Damrod, on 07 January 2012 - 08:24 PM, said:
I don't know what to think...we have the Iranian military in motion but then we do a humanitarian thing and save some of their fishermen...
I am afraid that we are trying to pick a fight....
Try this opinion on for size...
We aren't actually trying to pick a fight. We are simply standing our ground. We are part of the popular clique, and it is in our interest to not let the new kids attempt to dictate what we should or should not do. Nor is it in our interest to do anything against them, as it would just make us look bad to our peers, and we already have a reputation for being a bit heavy-handed to everyone else.
So we simply stand our ground and look at the new kid with mild interest. When he tries to sit at the senior table, he is told firmly, yet politely, that he is not there yet. When he states he is going to do it anyway, we simply mention what has happened to the other students who attempted to assume privileges that the incumbents did not bestow (after all, the incumbents went through a lot of trouble to get those privilidges; who is the new guy to assume he can just waltz in and take them?).
If the new kid actively threatens our status, we degrade his status. If he physically threatens our status, we physically threaten his. If he makes reasonable attempts to progress up the popularity ladder, we keep an eye on him and guide or correct as needed. Eventually, once he is deemed an asset to the status quo and not an enemy of it, he is allowed into the club with full benefits and privileges.
Many people tend to look at this sort of thing through the eyes of politics. I find it much more easily understandable if we look at it as simply different aspects of human behaviour.