each  other...  or  ...  you may  even  understand   that  she  is  human  and  not  an  angel (  like  you  think  at  this  point )  and  the  guy  may  not  be  the  twit  you  think  at  this  point....  in  any  event...   no  harm  no  fowl...go  for  it...

frankly  speaking  a  snow  flake  in  a  blast  furace  has a better  chance  than  you ...  but ,  a  1; 10,oo   chance  is  better  than  not  placing  the bet  at all

Edited by onereaderone, 14 February 2013 - 02:53 PM.