Posted 06 December 2006 - 02:42 AM
I was in the situation a year ago, but I was the guy married to the girl, and it was another man infactuated with my wife. He was a bit more obssessive, putting her picture upon his myspace talking about how much he loved her. It really made me mad, and also jealous because he worked with her and I heard from others the things he'd said to her and about her. Things got really bad about this and almost lead to a divorce, which would have been really bad since we had a baby at the time.
Going to this girl with this is just asking for more trouble and might even ruin the life she built. You didn't take it when it was right in front of you, now its too late, but you will always have your dreams. If you really care about her you would not try and make trouble, regardless of what some people might think is right
"Science fails to recognize the single most potent element of human existance, Spirit moves through all things. Science has failed our world, Science has killed our world!" SOAD