Being Human, on 15 February 2013 - 07:12 PM, said:
Swaz
29
Female
Can you see a direction to my life?
Thanks!
Hi Swaz,
Your energy is very clear I must say!! You are going in so many different directions though!!! It's almost like any way the wind blows you, you go!! Your past is riddled with people that expected way too much from you, very needy people. One very prominent person was very selfish and had a heck of a sweet tooth. He has a fatherly feeling to him but I suspect you where the parent. Really hard work in this past of yours too. Don't get me wrong, you had time to be a child and it wasn't a bad childhood, just not ideal. Sometimes we have to look at the past to realize how far forward you've gone and you've gone a long ways.
This is one of those times when you have to take charge of your life. You've gotten rid of the bad influences or the pushy people, they pushed you in self serving ways. It's time for you to make some decisions. I'm seeing you just standing still, not knowing which way to go. You could go backwards and deal with more barracuda type people or move forward and take charge. I'm all for taking charge of your life. I'm seeing an airplane on that path, it could be a trip or that you have a chance to actually work with or on airplanes. This actually looks like great fun for you. There is a third path too, it's the path of love. I would normally be all for love but in this case it doesn't look as simple as that. May I suggest that you take your time and figure out what you want before you go forward in any direction. I get the feeling that you keep picking out men that aren't good for you. Might be a good idea to write out a list on what type of man you want and another list that tells you what you don't want, stick to your list. People don't change for other people, you can't change them, they have to change for themselves and then that's growing, not changing.
Leah.