As for the other replies and pms, thanks
The is like an anti-negative energy bomb, it brings light into a dark situation and the blessing returns back to the sender (you or whoever in your family is also willing to try this). It releases karmic bonds and dispells ill will which cause disease and other physical manifestations.
Give it a go, your heart will lighten, you will feel more positive about many things (because good makes us feel well and blessing others is a good thing) and he will eventually dissappear from your thoughts and feelings to the point where you will not feel a thing in his presence at all.
Edited by libstaK, 16 December 2012 - 01:46 PM.