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#1    Miss Shadows

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Posted 14 March 2013 - 11:54 PM

Men are more than free to post as well, it's just I definitely want a census from the femmes in approximate numerical values. My quandary here is, how much attention does the average woman get from men? Or maybe I should ask, what's a normal range? To consider factors such as behavior and dress, I'm not overly modest or too revealing in either sense. I'm a happy medium when in public, yet I feel like for some reason I get a lot of guys coming on to me. No, I'm not bragging, it just seems 'disproportionate' to what I've seen and heard from other women. Ultimately, here are my two questions. Go ahead and share, elaborate...

Women: Approximately how many times in one average month do you have a man a) ask for your number/e mail/etc, and/or B) ask you for a get-together/date?

Men: What would lead you to approach a lady? Assuming you're not already dating, how many women would you ask out typically in one month?

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Posted 14 March 2013 - 11:59 PM

Certainly  a quandary of a question

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Posted 15 March 2013 - 12:05 AM

Why do you want a date.   :unsure2:


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Posted 15 March 2013 - 12:14 AM

Do you include being randomly groped despite having had absolutely no prior interaction with someone in a club, and despite the fact that one is not dressed in inappropriate clothing in this? Because unfortunately that changes the numbers a lot.

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Posted 15 March 2013 - 12:16 AM

It surely depends on the males who are around you and your environment.

Same thing for men; hang around nuns or a library your chances of a ration of passion are way slimmer than hanging around the local night clubs.  No matter how you look.


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Posted 15 March 2013 - 01:04 AM

Guys where I live are desperate. LOL, like I hate going to the cafe because they're always calling me out, stepping in front of me or checking me out. Like uh, I don't know, I always try to get out and come back before any of them go out and I never give them the time of day. I know what they want and they aren't getting that from me. :)

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Posted 15 March 2013 - 01:37 AM

I don't know, it just seems like I get an odd amount of attention. No, not counting the handsy guys, like I said counting ones who ask for a number etc and/or date. Unless it's a special occasion (concerts, beach, etc) I'm nowhere too exciting either. Think school, grocery store, work, coffee place, couple book shops, a local sex shop, and just walking around town with friends, or in the hardware or car and motorcycle part shop. Typical places 90 percent of the time, but going off an average month for me, and not counting anything but what I said above...I get about 75-85 guys asking me out a month, literally.

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Posted 15 March 2013 - 01:55 AM

View PostHeartsAreForBreaking, on 15 March 2013 - 01:37 AM, said:

I don't know, it just seems like I get an odd amount of attention. No, not counting the handsy guys, like I said counting ones who ask for a number etc and/or date. Unless it's a special occasion (concerts, beach, etc) I'm nowhere too exciting either. Think school, grocery store, work, coffee place, couple book shops, a local sex shop, and just walking around town with friends, or in the hardware or car and motorcycle part shop. Typical places 90 percent of the time, but going off an average month for me, and not counting anything but what I said above...I get about 75-85 guys asking me out a month, literally.

Well, you're a beautiful female, why are you so surprised guys are asking you out?

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Posted 15 March 2013 - 07:13 AM

Just my views on things for the question you asked for men.

I look for several things

1.Is she a attention seeker?Then no!There is a difference in being sexy and knowing it and a attention whore.
2.Her thought process what do we have in common?
3.What are her world views?What moral character does she have?
4.Looks yes this is number 4 for me,i have had beauty queens and model types some have rocks for brains much as some of our part of the species lol.I do not want a dummy i prefer an equal.Or atleast one who can help me correct my mistakes haha.
5.This last one can have several different answers,most of the others can be figured out in a short conversation.

Your second question

I usually am the one who gets asked out.I do not have near the 75-85 per month rate but usually 15-20 if i go to bars in one night i can equal or surpass my average in one night not bragging just happens lol.

Why this is i am actually very quiet i prefer to be alone atleast 2 or 3 days a week i have to spend time by myself to be alone with my thoughts.Most women do not allow alone time haha.I train and fight for a living when i am in pain i can be a ******* even if i do not try to be it just happens.

This explains why i got such a laugh about mr omega male a few topics back i can be cocky,arrogant,competitive,and everything else but i am me.I am not a stereotype alpha male believe me i could be a lot worse if i just wanted to be a arrogant ass  :lol:

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Posted 15 March 2013 - 01:42 PM

i feel exactly the same .. where ever i go women all over me " blushes "
and am very shy person i don't know what to do !

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Posted 15 March 2013 - 02:48 PM

I assume that is you in your avatar?

You're good looking, and you have mannerisms that make you more attractive. I'm sure the picture was not some "let's pretend to be a sensual woman" thing. It's probably just you. Beauty, skin showing and coyness attract guys. Do you smile at a lot of people? They consider that an open invitation. Or... maybe they've seen you going into the sex shop, or the knowledge that you go there gets around, so you have a reputation for liking sex a lot.

Quite frankly, I can't even imagine seeing 75 different people in one month. Do you go to the market and attract a swarm or something? Maybe you have overactive pheromone producing glands. lol

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Posted 15 March 2013 - 04:08 PM

View PostPurplos, on 15 March 2013 - 02:48 PM, said:

I assume that is you in your avatar?

You're good looking, and you have mannerisms that make you more attractive. I'm sure the picture was not some "let's pretend to be a sensual woman" thing. It's probably just you. Beauty, skin showing and coyness attract guys. Do you smile at a lot of people? They consider that an open invitation. Or... maybe they've seen you going into the sex shop, or the knowledge that you go there gets around, so you have a reputation for liking sex a lot.

Quite frankly, I can't even imagine seeing 75 different people in one month. Do you go to the market and attract a swarm or something? Maybe you have overactive pheromone producing glands. lol

Hm. Yes, t'is me in the picture, and that's basically...just me. I wasn't really 'aiming' for anything there, I just exude whatever I exude naturally 98 percent of the time. I have guys ask me out like this in all kinds of dress, attitude, introversion or extroversion. I do smile a lot, but I just tend to be a warmer person by most natures. I don't think it's the sex shop, it's just an out of the way place that sells all kinds of stuff like books, candles, bath salts; not just 'sex stuff', and I've never heard one word, and never seen anyone I know there.

Well that's why I posted this. 75+ seems like a lot, right? I don't exactly attract swarms (lol! Had the same thought about pheromones), but if you think about it I probably walk by at least 20 people every time I'm in the grocery store. I run by maybe double that going out for runs, and I see hundreds of strangers at work every day. Between things like that and miscellaneous outings, I have some sense of contact and/or visibility to probably 1,000 plus people in an average week, and out of that, I have anywhere between 20-25 guys that ask me for a date, or phone number. 20 out of a 1,000 isn't a big deal really, but when that's 20+ men in the flesh that I deal with per week, it just feels like more.


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Posted 15 March 2013 - 04:15 PM

View PostHeartsAreForBreaking, on 14 March 2013 - 11:54 PM, said:

Men: What would lead you to approach a lady?
Romantically.
A smile, with eye contact longer than a normal glance. I'm blind when it comes to subtle flirting so it really has to be signposted,


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Posted 15 March 2013 - 04:31 PM

Any woman wearing a Firefly, Doctor WHO, or Star Trek t-shirt is likely to get hit on by me.  I like nerd girls, they're the best.


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Posted 15 March 2013 - 04:42 PM

View PostOverSword, on 15 March 2013 - 04:31 PM, said:

Any woman wearing a Firefly, Doctor WHO, or Star Trek t-shirt is likely to get hit on by me.  I like nerd girls, they're the best.

.....and probably the most desperate!!!!

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