I think it depends on your belief system. If you give power to the thought of some type of negative backlash then you are doing just that.
Another way you could look at it is all these things you assume are because of how you naturally acted in a time of pain/anger. So first up, to me there is nothing wrong with thinking or wishing for negative things to happen. It is a part of being human and growing and those that deny or pretend they are always saints are of full of it. They are like wolves in sheep clothing handing out flowers, so to speak. As for me I've always been upfront on my animal/human side as well as my Divine beliefs.
Anyway I believe if things are meant to be, they will be. So to me all these things that have occurred to you were always meant to occur. If they were not meant to be, then they simply would not have been.
*So you could look at these as lessons from God.
Edited by Kazahel, 31 March 2014 - 05:17 AM.