To quote you below.
hmmm, just think about this.. Because the premis is imo dangerous because it completely dimisses the fact that we project into the world.
Doesn't this destroy the main premise? When someone else sees us we are projecting light onto them, we cannot just absorb energy through our senses; sight, hearing, touch, and not ever release it. Even a blackhole will eventually release the energy it has absorbed. The OP ignores the fact we project the energy we gain back into our environment, including the people around us.