Can you help me out?

[Kme]

For as long as I can remember I have been able to tell things from the dreams I have. For example, whenever I dream of someone dying someone I am close to finds out they are pregnant. Depending on who the person is that dies and what they mean to me, tells me how close I am to the mother to be. I have also had dreams and gut feelings when something bad is going to happen or is happening to someone close to me. An example of this is when I was younger I was staying the night at a friends house. In my dream I saw my cousin Daniel, who was living with us at the time, and a sharp pain woke me. I called mom and asked what was wrong with him. He had just been admitted to the hospital with spinialmeningitus (spelling is off). This has happen frequently throughout my life.

Now, what I am having trouble with is the recent dreams I had. They just don't make since to me.

First night: In my dream I found out that I was pregnant. I was almost full term when my boyfriend and I found out that the baby had a heart problem and wasn't going to make it. My boyfriend decided that he would give the baby his heart so our son could live. But that meant I was losing him. It was the hardest thing to go through I had to watch the love of my life die and even though it was in a dream it felt so real. and it hurt so bad. I watched him go and that's when I woke up in tears.

second night: I dreamt that he and I were getting married. It was a small wedding in a small church that looked so familiar. for whatever reason I was upset because my dad couldn't walk me down the isle and I had to find someone else to do it. I chose my boyfriends friend, that I absolutely cannot stand, to be the one to give me away on my wedding day. My parents were there but just watching.

I usually don't remember dreams unless im supposed to get something from it. And I have the weirdest feeling about them being connected. But I cannot figure it out for anything.

Any thoughts or advice on looking into it would be greatly appreciated

Thank you

[SHaYap]

For as long as I can remember I have been able to tell things from the dreams I have. For example, whenever I dream of someone dying someone I am close to finds out they are pregnant. Depending on who the person is that dies and what they mean to me, tells me how close I am to the mother to be. I have also had dreams and gut feelings when something bad is going to happen or is happening to someone close to me. An example of this is when I was younger I was staying the night at a friends house. In my dream I saw my cousin Daniel, who was living with us at the time, and a sharp pain woke me. I called mom and asked what was wrong with him. He had just been admitted to the hospital with spinialmeningitus (spelling is off). This has happen frequently throughout my life.

Now, what I am having trouble with is the recent dreams I had. They just don't make since to me.

First night: In my dream I found out that I was pregnant. I was almost full term when my boyfriend and I found out that the baby had a heart problem and wasn't going to make it. My boyfriend decided that he would give the baby his heart so our son could live. But that meant I was losing him. It was the hardest thing to go through I had to watch the love of my life die and even though it was in a dream it felt so real. and it hurt so bad. I watched him go and that's when I woke up in tears.

second night: I dreamt that he and I were getting married. It was a small wedding in a small church that looked so familiar. for whatever reason I was upset because my dad couldn't walk me down the isle and I had to find someone else to do it. I chose my boyfriends friend, that I absolutely cannot stand, to be the one to give me away on my wedding day. My parents were there but just watching.

I usually don't remember dreams unless im supposed to get something from it. And I have the weirdest feeling about them being connected. But I cannot figure it out for anything.

Any thoughts or advice on looking into it would be greatly appreciated

Thank you

HIya Kme .. first of all ... don't be troubled ... why are you troubled by the dreams ?

Dreams hardly ever makes any sense ... that's why they are dreams and not awakened consciousness ... and that is also why they are easy to remember, the most vivid dreams that are remembered are those that makes no sense at all so no worries ...

Sounds like you already are quite clear of the meanings except you are unsure or uncertain but most likely you are not sure if it is what you want to think it means.

Only you will know that as this kind of dreams and the kind that you are 'connected' with are usually very close to you and your daily events in your life, mostly you 'know' more than you credit yourself with .... as such these dreams have meanings that only you have the keys to making them make sense in your life ...

First of all do not be troubled ... a troubled mind clouds all perceptions and it affects everything else in your life too ... calmness is your key to seeing things in a clearer light.

You will know when you know that when you knows ... it is like riding a bike or swimming ... you just ride ... you just swim ...

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Edited December 18, 2013 by third_eye

[Kme]

Thank you. Everything you said makes sense. Maybe it is that my mind is a little more clouded than it is clear. That might be what is keeping me hung up. I haven't ever been this concerned over one of my dreams, so its a little frightening. But I might be letting it get to me way more than I should be.

These 2 dreams just give me an uneasy feeling, that's what is causing me to worry about them.

[Mabon]

Now, what I am having trouble with is the recent dreams I had. They just don't make since to me.

First night: In my dream I found out that I was pregnant. I was almost full term when my boyfriend and I found out that the baby had a heart problem and wasn't going to make it. My boyfriend decided that he would give the baby his heart so our son could live. But that meant I was losing him. It was the hardest thing to go through I had to watch the love of my life die and even though it was in a dream it felt so real. and it hurt so bad. I watched him go and that's when I woke up in tears.

Hello and welcome to the forum.

Dreams are a way we problem solve the difficult problems that we don't want to tackle in our waking life. You are all the people that you see in the dream, even your boyfriend is a projection of how you see him and what he embodies to you.

To dream about being pregnant is about a project that you've put a lot of energy into and considering the baby has heart problems is showing that your plan isn't going in the direction you had hoped and it's not going to unless a drastic action or change is made. Your boyfriend and unborn baby are also both aspects of your masculine side. Literally the inner child doesn't have a properly working heart so the older more mature aspect is willing to give this to him.

second night: I dreamt that he and I were getting married. It was a small wedding in a small church that looked so familiar. for whatever reason I was upset because my dad couldn't walk me down the isle and I had to find someone else to do it. I chose my boyfriends friend, that I absolutely cannot stand, to be the one to give me away on my wedding day. My parents were there but just watching.

Marriage in dreams is also another symbol for planning and development. Again an unwanted substitution/change/transformation is made because your father (older masculine figure or projection of who you want to be/are) can not participate in this plan and someone you don't like (an aspect or trait that you see developing in yourself) is asked to perform that function instead. Your older masculine and feminine sides could only watch this happening because what ever trait or aspect has the potential to or is on the verge of assuming control.

That's my take on it.

Mabon.

[John from Lowell]

Hi,

Yes you seem to be very good at dream work.

First night: In my dream I found out that I was pregnant. I was almost full term when my boyfriend and I found out that the baby had a heart problem and wasn't going to make it. My boyfriend decided that he would give the baby his heart so our son could live. But that meant I was losing him. It was the hardest thing to go through I had to watch the love of my life die and even though it was in a dream it felt so real. and it hurt so bad. I watched him go and that's when I woke up in tears.

My impression, if it were my dream, some times hard choices are made for the sake of love. The heart being an organ and a symbol for love is a powerful dream symbol. It was a disturbing dream for you. You watched you boyfriend sacrifice himself for you with his love.

I see death as a cycle that leads to a rebirth in dreams. Not such a sad thing if you see it that way. I suspect changes for the better are coming in your life.

second night: I dreamt that he and I were getting married. It was a small wedding in a small church that looked so familiar. for whatever reason I was upset because my dad couldn't walk me down the isle and I had to find someone else to do it. I chose my boyfriends friend, that I absolutely cannot stand, to be the one to give me away on my wedding day. My parents were there but just watching.

That is an interesting dream to me. My son has a wedding next fall that kind of reflects this dream. One again, if it were my dream, it reflects choices you make that are hard for you. Both of these dreams have a theme about hard choices you need to make. Both dreams have a lot of emotions and some confusion as to why these issues or problems exist. The funny thing about this dream is picking a friend that you can not stand to 'give you away'. I would ask my dream angel why I would do such a thing.

I usually don't remember dreams unless im supposed to get something from it. And I have the weirdest feeling about them being connected. But I cannot figure it out for anything.

I agree. I am the same way myself. Dreams that make a strong impression with me are the ones I kind of always remember.

John

[Kme]

Thank you john and mabon. The way both of you see my dreams is really helpful. And I really appreciate both of you taking the time to read it and give me your thoughts about it.

I really like having some where that I can tell people what's going on and having them give me there opinions based on there experiences and/or knowledge of the situation. It helps a lot to talk about it to people who don't know much about you or the relationships of the people in the dreams.

Again thank all of you for great ideas of what it might be symbolizing.