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#1    Meltus

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Posted 12 February 2008 - 09:30 PM

sorry if this is in the wrong place. didn't know where to post it.

basically, my and my girlfriend were at my mates party about a year and a bit ago, and someone was there whom i didn't know. so i went over to talk to him and from the moment we looked at each other i absolutly hated him. loathed him even. i had absolutly no reason to whatsoever, he'd done nothing to me and he hadn't even spoke to me, i just couldn't stand being around him.
all my mates think he's an alright guy and he comes out with us and stuff but i can't be around him at all. Just being in the same room makes me angry and i just want to get up and kick the sh** out of him, although i don't think i've ever hit anyone in my life.
It's not in my nature to be agressive and was just wondering if anyone else had any experiences like this?


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Posted 12 February 2008 - 09:50 PM

Do you feel intimidated by the guy for some reason?

I've experienced something like this but in reverse. I stand at 6'6" and every now and then I'll run into some idiot who's a lot shorter than me but has something to prove by "calling out the big guy". For the most part I ignore them, but the point is, I didn't do anything to provoke their foolish behavior.

BTW, don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that's what is happening with you. I just wonder if there's something about the guy that troubles you for some reason.

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Posted 12 February 2008 - 10:01 PM

Hate at first site. Has happened to me a few times. Completely normal.


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Posted 12 February 2008 - 10:03 PM

fylgja on Feb 12 2008, 02:01 PM, said:

Hate at first site. Has happened to me a few times. Completely normal.

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Posted 12 February 2008 - 10:09 PM

fylgja on Feb 12 2008, 03:01 PM, said:

Hate at first site. Has happened to me a few times. Completely normal.



tnr on Feb 12 2008, 03:03 PM, said:

I agree


Just curious, but how can you actually hate someone you don't know?







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Posted 12 February 2008 - 10:25 PM

theSOURCE on Feb 12 2008, 09:50 PM, said:

Do you feel intimidated by the guy for some reason?

I've experienced something like this but in reverse. I stand at 6'6" and every now and then I'll run into some idiot who's a lot shorter than me but has something to prove by "calling out the big guy". For the most part I ignore them, but the point is, I didn't do anything to provoke their foolish behavior.

BTW, don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that's what is happening with you. I just wonder if there's something about the guy that troubles you for some reason.

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I find this fascinating, because I have never experienced anything like this before. I didn't know it was a common thing.

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Posted 12 February 2008 - 10:37 PM

youre skin crawls and the urge to kill [if necessary] is completly zoned on them.

ive had this happen its something about body language. the guy i hated had no personal boundaries. where as my "heavy armor" rattled as though craving a scrap.

ive been bullied/annoyed into bloodlust [come close enough please] but never has it manifested as strongly or quikly. i forgot everything going on until he left my presence.

and as a side note im quite kind and gentle. when i get bloodhungry [quite rare] its the absolute end of patience and control.

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Posted 12 February 2008 - 10:39 PM

This has happened to me once or twice, but i usually see a reason to hate them ie. theyre bullying, or a r**arted gangbanger and i really cant stand these things

Nik Xues on Feb 12 2008, 04:37 PM, said:

youre skin crawls and the urge to kill [if necessary] is completly zoned on them.

ive had this happen its something about body language. the guy i hated had no personal boundaries. where as my "heavy armor" rattled as though craving a scrap.

ive been bullied/annoyed into bloodlust [come close enough please] but never has it manifested as strongly or quikly. i forgot everything going on until he left my presence.

and as a side note im quite kind and gentle. when i get bloodhungry [quite rare] its the absolute end of patience and control.


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Posted 12 February 2008 - 10:56 PM

Perhaps it was someone you knew in your past life.


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Posted 12 February 2008 - 11:05 PM

thats happened to me quite a few times


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brothers on Feb 13 2008, 08:26 AM, said:

Perhaps it was someone you knew in your past life.


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Posted 12 February 2008 - 11:19 PM

I had the same thing happen to me, and I just thought I was being an ass. I saw this kid walking down the hall one day, and I just had the almost uncontrollable urge to beat the hell out of him. I don't know him, I've never talked to him, but I just can't stand him. I told my friends this, and they said they've all experienced the same thing. I'm glad to know we're not just pricks.


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Posted 12 February 2008 - 11:27 PM

theSOURCE on Feb 12 2008, 05:09 PM, said:

Just curious, but how can you actually hate someone you don't know?


How can you love someone you don't know? Some people believe in love at first site, why not hate at first site? It's probably their mannerisms, the way they carry themselves, perhaps even a certain smell. Who knows?



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Posted 12 February 2008 - 11:30 PM

From what I can tell, people often dislike or feel in competition with others who remind them of themselves. Just something to think about.


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Posted 13 February 2008 - 04:02 AM

Eh, subconcious works in strange ways.  Sometimes you'll just feel like lashing out without knowing why.  Like you'd be calmly eating your food and all of a sudden your angry and just want to throw your plate at the wall and storm off for no apparant reason.  Sometimes there's just "something" about someone that you can't quite pick out thats a form of mental channeling to get rid of some hatred and frustration you have stored away.  You don't know why it just happens.  tongue.gif

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