QUOTE(Leviathan113 @ Aug 17 2007, 10:09 PM)

This is redicules, a stranger who comes between a parent and their child, and tell that parent they cant have their kid without proof is twisted. Go ahead and do that to someone while they are dealing with their screaming child.... see how they like it. It's not about embarassment, its about respect, courtesy, and understanding... I dont know how you raised three kids without that. Its not like its an odd site to see a kid screaming as his parents make him leave the park. Go ahead and question it everytime, but Im gonna say I told you so when you yourself get charges against you for keeping a child from his parents.
I don't think you get it at all, you can't see past yourself and think about the child and the childs welfare.
Children get abducted, children get abused. You are in a dark park, carrying off a screaming boy and some people questioned what was going on - ???? and your problem with that is what!! again, you were embarrassed. I don't know what they said to you, I don't know how they treated you - this part I'm not aware of and may well be why you're so mad about it. Personally, I would ask, is everything OK? and come and talk to the person and the child - that's what I'd do, I wouldn't stand there accusing you of running off with him, but I'd find out what was going on.
And you know what, I'd rather risk having charges pressed (did YOU press charges?) than read in a paper that a young kid had been abducted and I'd just stood by and watched and let it happen - any day of the week.
I've raised my kids very well thank you very much, they're delightful and I'd hope, if the table were turned and I were in your shoes that day, that I'd be asked as well - with my hand on my heart I say that.