I feel strongly connected to my friend who I will simply refer to as "J". He is 16 years my junior but we have a lot in common, have strong sexual chemistry, share the same spiritual beliefs, and have helped each other heal from painful pasts. HOWEVER, he is still intensely attached to his ex-girlfriend from 5 years ago. He firmly believes that she is "the only one" and will come back to him even though she is set to get married to someone else.
Even with that said, I feel an incredible connection and bond to "J". I fell deeply in love with him and have never felt this way for anyone before (not even my ex-husband of 18 years). I feel like "J" is a special soul mate. I have had a lot of synchronicities involving him. We tend to take on each other's energy quite easily (good or bad). There were times where I even felt like I took on his dreams when we were sleeping next to each other because nothing of the dream felt like it was mine. I have had prophetic dreams and visions involving him as well. Many of the visions and dreams about the things that we would do together have come true.
One vision however, has not come true yet. About a year ago after knowing him for 6 months, I had a very strong vision about me and him during a tough time in our relationship. The vision stopped me in my tracks and I must have looked like I was in a trance to anyone walking by. When the vision was over I felt light and at great peace.
IN THE VISION: I saw us sitting together at our favorite nature place. As we sat crossed legged facing each other, we held our palms up together touching each other. There was a warm and soft glow surrounding us as we did some kind of meditation together. His hair was long and he was healthier than he ever was before. His drug addiction and other pains that bound him were gone. I could feel a deep peace inside of him and he felt "free". It also felt strongly like we were a couple in this vision. I felt like the vision was showing me something farther in the future but not too far.
BEFORE THE VISION: "J's" hair was short and he was addicted to a drug. He was having a ton of emotional problems and felt confused about his spiritual path.
AFTER THE VISION: his hair is long now and has grown a lot in the last year. He has stopped his drug of choice and stopped smoking cigarettes. He has matured a good deal and dealt with a lot of his pain from his past. He is more sure about his spiritual path and beliefs too.
"J" is now a more positive person than a year ago and is learning how to manifest the things he wants. I have seen some amazing things come his way due to his hard work and beliefs. He also believes that his ex is going to leave her fiancee and come back to him. He firmly believes this. Up until recently I have believed that "J" would let go of his attachment of his ex especially since we had a lot of intimacy and others things between us. He also cannot let me go even though we have had fights and said "goodbye" a number of times. HE is always the one that comes back to me.
MY REQUEST: Normally I can do reads for myself and see my own answers. However, my heart is confused and hurting too much to be able to see or feel clearly right now. Lately "J" is starting to convince me that his predictions about his ex coming back to him are correct. I would like a read to know what the future holds for me and "J" if anything. The vision I had about us being together was intense but now I question it with him being so sure about his "signs" from the universe about his ex coming back.
If possible I would also like a read about his ex who I will refer to as "K". When I see pictures of "K" I feel a darkness in her. No...it's not my jealousy. I tend to be able to pick things up about people from pictures or places/buildings. I actually ran across "K" and her fiancee once last year in the grocery store. The strong feeling that came over me as I walked by her was that she was not a happy person and that there was darkness in her (the only way I can describe it).
I know there are a lot of psychology based answers that could be sent my way...but please...I really am looking for a read on this situation.
Edited by earthwoman1111, 27 May 2014 - 10:44 PM.