So you are saying she is absolved of any responsibility that occurred because of her bad decisions, because she was drunk and because other people where making bad decisions. If you are going to use that train of logic then why not apply it to the boys who raped her, they where probably also drunk, not to as great an extent as her but I am willing to bet more then likely wasted and it was a group of them and no one at the party stopped them so it was a large group of people making a bad decision(s). So with the logic you used to absolve the girl of any wrong doing can just as easily apply to the boys that raped her and absolve them for what they did too, pretty much with the logic you are using you are taking any any personal responsibility one has after getting drunk, especially if it is with a group.
Should her parents have grounded her for underage drinking? Okay, yeah. she should be scolded for underage drinking.
Now by your logic we should ground/scold the boys for rape.
No thanks. Don't agree at all. And don't agree a raped woman deserves ridiculed to the point of suicide. Sorry. I'll never agree to that.