1) 3 years a landslide in a ski resort: I kept having dreams of going to a park I've never been to with family, running ahead, scrambling over some rock stairs, and then finding myself lost at a graveyard. Then the dreams stopped. I thought nothing of it, until I ran into a picture online of the exact park and rock stairs I'd scrambled over, which were at the ski resort.
2) I dreamt I met this guy and he was a fantastic boy friend, but it was clear in the dream that it was not a forever thing. a couple of months later, the guy from my dream transferred in, and I meet him in simlar circumstances as the dream, but ignored it (chose not to see him).
2) My dilemma: I'm worried about jinxing it, but ..I need help... I've had this dream twice where I'm in a classroom with people, and there is a "teacher" who felt like an angel. The teacher says "we'll do an exercise where everyone says the name of the person who they're fated to be with". I desperately don't want my turn to come up because I'm scared of getting married (really). I tell the teacher this is a pointless, bogus exercise, and she says i have to do it. I go to say Michael, but instead blurt out a really strange name i've never heard of before. i'm thinking "who the hell is xxxx? this is rubbish,what kinda of name is that? the closest thing it was to a normal name was great dane". I thought it was just a normal dream, and couldn't remember the name I blurted out. Just that it was almost spelt like Dane. 2 months later my best friend has a new boyfriend, and mentions that she wants me to meet her bf's best friend. then she mentions his name. I'm 100% sure its the name I blurted in my dream. I really didn't want to meet him in the freak chance the dream might be real. I'm a commitment phobe, and am not ready to meet the guy I might end up with. I went to coffee to meet her new boyfriend yesterday, and the bf wasn't coming, so I felt ok. Then her boyfriend's bf's plans changed and he joined us. I met him yesterday... We were talking about something we both happened to really like and 5x we started off the whole sentence at the same time, with exactly the same words.. like we could almost tell what the other was thinking..he is really handsome, and a really nice guy....
This can't be real right? he can't be "the one".. its just a dream.... when on earth does this type of thing happen? And if the dream is real... what if i'm meant to end up with him when i'm 40 or 80 or after another marriage or something... or what if it has to be now and I have to "go for it"?? i'm scare i'm jinxing it by telling, .. I know this sounds crazy and a little absurd. WHAT DO I DO?!!!!!!!!!
Edited by questionslost, 07 June 2008 - 06:23 PM.