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#46    War Eagle

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Posted 14 February 2008 - 02:09 PM

Thats more like resentment then?...


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Posted 14 February 2008 - 06:36 PM

i agree with sundogdayze

the vibe was more avoid at all costs. but not from fear.
the reason you want to pummel them is to drive them off.

it wasnt predjudice
predjudice is based on misconceptions and prior communication.

this is out of the blue from the point of contact. i never met or heard of the guy before.

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the others are idiots simply waiting for proof of existence.

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Posted 14 February 2008 - 09:59 PM

I always thought prejudice 'pre-judging' someone and or somebody's opinion in advance?...


prejudice:

NOUN:
1a. An adverse judgment or opinion formed beforehand or without knowledge or examination of the facts.
b. A preconceived preference or idea. 2. The act or state of holding unreasonable preconceived judgments or convictions.


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Posted 14 February 2008 - 10:45 PM

sorry you are correct.

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Posted 14 February 2008 - 11:44 PM

REBEL on Feb 14 2008, 04:48 AM, said:

I never believed that any man can hate another at first sight...thats bullsh*t.
Anyone telling ya otherwise has either got serious self/personal issues or is blatantly prejudice.

thats what's strange though.
I mean, sure, i dislike people, as does everyone, but i wouldn't go as far to say i hate anybody except for this guy. I have no reason to hate him, he's done nothing to me and i hated him even before i ever spoke to him or heard him speak. I know i'm not prejudice as i seem to get on quite well with people and don't really make any enemies or even judge people before i get to know them. Hell, even this guy i hate trys to get on with me and apparently thinks i'm an alright guy, which is beyond me.  hmm.gif  so i sure as hell hope i don't have self/personal issues tongue.gif.

oh, and i spoke to some people about this yesterday and asked this one guy what they thought about him and they said, "oh, he's alright. can be a bit of a c*nt sometimes though."
maybe i knew this from just looking at him?
god knows, i'm probably just a bit insane.


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Posted 15 February 2008 - 08:52 PM

Yup yup yup. The world is full of jurks laugh.gif


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Posted 15 February 2008 - 09:09 PM

SunDogDayze on Feb 13 2008, 02:14 PM, said:

Oh yeah, I have done that. And I really am not one of those 'bottle it up inside' people lol. I have no problem telling anyone what I think, at any time. (It's been labeled as a fault of mine lol)

Anyway, I believe it has something to do with intuitive feelings. The body language or mannerisms or facial expressions or even spoken language of the person tips you off to a personality you don't like. I am a female, and I find that most of the time, it's other women that I get that feeling with. I usually just leave, so I don't hurt someone's feelings unintentionally.

On a side note, think of it this way. Dogs do the same thing. Ever had your dog try to tear someone's throat out for no reason that you could see? Has your dog barked and growled at a particular person in a room full of people? It's the same thing, they intuitively know they don't like that person.


nice one...
I reckon telepathy is in the works and you are picking vibes from the person opposite/ near  you.
Bet dogs can smell some body's negative feelings and being protective of their human they lash out.

also smells play some role in this but I'm not sure how it works.......it works nevertheless!

The closest I have come to punch somebody is when they insult my mother or they discriminate against me and say lies to cover it up........(hey ppl at work watch out!) ....................................................punch.....


Edited by saturnian flame, 15 February 2008 - 09:19 PM.

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Posted 15 February 2008 - 09:25 PM

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I will say that I have had some sort of instints towards someone if they appear to be negative, hostile, angry and so forth. That does NOT mean I hate that person. I usually try to help someone like that "out"; make them feel better or try to be positive towards them and then they just end up hating ME! Whatever...

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Posted 15 February 2008 - 09:29 PM

Meltus on Feb 12 2008, 03:30 PM, said:

sorry if this is in the wrong place. didn't know where to post it.

basically, my and my girlfriend were at my mates party about a year and a bit ago, and someone was there whom i didn't know. so i went over to talk to him and from the moment we looked at each other i absolutly hated him. loathed him even. i had absolutly no reason to whatsoever, he'd done nothing to me and he hadn't even spoke to me, i just couldn't stand being around him.
all my mates think he's an alright guy and he comes out with us and stuff but i can't be around him at all. Just being in the same room makes me angry and i just want to get up and kick the sh** out of him, although i don't think i've ever hit anyone in my life.
It's not in my nature to be agressive and was just wondering if anyone else had any experiences like this?

Yes,heck there are some people who come to this site that if I'd ever met them I'd slam them to the floor and hit them with a brick.and I'm sure that some feel the same way about me even though we never met.Happens to the best of us.


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Posted 15 February 2008 - 09:35 PM

theghost on Feb 15 2008, 04:29 PM, said:

Yes,heck there are some people who come to this site that if I'd ever met them I'd slam them to the floor and hit them with a brick.and I'm sure that some feel the same way about me even though we never met.Happens to the best of us.



Actually, I would be willing to bet that the personalities of the people you know on these forums is probably different from the ones they exhibit in real life. Our internet personalities are a little different because the social rules are not as strict. Everyone's so anonymous. You probably would not even be able to guess who was who. original.gif



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Posted 16 February 2008 - 08:05 AM

saturnian flame on Feb 15 2008, 04:25 PM, said:

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I will say that I have had some sort of instints towards someone if they appear to be negative, hostile, angry and so forth. That does NOT mean I hate that person. I usually try to help someone like that "out"; make them feel better or try to be positive towards them and then they just end up hating ME! Whatever...

C'est la vie! original.gif Jody


they might think that you are faking it, because.....................I dunno blink.gif

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Posted 16 February 2008 - 08:12 AM

Nik Xues on Feb 15 2008, 09:45 AM, said:

sorry you are correct.

I am in total agreeance. There is a bloke at work that gives me the craps as soon as I have to talk to him. Mind you, he thinks he knows it all andf no-one else does lol.......

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Posted 16 February 2008 - 01:49 PM

theSOURCE on Feb 14 2008, 02:53 AM, said:

I understand that you're looking at this in a religious context and I have no problem with that. However, I'm sure that you're also well aware that not everyone shares your religious beliefs.

Kazahel on Feb 14 2008, 05:52 AM, said:


Yes I'm aware of that, but what does that have to do with anything?? I mean you say above that you have no problem with that etc.. but then you go on to say..
Anyone who feels that they can either hate or love someone by just looking at them for the first time should seriously take a long hard look into themselves because there may be some serious issues that they need to address.


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So does this mean your including me in your last quote or not? Because I dont see it as a serious issue as you put it.. to recognise what I said before.. Why would it be? Why would loving the Divine in someone(a stranger)be a serious issue I need to address?


What I meant in the first part above (and if I'm mistaken please correct me) is that you are referring to love in a spiritual way, i.e., that you believe that a person can feel love for another person's spiritual being without getting to know them personaly. Regardless of my personal beliefs, that is something I don't care to debate.

What I was referring to in the second part is the love that two human beings feel for each other, i.e., love that grows and develops after having shared life's experiences. And I stand by my assertion that it's not possible to either love nor hate someone without knowing anything about them.




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Posted 16 February 2008 - 02:54 PM

theSOURCE on Feb 16 2008, 10:49 PM, said:

What I meant in the first part above (and if I'm mistaken please correct me) is that you are referring to love in a spiritual way, i.e., that you believe that a person can feel love for another person's spiritual being without getting to know them personaly. Regardless of my personal beliefs, that is something I don't care to debate.

Hey I only said how I think of it and you said...  "I understand that you're looking at this in a religious context and I have no problem with that. However, I'm sure that you're also well aware that not everyone shares your religious beliefs. "

Which is why I asked what that has anything to do with anything? Why does it matter if not everyone shares my belief? To say that was just not really needed was it.. which is why I asked what it has to do with anything.

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What I was referring to in the second part is the love that two human beings feel for each other, i.e., love that grows and develops after having shared life's experiences. And I stand by my assertion that it's not possible to either love nor hate someone without knowing anything about them.

Well it was alittle confusing to me in how you typed it, because it sounded to me like you were agreeing on how I see it differently/spiritually(and that that was ok), but then making out its not straight after by saying...  "Anyone who feels that they can either hate or love someone by just looking at them for the first time should seriously take a long hard look into themselves because there may be some serious issues that they need to address."

So yeah... I had to ask. It sounded like you were trying to place me in that quote(and maybe trying to offend me at the same time), and I didnt like it considering you had just said right before that you understand that I'm looking at it from a more.. spiritual angle.

Anyway I'm glad thats all cleared up now. original.gif

And does this mean you agree there are at least two types of love.... a more spiritual love(universal) and a more egotistical side of love(meaning only loving who your ego 'loves' over time). ?

Edited by Kazahel, 16 February 2008 - 03:02 PM.


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Posted 16 February 2008 - 08:41 PM


theres no such thing as love at first sight or hate or anything in between.
because , as the more knowledgeable  posters have said  -we have met and loved ,or fought ,with them previously ,  inhabiting different bodies, in different times.

thats what ties us to one another, but if we are wise we try to forgive and then we will make things easier for future lives.

i just wish i was wise meself..






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