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Simple attraction? beyond? Just lust?


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#16    tyrant lizard

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Posted 07 December 2012 - 09:25 PM

I'm no expert but I think girls tend to know when guys fancy them. Or maybe that's just because I'm a creepy kind of oggling dude and they can't not know


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Posted 07 December 2012 - 09:34 PM

View Posttyrant lizard, on 07 December 2012 - 09:25 PM, said:

I'm no expert but I think girls tend to know when guys fancy them. Or maybe that's just because I'm a creepy kind of oggling dude and they can't not know

Or maybe the tongue hanging out of the mouth lol


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Posted 07 December 2012 - 09:37 PM

It doesn't hang it flicks in and out like that guy from scar face...


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Posted 07 December 2012 - 09:55 PM

Boyfriend AND kid! BOOM shot down. Lmao...

Oh well..


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Posted 07 December 2012 - 10:03 PM

View PostSereneScene, on 07 December 2012 - 07:57 PM, said:

Now the hard part, getting her to know that interested without doing it overly or being nervous etc.
The last time you had your conversation was she cheerful, lively, and even intoxicated by your presence? Did she pick up the vibe that you were on cloud 9?

Have more conversations. Like Bella-Angelique said, "If you do have similar tastes in pastimes then invite her to join." Lunch is always good since movie date is a step above because of its cuddly nature, unless you're holding her hands by the end of lunch.

How old are you, if you don't mind me asking?

Make your nervousness to your advantage. Tell her that, and see where it gets you, after the lunch date of course.

Peace.

Edited by braveone2u, 07 December 2012 - 10:05 PM.


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Posted 07 December 2012 - 10:13 PM

Im 23


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Posted 07 December 2012 - 10:28 PM

View PostSereneScene, on 07 December 2012 - 09:55 PM, said:

Boyfriend AND kid! BOOM shot down. Lmao...

Oh well..
No one likes a home wrecker - especially not the cuckolded spouse.

Go and kill him then comfort her for her loss


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Posted 07 December 2012 - 10:33 PM

View PostSereneScene, on 07 December 2012 - 04:51 AM, said:

I guess i should just build up some courage and talk to her first.
exactly.
i think we tend to overcomplicate things when we feel there is 'so much at stake'. but what really do you have to lose? she could politely brush  you off but that's hardly going to kill you!
take a chance!

View PostSereneScene, on 07 December 2012 - 09:55 PM, said:

Boyfriend AND kid! BOOM shot down. Lmao...

Oh well..
oh crappy. didn't see this till now. ah well you tried good job on that anyway


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Posted 07 December 2012 - 10:34 PM

From the description I'd call it a crush. I have one right now for a woman at work, and I like to think she feels the same way. I won't act on it though, because I'm married. I'm just enjoying the intensity of the feeling-like a kid in junior high school. You're young-explore your feelings, maybe get shot down sometimes, but better than just wondering "what if"?


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Posted 07 December 2012 - 10:35 PM

View PostSereneScene, on 07 December 2012 - 04:22 AM, said:

So there is this girl at work and I have this intense feeling whenever I see her, I am really attracted to her and really want to get to know her, she also keeps popping up in my mind.

I have been in relationships before but the reason I ask this is because I never got this intense feeling before, not the first time seeing my ex for example, there are plenty of hot chicks at my job and while yes I think "Man shes really hot!" I dont get some crazy feeling like this, anyone ever feel like this?

Every time I see her I wanna talk to her but I get nervous :(

Odd feeling.

Next time she is stood up go and stand infront of her.

Everyone has their own personal space and your aim is to be inside hers (stand a little too close). She will either repulse and back off or be turned on and stay.

If she stays kiss her.

Edited by Mr Right Wing, 07 December 2012 - 10:36 PM.


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Posted 07 December 2012 - 10:36 PM

View Posttyrant lizard, on 07 December 2012 - 10:28 PM, said:

No one likes a home wrecker - especially not the cuckolded spouse.

Go and kill him then comfort her for her loss

lol


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Posted 07 December 2012 - 10:52 PM

View PostSereneScene, on 07 December 2012 - 09:55 PM, said:

Boyfriend AND kid! BOOM shot down. Lmao...

Oh well..
That's a new development. Is he just a vague boyfriend, or a fiance? I will assume that you're not the BUCK-aneer type since you have already given up -- "oh well.."


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Posted 07 December 2012 - 10:53 PM

While no doubt im disappointed, as with all things in life I use this as a learning experience, I learned some things here that I will learn in the future and I at least had the courage to pursue, at least that makes me feel better about myself.

Well thats life huh!


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Posted 07 December 2012 - 10:56 PM

View Postbraveone2u, on 07 December 2012 - 10:52 PM, said:

That's a new development. Is he just a vague boyfriend, or a fiance? I will assume that you're not the BUCK-aneer type since you have already given up -- "oh well.."
Her kid is a few months old.


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Posted 07 December 2012 - 11:05 PM

View PostSereneScene, on 07 December 2012 - 10:56 PM, said:

Her kid is a few months old.
Their child together. I see.

I feel for you. That kind of "magic" is hard to find and just let it slip away. At least, nothing was developed...and heart is still free, unlike mine (by choice).







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