Hello everyone,

I am new to this! I sought out a web site for help with these "dreams" and paranormal activity I have been experiencing. I would like your help in solving or opening up or understanding what I need to do.

At night, its like day for me. When I fall asleep I am in a constant "dream" state. There is no resting for me. I have very vivid dream, which most of them come true. I can tell the difference of the ones that come true and the ones that I seem to make out as clutter. The dreams don't come true the next day, but within 6 months they do. I will give an example. One dream I had was like I was there hovering over and watching it happen. My boyfriends mom and her boyfriend were in a car accident, drinking in the winter and they died. Well needless to say, the events were different, but the place and how it happend came true. It was only his mom in the car, and she did hit the tree I seen, but didn't die (thank god) because she was drunk and passed out at the wheel.

I had a dream like this one a couple nights ago of a past friend in a casket. I was talking to his mother and the covnersation still plays in my head. I am scared.

Not only do I have these, I get paralized, where I am telling myself to wake up and I can't and it scares the crap out of me. I fnally wake up as what seems to be about 15 minutes of me telling myself to relax and move my body, then I jerk up and grasp for air.

Other experiences I have I am awake. I get my ear blown into, the drapes move, floor creaks, electricity goes on and off, I get touched, I get the air by me as thought someone is walking by me. I am not scared of whatever it is, but what does it want? I have asked in prayer for guidence but it seems the more I ask for help, the more things happen to me.

Does anyone have any advice on what is going on in my life? I am so drained, energy is gone, I hate to sleep, because I am not really sleeping, and the dreams I have tend to scare me. I have started a journal of my dreams, but its not making any sense to me at the moment, although I only started it a week ago. I have been going through this since I was about 16 years old, and I need to find some peace with it.

Am I just plain going nuts or does this stuff seem familiar to you guys?

I am desperate and I need guidance from someone, anyone, please and thank you!

DreamGirl

Hi - And welcome here!

The most resent thread on this subject i think is this one:

http://www.unexplained-mysteries.com/forum...t=0&start=0

Hello Dreamgirl,
welcome to the forum.

Sounds to me like you already have a good handle of the situation. What may help you is knowing you aren't alone in any of the experiences you've described.
I am glad that you've started a journal! and that you recognize the difference between 'dreaming' and clutter. LOL! Our terminology is identical on that one.

In your journal, get as descriptive as you can colors; moods, times, times of year, smells any and all information that you can pack into it. If your dream recall is really good concerning older dreams start another journal and write those out too as far back as you can remember them. That way it'll free up some mental clutter.

The paralysis that you're experiencing is know as sleep paralysis.. the topic is much debated on this board as to whether the origins are paranormal, physical or a bit of both. here's a link to SP.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sleep_paralysis

The other thing is even though you may be having prophetic/predictive dreams you aren't responsible for events. If you can do something to alter a bad situation, such as asking someone to be careful driving, then do. (It may not change a dog-gone thing and the events may still play out) But I don't think that I would tell someone (unless I had a close relationship with them) "I had a dream you were driving drunk and died." For number one they might find that a bit pushy, especially if it's known they have a drinking problem and are in denial. Which might have been what inspired your dream. I know that the persons in the dream were different than what happened in reality. In your dream it was your Mother, yet subconsciously (and I am speculating about this please remember) if you knew that his Mom drinks and drives and if you feel close to this woman, in your dreams you may have substituted your Mom for his to make it more urgent/personal, the emotional impact would cause you to remember it. (I hope that makes sense) When you were awake you would then might say (provided the following statement resembles your situation) but my Mom doesn't drink and drive...... Oh! but his does.......hmmm??

Hopefully, knowing that you aren't isolated in your experiences will allow you to be objective with them instead of just subjected to them. Perhaps, if you think of yourself as an active observer in your dreams you'll feel less drained. It worked for me. When I started keeping a journal and writing down the ones that didn't make sense, were scary or I felt were 'precognitive', I actually started enjoying them. The only ones that I don't write down are the obvious clutter. I still keep my journal too. I started mine when I was in high school..... many moons ago.
Good Luck,
Mabon.