No need to apologize! I certainly didn't have that impression about your post!
Ha-ha! That song comes to mind..."She's got it...Yeah, Baby, she's got it!" Well, you're definitely getting somewhere, right?!
Certainly, you've sorted a lot out and circumstances are becoming more clear, and so naturally, it's making more sense.
I think one of the biggest hurdles is to separate fact from fiction because there's a lot of inaccurate info. out there re: Zahau's case which (of course) only complicates the already unusual circumstances of her death.