You keep bringing up you experience with the group you belonged too when you were in college....sounds like a cult to me, the effects seem to be long lasting. Here is quote from this thread that you posted
If I am wrong about this, fine, ignore me ;-)....it is often hard to get each right when all we do is post. You take on the christian faith is certainly not mine, nor of many Christians that I know. Though there is Westboro isn't there?