Amariel, on 23 October 2009 - 07:25 PM, said:
I'm looking for some advice about my 6 year old sister. She came home from school last week talking about how she read a book that told her the world was going to end and that everyone was going to die. My dad just assumed it was something she heard her teacher say, and he asked her why her teacher would say something like that. My sister looked at him like he was stupid and said "Mrs. 'G' doesn't have the book - I found it. She wouldn't like to read the book because it says that she dies". We thought it was a little strange, and morbid, but just put it down to her having a vivid imagination along with picking up something about the Mayan's at school somehow. A few days later, however, she came into my room and told me she was really scared to tell my dad that the book says that he dies. I asked her what she was talking about and she told me that almost all of the adults will die, and even some of the kids, and that all the people who are left are going to go to America (we live in Australia). She looked so serious that at this point she started to scare me a little. I asked her when all of this is going to happen, and she said 2 years or a little bit longer, so I asked her if I was going to die too and she said that she didn't know - the book hasn't told her yet. I also asked her where she found this book and she told me down at the back of the oval (which, might I add, is out of bounds at their school) and she also said that she's the only one who can see it. I told my dad what he said, and he just insisted that she has a very overactive imagination (which, I'm inclined to agree with at times). At the start of this week, my dad went in to drop my sister off at school and mentioned to her teacher about the end of the world talk and how he didn't think year 1's were taught anything like that. The teacher apparently looked at my dad as if he were crazy and said that the end of the world isn't even close to any of the curriculum taught at the school and she has no idea where a 6 year old would pick up such an idea. We're now all stumped as to how my sister is coming out with all this talk of the end of the world, and to be honest it's starting to scare me. Does anyone have any advice or any explanation as to what's going on with her?
**Just as a side note, she's 6 so she can't even read all that well
Dear Amariel,
Your dad did the right thing by first questioning the teacher. I would have done exactly the same thing but maybe taken it a bit further... I would have asked for permission to go to "The back of the oval" and look around. If there is an actual book maybe it is tucked away behind another book or fallen behind or under a shelf where others wouldn't readily notice it? Maybe that's what she means by "no one else can see it" . Also, since she isn't suppose to be in that area maybe she can only find a little time to slip away and look at a little bit of the book at a time? Maybe that's what she meant by " the book hasn't told me yet"? If they would allow you to do this be sure and get on your knees to look around so you will be at her level. This would be the first course of action to pursue. The logical, try to find actual concrete proof you can see.
Also, Others are correct when they say that kids absorb a lot more than we realize from many sources. Do you watch the show Ghost Whisperer? The is a running storyline right now that involves a magical book that writes and re-writes the future. In the book there are names of people who are going to die.
If all else fails. There is nothing wrong w/ taking your sister to someone to talk w/ her. She may feel more comfortable talking w/ someone not so close to her actually. Even If you find a real book, something about all this is obviously really bothering her. I once had such a horrible vivid nightmare about someone I love dying that I wouldn't even tell anyone about it for years for fear that saying it out loud would make it real. And I was grown at the time. lol.
She may indeed be gifted. I am open minded, I believe there are many things that may exist (psychics, profits, Aliens, ghost, ect..). Not having personal experience w/ these things dose'nt mean they aren't real. And if this is indeed the case here.. She could still benefit from talking w/ a counselor. Just make sure that they actually spend more time w/ your sister than they do w/ her family. My oldest saw a few different ones and a lot of them want to spend 75% of the session talking w/ the family and I found this very UN-productive.
At any rate, please let us know how she's doing. I'll be thinking good thoughts for you and your family.