Okay, time to tell the truth. Your spouse isn't looking over your shoulder. Tell us, if you could go back in time to the point of offering or accepting the proposal that led to your marriage, would you do it?

I would.

I love my wife very much.

However, I wouldn't do it again...

I'd tell, hubbies not around but one of my kiddies is.

One thing I will say is I married way too young.

same here tia, married tooooo young
lol

I would
I woldn't do it again
Which is it?

I think I would do it again, but without doing the mistakes that I've done, since I do love him very much
and the other guy 2
j/k

I'm 16 and I got married last year O_o Of course my wife has 25 other husbands, 23 I never even knew about, but it's all good

Anyways, um I probably would've, cause if I didn't accept, she'd be bugging me until I finally did say yes

To my current wife, which is my second wife...YES!!!! Without a doubt... I would marry her over and over....

My first.. it makes me mad she is still alive

I'm not married, but post anyway to exhibit my deliberate disobedience of blatantly put foward rules.

Call it a sign of the times, if you will

To my first(and now he is my ex)hubby...I would have turned his sorry a$$ down if I had known what I was in for...but as for would I propose to my hubby again...yes I would...I love being with him(even if he does snore )

In a heartbeat, yes I would do it all over again.

My wife, however, may feel differently........

It's clear that they meant they would accept the proposal, they were glad they did, but they wouldn't like to go through all of it once again, cos they like being in the present.

It's like I'm glad I have grown up, but I wouldn't like to do it again!

I'm glad I did A Levels and I'm glad I chose to do them at 16, but would I do them again, NO!

Hope that clears it up!

Interesting question my current wife is my second but I will break this down for both

1st wife well first of all she was abusive to me and kids and cause us great harm financially, emotionally etc etc. so I would I marry her if I had second chance without doubt yes and the reason is right here three of my five kids are from her and I would have never had them if I had not been with my first wife so answer for her is YES! I grew much from that abusive situation and yes both kids and I suffered but we learned and grew from it and are now in a stable "safe" home.

2nd wife Without a doubt YES!! She is my soulmate and love of my life. She has been the Mother to three from ex that my ex could never be. All five kids are treated as equals and she cares for all of them as if her own which she cliams they are lol! She puts our needs and wants before her own and treats us with love and respect. She is an Angel in disguise and myself and children are blessed by her presence so yes I would do it again in a heartbeat!!!!

This is a tough one. First of all, I never really agreed to marry my husband. Believe it or not, it just happened, no matter how much I resisted. It's a long story. The first year we were married was extremely hard. If we weren't such apathetic kids at the time, we probably would've gotten a divorce.

So now, 8.5 years later, do I wish I hadn't married him? Well, I've gotten two great kids out of the deal. And I do love my husband. But, he aggravates me to no end. He's got many faults (as do I, I admit). The thing is, there are so many more crappy guys out there I could've gotten. Surely, if I hadn't married him, I would've married someone else. And given my track record, they'd probably suck. So, my husband's not too bad. He's stable, he loves me no matter what (he's proven that on many occasions ), he doesn't beat me, he's got all his teeth, etc. etc. So, yes, I guess that I would do it again.

To my first wife... hell no and if I knew now how much the divorce would cost me, I think I would have hired a hit man.

To my present wife, yes as JMPD would say in a heart beat, no regrets and she is my best friend also.

I need to go and find the Right Reverend Irish now to cleanse me after thinking about my ex wife.

No......15 years and 2 kids later....I love my kids, but I married way too young and I've come to realize I am not the marrying kind.

Even though we've had rough times and some who know us would think it strange, I would do it again in a heartbeat. We have been talking about renewing our vows very soon. We never got to have the big wedding so as soon as possible we are going to redo the big one!

Awww hun...that is so sweet...when do we get our invites?

right now, i'm in a do-over phase, and although there was some major anger, and other issues, if i had to go back in time, i would likely still do it, because, there were genuine feeling then, and if i went back, i'm sure i'd experience all that joy again, and believe i could change what was to come.
the dumbass optimistic romantic leaks out for a second, i guess this thread has struck a note.
ah well.......but like i said, it's do-over time now.

I think I was probably meant to be single. The love of my life got away from me in my youth. I have a wonderful little girl out of my marriage and moved because of my wife so I have a much better job. It is hard to say. I just don't know.

As soon as we can afford to do it as big as we want I'll make sure to get your invite straight out

I'd do it again in a second

I would....

that hysterical scream meant the world to me....

my ears are still ringing now lol!

well...you already knew I was a screamer

TMI...LOL

err, well, er, yeah, I errr

That was a bit of a conversation killer... everyone is thinking it but no dare ask... thank god this is a family friendly web site. lol

we would not be Moe without Moebabies. so there is nothing to change

And of course the Moebabies are adorable

aye! wont someone think of the kiddies! lol

I would absolutely...

It was love at first sight...he is nine years older than me, never been married and I didn't know if he ever would. It took ten years of patience and understanding before he proposed.

He is the most loving, intelligent, giving and caring man I have ever known... not to mention sexy and handsome. (He's often told he looks like a combination of Richard Gere and Sam Elliott)

The 'woudn't do it again', meant re-marrying... If something happened between my wife and myself, I would not remarry.

My wife and I have been Married 26 years, have Three strong son's and a Daughter who thought she was a boy till age 12. They are all adults now and we are all happy!

Now I would Marry My Wife again, because (as she reminds me) all my ex-girl friends were Bi--hes and If I had Married any of them I would have to KILL Them! So by Marring her I have stayed out of PRISON.

So she tells me!

After all the pain, and 23 years that failed..Id have to say YES..because of my kids..

Would I do it all over?
I don't know if I should say just no, or add some emphasis to it and go with "Hell No!!"

Either way, there's your answer..

Ask Mrs Falco.. she would certainly ask you to change your shirt before she would re-new your vows.. lol

My case is ...

What she said without the kids... lol

to follow walken's lead....

i am not married, i will not marry.

and i don't do anything over again, because once is the unknown, twice is boring.

I want to re-read some of these answers in about 10 years and see what, if anything has changed.

I'm not married yet. But faeden and i are engaged and planning on getting married soon. LOL we will do it over again several times one for imigration purposes, one for family and friends, and a handfast pagan one for us. I cant wait

I wish I could see the handfasting one, Ajagsfairy. Will you be married here or there? Will you move there?

The first one will be over there doing just a justice of peace sorta thing. Then we will come back here to the states for the family thing cus they are already mad at me for doing it over there where they cant be apart of it. I'm going either next month or in October to stay for a month or so then coming back here till i can save up the money to go back and we plan on getting married then. Yes i plan on moving over there as soon as i am able to.

I wish you guys all the luck and really get a good feeling from it

aww thanks so much thats sweet.

My hubby and I have been married for 27 years...will be 28 in September. We have 4 children, all of whom are very different personalities, and I love them all dearly. The only thing I'd change is when we got married. I wish we had waited a few more years, took more time to be young, in love and having fun together, before starting the family, bills, responsibility thing. But then I'd marry him and do everything just as we have....only a few years later. We were only together as a couple for one year before we got married. There is something to look forward to though. The two children we still have at home are growing up and will be off to build their own adult lives before long. Then my hubby and I will have more time to have fun together. We'll just pretend to be young.

Yeah, I think this would be a good one for the time capsule.

And EarthChick, congratulations! Look forward to your time alone with hubby. Just remember, the kids may leave, but sometimes they come back!

After 17 years of marriage, my wife died of cancer in 1994. If I could go back in time to that moment when I asked her to marry me, would I do it? A million times over. And I would repeat every second in the same way that we lived them.

Aww how sad Iaapac....sorry to hear of your loss

iaapac, I'm very sorry to hear that you lost your wife to cancer. I am glad to see that you apparently have many good memories of her. It is very hard to lose someone you love.