Mr Walker, on 14 January 2013 - 01:12 AM, said:
I have deliberately not responded to your posts because to do so would attack a belief system you have about your animals.
It is not my right to personally attack that, although i have expressed my pov via responses to other posters.
Don't worry, I won't take offense to anything you say. I have my beliefs, you have yours. No problem
Mr Walker, on 14 January 2013 - 01:12 AM, said:
I say thos to put my vies on animlas in perspective We love them As stated earlier we give several thousands of dollars each year to animal welfare groups and write to politicians and governments protesting animla cruelty around the world But i am trained in huma cognitive development and language I also have read a lot about animal cognion sapience and self awareness And my knowledge does not allow me to hold mistaken beliefs abouthe nature of animals Experst in dogs for example will tell you that the greatest mistke you can make is to treat a dog like a human, ratherr than utilise understanding of a dogs nature to relate to it.
I agree to some extent. I don't think it's a good idea to view an animal as human and treat it as such. Yes, you can shower them with love and affection, but you need to understand that they are different, have different needs and different ways of communicating. I remember this every time I'm around my horse. I love her to death, I trust her, but she's still an animal and therefore still unpredictable. What she's fine with one day could set her off the next. But I personally don't think that that means they can't have affection/love for us or others.
Mr Walker, on 14 January 2013 - 01:12 AM, said:
So, in my opinion, your cat did not mourn the other cat. Neither did she love him in anything like the way humans do. Animals are programmed into (and can also learn) social behaviours. But they are not aware of the acts they do. They have no symbolic/conceptual understanding of love or grief. They simlply do not have the mental /cognitive or language abilities to be able to form, or understand, such concept;s and without them love, grief etc do not exist except as feelings which are biologicla in nature.
So why do you think she acted different/sad/depressed? I realize I'm using terms for emotions that humans show, but I don't know how else to put it. She acted in a way that I perceived to be as sad. Do you think she could pick up on the fact that hubby and I were sad, and acted different because she didn't understand?
Mr Walker, on 14 January 2013 - 01:12 AM, said:
I dont deny animals have feelings, but they are not similar to or equivalent with a human feeling which comes with a lot of associated understandings that compound it and alter it beyond recognition to a non self aware animal Love as used to express human understnading cant be used to define animla feelings.
I dont know what other word could be used, but the responses you see come from a programmed genetic /biological response, just as a pack has an alpha male and a female leader. And just as animals cooperate together for function and survival, and groom each other for parasites etc..
Hmmm...yes, I could see that. "Love" as a kind of social function to increase one's chances of survival. So, a pet dog would show "love" by getting super excited, wagging it's tail, slobbering kisses on its owner because it "knows" said human will in turn feed, groom and take care of it. (I put "knows" in quotes as I have a feeling you would say the dog doesn't "know" this, it's just an ingrained biological response

- correct me if I'm wrong).
Mr Walker, on 14 January 2013 - 01:12 AM, said:
There are many logical reasons for an animal returning to a particular site.To believe it does so from love /emotional attachment to its "master ' is only that; a belief. That belief is often chosen to fulfil a persons desires/needs for the world to fit comfortably as they would like it to be Not necesarily from reality.
If you could give some examples of the bolded, that would be great. I can't think of any biological need that returning to a site would fulfill.
Mr Walker, on 14 January 2013 - 01:12 AM, said:
Strange as it may seem to some, I prefer to seek reality in all things, to choosing a belief structure about anything; because the truth leads to progress, and greater truths, and development of knowledge, functionality, and more positive outcomes. To understand the world as it is, is always more beneficial in the long run than to create an alternative world in your mind as you would like it to be. Although that is a fun exercise, with its own positive outcomes, as long as you recognise it is a fantasy of your own creation.
Ps the "you ' here is not directed at you personally, but is used generically for ease of expression.
I think I'm with you for the most part in this. I have certain beliefs that others may not share which are based on personal experiences (i.e. I believe in ghosts cause I've had experiences I can't explain rationally). If someone were to give me a rational explanation, my beliefs would most likely change accordingly. I, too, seek the truth. Please don't worry about offending me with anything you say - I wouldn't ask if I didn't want an answer