What about blonde jokes, like "quit acting so blonde" ? Is that racism? The first time a black man stayed over our house, my 2 yr. old daughter called him that "chocolate man" and tried to taste him, it was funny because she loves/loved chocolate so much, because living in Germany it was her first time seeing or noticing a person of color (we all have color!). She called him "chocolate Chuck". He still teases her about it this to this day. He laughed so hard, and thought it was adorable. she did have a terrible fear of men with beards though. Now that was odd. She got over that one.
I think again, it is the intent that means everything. Most people can tell, or either if there was no negative intent, now with kids maybe not so much. I'm "haole girl" over here, LOL. I think its a good experience for me and my children being the minority for a change. After a while though, we aren't even really aware of that anymore, it's strange. we forget we are in the minority. At first we were very aware and felt a little odd. It all depends how others treat you and vice-versa.
This post has been edited by momentarylapseofreason: 05 November 2009 - 05:52 AM