Inbox doesn't have any messages, so don't know why you'd have any problem. That aside, if the OP really has a problem with labels then that would also include his personal name as well as family relationships since they are also labels. He can deny them all he wants, but that won't make them go away. Short of ceasing to exist (and perhaps not even then) he's pretty much stuck with one label or the other whether he likes it or not. It's inescapable.