when i dream of her we are talking and doing things we did when we were younger its like i am living a diffrent life to the one i have now all though one did involve cream cakes!lol. over the years i have heard from our friends little things thats she has said to them about me and i am sure she did love me at some point.
From the Gods to the Earth to Us, from Us the Earth to the Gods.
Posted 01 December 2006 - 08:33 PM
You often dream of people who have been in your thoughts frequently more often than those who you have seen once or twice. You may be dreaming of this woman specifically because of your liking for her and the current state of your romantic life, which am I oblivious to, but can spawn emotions which will in turn influence your dreams. Simple logic.
Edited by The Raven, 01 December 2006 - 08:34 PM.
Baron Wormser said:
What brought me to the woods was the longing to be with words in an undistracted place. 'Woods' and 'words' were almost identical.
Whether she loved you in the past is not relevant now. She has married and moved on. You are dreaming about her because shes gone. Quit seeing her and let her go. Find a new love. Once you do you will no longer dream of her.
"The ones who look so far outside the box they lose the box completely = Blind Believer" Chaoszerg
I was in the situation a year ago, but I was the guy married to the girl, and it was another man infactuated with my wife. He was a bit more obssessive, putting her picture upon his myspace talking about how much he loved her. It really made me mad, and also jealous because he worked with her and I heard from others the things he'd said to her and about her. Things got really bad about this and almost lead to a divorce, which would have been really bad since we had a baby at the time. Going to this girl with this is just asking for more trouble and might even ruin the life she built. You didn't take it when it was right in front of you, now its too late, but you will always have your dreams. If you really care about her you would not try and make trouble, regardless of what some people might think is right
"Science fails to recognize the single most potent element of human existance, Spirit moves through all things. Science has failed our world, Science has killed our world!" SOAD
When you look back in life, you don't regret what you did, you regret what you never attempted.
Posted 06 December 2006 - 03:30 PM
I know a famous quote, "All is fair in love and war."
Sorry folks, just can't go with the "right" decision here. Sit down with her, talk to her. You don't have to confess your love right away. And everyone remember, it's half her decision too. He can tell her all he wants, doesn't mean she's gonna go for it.
But like someone said, the agony of 'what if' can be greater than being rejected.