My ex husband had 3 on line affairs and he married and left me for the 3rd one. Now he has 2 kids under 4 and he's 43 and one of the kids isn't his (she was pregnant when they started talking) and he's pretty much abandoned our kids that are 20 and 21. I hate on line relationships.
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I met my soulmate online!
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Posted 23 September 2012 - 02:06 AM
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Posted 23 September 2012 - 05:20 PM
Sorry about what happend with your ex, ColdEthyl. He chose this fate himself. Some people change a great deal over time I guess.
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Posted 24 September 2012 - 01:44 AM
little_dreamer, on 23 September 2012 - 05:20 PM, said:
Sorry about what happend with your ex, ColdEthyl. He chose this fate himself. Some people change a great deal over time I guess.
Meh, don't be sorry. I'm glad I'm done with him really. He was not easy to live with. It was just hard on the kids and on my financially. He ended up losing the house we had together right after I had managed to get my name off the deed, so I don't have a foreclosure on my credit.
It was weird, as soon as the kids and I left the gorgeous house we had started to fall apart. It was fairly new, big and on 2 acres. We leave and the air conditioning quits. Then the fireplace exploded. Then a storm came through and did damage to the roof inside and out. Karma is a b****.
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Posted 24 September 2012 - 01:55 PM
Met my wife online. I know what true love is now. I have never been so happy in my life.
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Posted 24 September 2012 - 04:04 PM
I met my soul mate 33yrs ago. Well, we never really met... I just saw her. I worshipped her from afar for about an hour, on a cross-channel ferry going on a school trip to France when I was fifteen. She was of the same age but from a different school, going on the same kind of trip but sadly not to the same place. Her beauty took my breathe away but I was too apprehenisive to say hello. I never saw her again but I know that she was my soul mate.
I know this.
*sighs the sigh of a man who's getting old*
Always say hello, young folks. Take the chance. It may be the only chance you ever get.
I know this.
*sighs the sigh of a man who's getting old*
Always say hello, young folks. Take the chance. It may be the only chance you ever get.
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Posted 24 September 2012 - 04:13 PM
I like to avoid my soul mate on line as much as possible I wouldn't want him to see all that I get up to lol 
Edited by Beckys_Mom, 24 September 2012 - 04:14 PM.
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Posted 27 September 2012 - 11:52 AM
How many soulmates do we have I wonder?
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Posted 27 September 2012 - 06:51 PM
Sunny Day, on 27 September 2012 - 11:52 AM, said:
How many soulmates do we have I wonder?
Personally I believe we only have one soulmate.....but I'm romantic like that
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Posted 30 September 2012 - 08:06 AM
I met my soulmate at work. I was his manager 
Although nothing happened until after I transferred
I could never do the long distance/online relationship thing- My relationship history has left me with far too many trust issues (including the only time I did date online, turns out he was engaged). But I have nothing against it on the whole, just not something that works for me. But I know my relationship wouldn't work for a lot of people my age
Although nothing happened until after I transferred I could never do the long distance/online relationship thing- My relationship history has left me with far too many trust issues (including the only time I did date online, turns out he was engaged). But I have nothing against it on the whole, just not something that works for me. But I know my relationship wouldn't work for a lot of people my age
And you run and you run to catch up with the sun, but it's sinking. Racing around to come up behind you again. The sun is the same in a relative way, but you're older. Shorter of breath and one day closer to death.
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I reckon so.
Posted 30 September 2012 - 12:47 PM
According to the e-mails I get regularly, my soulmate is in my home town and looks like a wannabe porn star!
*reinstalls Windows after clicking on link.... again*
*reinstalls Windows after clicking on link.... again*
Edited by Eldorado, 30 September 2012 - 01:01 PM.
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Posted 01 October 2012 - 06:57 AM
I'd rather meet my soul mate anywhere that I do not work(at least not the same section of the place). Online or off doesn't matter it's the end results that means the most for me. I'll move if the relationship is worth it after I visit a few times first. Hooking up and finding psychos are easy both online and offline just need to know what to look for. A good relationship though is hard to find so more options is better..
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Posted 02 October 2012 - 07:00 PM
Eldorado, on 24 September 2012 - 04:04 PM, said:
I met my soul mate 33yrs ago. Well, we never really met... I just saw her. I worshipped her from afar for about an hour, on a cross-channel ferry going on a school trip to France when I was fifteen. She was of the same age but from a different school, going on the same kind of trip but sadly not to the same place. Her beauty took my breathe away but I was too apprehenisive to say hello. I never saw her again but I know that she was my soul mate.
I know this.
*sighs the sigh of a man who's getting old*
Always say hello, young folks. Take the chance. It may be the only chance you ever get.
I know this.
*sighs the sigh of a man who's getting old*
Always say hello, young folks. Take the chance. It may be the only chance you ever get.
That's good advice!
I felt a connection with a girl at a fairground in Wales, when I was (i'm guessing) 13 years old. I couldn't get to her quickly enough, and she disappeared into the crowd. Whether it was physical attraction or a psychic link, I'll never know.
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Posted 02 October 2012 - 07:06 PM
Sunny Day, on 27 September 2012 - 11:52 AM, said:
How many soulmates do we have I wonder?
For what it's worth... I believe that soulmates are chips off the same block, and they share at least one facet of their souls.
As we have lots of facets, we have more than one soulmate.
(Clear as mud?
Thought so!
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Posted 04 October 2012 - 03:16 PM
I've never properly tried it but I probably should as I'm not finding much luck in the real world. I had a free account with one site for a while, maybe I could retrieve that one. See how it goes. Although I'm quite apprehensive about it. I mean I often wonder "what's wrong with them that they're signed up online and not going out to meet folk?" but I guess they're probably in exactly the same predicament I'm in. I don't get out much these days, as i can't afford to, and I've never been one to just go out and drink in a pub on my tod (damn my confidence inadequacies), so when I do go out it's at gigs, and it seems all the women going to metal gigs are already taken
so anyway, what am I going on about... Oh yeah... Aye I guess I should give online dating another chance.
so anyway, what am I going on about... Oh yeah... Aye I guess I should give online dating another chance.
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Posted 25 October 2012 - 11:29 AM
I am married to a lovely man who I love and think of as my soulmate. No question. I but do wonder, if you met every single person (and could communicate well enough, not everyone speaks your language), just how many would be 'soul mates'. Also I've had a couple of female friends who would be soul mates but I certainly wouldn't think of as 'lovers' since I'm heterosexual. I feel a lot of love for lots of people and could easily see that once I get to know people I could really connect with them.
Surely I'm not the only one here that thinks there are many soulmates for all of us? Just at this moment I'm with the one I first met at age 18 and it hurts my heart to think of not being with him, but the world is a big place full of lovely people. Hmmm, I guess it comes down to definition of 'soulmate'... my old cat was dearest soulmate I think. She really understood me I feel. Man, I miss that old cat...
No more wine now for me... bed time.
Surely I'm not the only one here that thinks there are many soulmates for all of us? Just at this moment I'm with the one I first met at age 18 and it hurts my heart to think of not being with him, but the world is a big place full of lovely people. Hmmm, I guess it comes down to definition of 'soulmate'... my old cat was dearest soulmate I think. She really understood me I feel. Man, I miss that old cat...
No more wine now for me... bed time.
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