QUOTE(goalienan @ Aug 25 2007, 03:27 PM)

Hi Lotus, no you are not being nosey at all...My granddaughter started at the toddler age, so we didnt think to much of it..Before she went to daycare she had to be dressed exactly the same way every day, starting with her underwear and so on...Her shoes had to be tied exactly the same way or we wound up doing them over and over..If I put her hair in pigtails they had to be perfectly even or taken out, the same with pony tails...As she got a little older, she actually started moving my furniture, such as end tables, light articles to a certain place in the room and we didn't dare move them. It would set her off to what we thought were tantrums...In her miind everything had to be perfect..She would count over and over, such as crayons, put them exactly the same way with colors and so on...Everything had to be in order in her room...This went on and on, and when she was about ten or so, it got to the point where she would wake up and start to put everything back to where it belonged...She has two younger siblings, so this would be toys, etc..After school it was exactly the same thing..The little ones didn;t stand a chance...Washing her hands constantly and so on. She is now 13, a good student, she is a cheerleader, bad attitude (try to say it's the teen years), and if anything is mentioned about the ocd she gets terrible defensive...Insists that it is us, and not her who has this problem..She heard me talking to her mom about it one day and wouldn't talk to me for a few days...I felt terrible...Hopefully it won't get any worse..I hate when I hear of any child or adult having this...You said you had this till the age of 24, did it slow down at that point...And now if I'm being nosy, you can let me know...what were your symptons...Are we OT...If so feel free to PM me....thanks...goalie
No, it's ok, I will put it on public view, mainly in case my own case can help someone else.
Something bad happened to me at six years old, it caused me to start hearing a voice that would tell me to do this and to do that, if I didn't my mum would die.
It was traumatic, I started to bunk off school at seven and take small things from market stalls without paying, it was only when my mum found these things that I stopped, luckily it only happened about three times. The school secretary arrived at home and told my mum about my school absence at which I started attending again.
However, this bloody OCD which involved continually touching things multiple times was a thorn in my side. I couldn't just touch something once, it had to be more than once, if I didn't do it, my mum would die.
I never told a soul, one day when ten, I was a hair's width away from blurting it all out to my mum, but I just couldn't.
When I got married, the threat switched from my mum to my husband.
This carried on until I was sitting indoors alone at aged 24, I was drinking a cup of tea and as I reached out to get the cup, my hand accidentally brushed against the mantlepiece. As I went to touch it multiple times, I stopped.
Reflecting back on my life at that moment, it was as if I was seeing the torment for what it really was, I became indignant and then very angry and I remember saying in a loud voice
"I will NOT do this anymore, if I touch something, it will be just the once unless
I choose to do differently, I will no longer take any notice of threats to any member of my family should I not do something!"
It took tremendous will but it worked and stopped from that day. I do not know if the bad experience at 6 years old had anything to do with it but I am 99.9% sure it did.
You see, by finally admitting I had a problem, it enabled me to fight it and win instead of being passive and suffering.
My heart goes out to your Granddaughter and to you and your family, if she could just see that it is not normal to do the things she is doing, she will be well on the way to being cured or the torment she is going through and it really is torment

. She could be embarrassed or just in denial, but whatever the case she can sort this.
The one thing she is fortunate with, is that you and your family are aware of OCD, support is needed and it is good that she has you all.