Jump to content


- - - - -

i keep dreaming of a girl i loved


  • Please log in to reply
39 replies to this topic

#16    the lastninja

the lastninja

    Alien Embryo

  • Member
  • Pip
  • 25 posts
  • Joined:23 Nov 2006
  • Gender:Male
  • Location:bath uk

  • live in the shadows die by the sword

Posted 25 November 2006 - 09:28 AM

when i dream of her we are talking and doing things we did when we were younger its like i am living a diffrent life to the one i have now all though one did involve cream cakes!lol.
over the years i have heard from our friends little things thats she has said to them about me and i am sure she did love me at some point. ph34r.gif

#17    Cadetak

Cadetak

    Defender of the Universe

  • Member
  • 6,371 posts
  • Joined:25 Jan 2005
  • Gender:Male
  • Location:Cleveland, Ohio

  • Sometimes It's Darkest Just Before Dawn

Posted 26 November 2006 - 09:44 AM

You'll find someone else to love.


Between Red Team and Blue Team I stand colorblind

Posted Image

"The opposite of the religious fanatic is not the fanatical atheist but the gentle cynic who cares not whether there is a god or not."-Eric Hoffer


#18    Hollywood Hughes

Hollywood Hughes

    Ectoplasmic Residue

  • Member
  • Pip
  • 233 posts
  • Joined:20 Oct 2005

Posted 30 November 2006 - 02:33 PM

Quote


i keep having dreams about a girl who i was in love with for a long time.we never got together but i think she felt the same way.anybody got any ideas why i dream of her a lot?

Couldn't be simpler bro. You still love her  original.gif
Posted Image

#19    zukie&jim

zukie&jim

    Conspiracy Theorist

  • Member
  • PipPipPipPipPipPipPip
  • 886 posts
  • Joined:17 Jul 2004
  • Location:somewhere on earth

  • nothing PC about a sidwinder exploding in a hot tail pipe !

Posted 30 November 2006 - 02:57 PM

a simple quote from bill clinton back in the 90's when everybodys jobs were being exported to china ---"get over it !"

#20    Toxic Flood

Toxic Flood

    Ectoplasmic Residue

  • Member
  • Pip
  • 147 posts
  • Joined:01 Dec 2006

Posted 01 December 2006 - 02:44 AM

This is not a mystery of the mind, space, or time.

#21    Cadetak

Cadetak

    Defender of the Universe

  • Member
  • 6,371 posts
  • Joined:25 Jan 2005
  • Gender:Male
  • Location:Cleveland, Ohio

  • Sometimes It's Darkest Just Before Dawn

Posted 01 December 2006 - 08:56 AM

Quote


This is not a mystery of the mind, space, or time.


Although it does have to do with the mind it isn't really a mystery.

Between Red Team and Blue Team I stand colorblind

Posted Image

"The opposite of the religious fanatic is not the fanatical atheist but the gentle cynic who cares not whether there is a god or not."-Eric Hoffer


#22    chel-ci

chel-ci

    Alien Embryo

  • Member
  • Pip
  • 28 posts
  • Joined:01 Dec 2006

Posted 01 December 2006 - 10:27 AM

go get her back.

#23    =Jak=

=Jak=

    Telekinetic

  • Member
  • 6,789 posts
  • Joined:16 Apr 2006
  • Gender:Male
  • Location:C

  • SIMPLICITY

    "Avoid hurtful thoughts and bring helpful attitude"

    Self sacrifice attitude, kills ego.

Posted 01 December 2006 - 10:46 AM

Quote


when i dream of her we are talking and doing things we did when we were younger


If your love was true..  her happiness will be your frist slog..
G @   C

#24    Empurpledsoul

Empurpledsoul

    Alien Embryo

  • Member
  • Pip
  • 25 posts
  • Joined:29 Nov 2006

Posted 01 December 2006 - 08:07 PM

Quote


i keep having dreams about a girl who i was in love with for a long time.we never got together but i think she felt the same way.anybody got any ideas why i dream of her a lot?



Because you love her.

#25    The Raven

The Raven

    Wayward Soul

  • Member
  • PipPipPipPipPipPipPipPip
  • 1,683 posts
  • Joined:24 Mar 2004
  • Gender:Male
  • Location:Maine, United States

  • From the Gods to the Earth to Us, from Us the Earth to the Gods.

Posted 01 December 2006 - 08:33 PM

You often dream of people who have been in your thoughts frequently more often than those who you have seen once or twice. You may be dreaming of this woman specifically because of your liking for her and the current state of your romantic life, which am I oblivious to, but can spawn emotions which will in turn influence your dreams. Simple logic.

Edited by The Raven, 01 December 2006 - 08:34 PM.

Baron Wormser said:

What brought me to the woods was the longing to be with words in an undistracted place. 'Woods' and 'words' were almost identical.

Wayfarer - A Journey in Thought and Creation

#26    Toxic Flood

Toxic Flood

    Ectoplasmic Residue

  • Member
  • Pip
  • 147 posts
  • Joined:01 Dec 2006

Posted 02 December 2006 - 05:48 AM

Quote


Although it does have to do with the mind it isn't really a mystery.

Exactally.

#27    Irregular

Irregular

    Alien Embryo

  • Member
  • Pip
  • 9 posts
  • Joined:06 Dec 2006

Posted 06 December 2006 - 02:08 AM

Maybe you still have these feelings for her or your too curious to know if she felt the same to let it go.

#28    SwampGator

SwampGator

    Skeptical Skeptic

  • Member
  • PipPipPipPipPipPipPipPip
  • 1,171 posts
  • Joined:06 Aug 2006
  • Gender:Male
  • Location:In a swamp near you!!

  • It seems common sense is not that common.

Posted 06 December 2006 - 02:33 AM

Whether she loved you in the past is not relevant now. She has married and moved on.
You are dreaming about her because shes gone.
Quit seeing her and let her go. Find a new love.
Once you do you will no longer dream of her.
"The ones who look so far outside the box they lose the box completely = Blind Believer"   Chaoszerg

#29    CaitSith

CaitSith

    Psychic Spy

  • Member
  • PipPipPipPipPipPipPipPip
  • 1,102 posts
  • Joined:14 Feb 2006
  • Gender:Male
  • Location:Missouri

  • http://shadowquesters.proboards.com

Posted 06 December 2006 - 02:42 AM

I was in the situation a year ago, but I was the guy married to the girl, and it was another man infactuated with my wife. He was a bit more obssessive, putting her picture upon his myspace talking about how much he loved her. It really made me mad, and also jealous because he worked with her and I heard from others the things he'd said to her and about her. Things got really bad about this and almost lead to a divorce, which would have been really bad since we had a baby at the time.
Going to this girl with this is just asking for more trouble and might even ruin the life she built. You didn't take it when it was right in front of you, now its too late, but you will always have your dreams. If you really care about her you would not try and make trouble, regardless of what some people might think is right
"Science fails to recognize the single most potent element of human existance, Spirit moves through all things. Science has failed our world, Science has killed our world!" SOAD



Posted Image

#30    green_dude777

green_dude777

    Remote Viewer

  • Member
  • PipPipPipPip
  • 501 posts
  • Joined:24 May 2004
  • Gender:Not Selected
  • Location:Ohio

  • When you look back in life, you don't regret what you did, you regret what you never attempted.

Posted 06 December 2006 - 03:30 PM

I know a famous quote, "All is fair in love and war."

Sorry folks, just can't go with the "right" decision here.  Sit down with her, talk to her.  You don't have to confess your love right away.  And everyone remember, it's half her decision too.  He can tell her all he wants, doesn't mean she's gonna go for it.

But like someone said, the agony of 'what if' can be greater than being rejected.




0 user(s) are reading this topic

0 members, 0 guests, 0 anonymous users