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Buddharat
QUOTE(Neognosis @ Sep 25 2007, 05:05 PM) *
That's IF you accept revelation as anything but the metaphorical rantings of an anti-roman populace using codes to refer to the fall of rome, or if you accept revelation as being divinely inspired. I do not.


Me neither. I mean, I tried to read revelation once and jesus had a sword coming out of his mouth and I was like, man, this sounds like a japanese video game. I was just pointing it out because for people who believe the bible as literal, they believe only 144,000 men are going to heaven and no one else.
Neognosis
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Me neither. I mean, I tried to read revelation once and jesus had a sword coming out of his mouth and I was like, man, this sounds like a japanese video game. I was just pointing it out because for people who believe the bible as literal, they believe only 144,000 men are going to heaven and no one else.


yea. I think revelation and Paul's letters have been the cause of more evil in this world than an aweful lot of things.

It seems pretty obvious to me that Revelation is written for a persecuted society in need of a "revenge" story about how God was going to get back at Rome. Either that, or it's all in code, probably about Nero and Rome.
Lt_Ripley
QUOTE(MissMelsWell @ Sep 25 2007, 03:28 PM) *
Thank you Eggy.

I can't imagine why Bible authors would put anything in the Bible about commited same sex relationships. The entire concept simply didn't exist back then. However, Temple prostitution was a problem for a a LOT of reasons.
  1. Most temple prostitutes were NOT honored to be doing their job. They weren't paid, they were abused for all intents and purpose.
  2. Undoubtably, they DID have a tendency to spread STD and other disease.
  3. Temple prostitution was a pagan rite, one that I'm sure the ancient Jews wanted to do away with.
  4. Both men and women were temple prostitutes, but much beyond that we don't know much about them. It's likely that young men and women, were used by men, for simply their own sexual gratification and it was abusive to the "initiates". Or they truly were used for religious rites, but probably more like abuse if you look at it objectively.
God isn't happy about abusive sex or abusive relationships, not between opposite sexes or same sexes, and prostitution for temples or money, is generally a bad idea... it spreads disease. And, it's adultry considering most people who used temple prostitues (men) were married. If they weren't married, it was STILL adultry in the eyes of God.

Think about it, back 2000 years ago there weren't happy gay men decorating their wad and daube hut together (the idea would have been absurd), those gay men were married making babies with their WIVES, to ensure the family line, wealth, and to increase their social status. Perhaps they satisfied their sexual lust other places (like pagan temples?) Ok... well, they were still married men who slept with their wives. So in that time and era, it's highly likely that gay men and their sexual encounters WERE adultry, they were likely married--to women whether they wanted to be or not.

The idea of lesbians was probably even more obscure. Women at this time in history were incredibly intimate with each other and each other's bodies. They delivered each others babies, they were in constant company with one another. The more often shared their bedsides with a female servant, friend or family than they did with their own husbands. I'm sure no one gave a second thought to a lesbian relationship at that time, or that there could even be such a thing. Women were close, what women did in bed on the sly with one another was probably never considered by the MEN who wrote the Bible. To them, women's relationships were a huge mystery and not particularly worthy of speculation... oh ya, kinda like today. haha.



exactly. and this was all very well pointed out when the Iran leader , please don't ask me to spell his name , took questions over the weekend.

when asked about homosexuals in his country ( they were hung) he flatly said we don't have any. which drew a big laugh from the crowd. Now they honestly believe ( alot of them) that gay people only exist in the west . Proof how ignorant and backwards people can keep thier thinking. also how far in denial as well as how far religion can twist reality.

and Mr. Walker - if you indeed had studied psychology you would know that homosexuality is concidered normal behaviour. as natural as blue eyes.
Lt_Ripley
QUOTE(eqgumby @ Sep 25 2007, 04:39 PM) *
You touched on a topic worthy of it's own thread! Obvious to who? It's obvious to millions that woman should be beaten if non-compliant to their husbands my friend. It's obvious to millions that homosexuality is a choice, and wrong in their Gods eyes too.

Before I get bashed and accused of being a right wing, conservative, Christian loving, Billy Graham supporter, please be advised the above are not obvious to ME necessarily, but indeed they are to MILLIONS.


true but millions more don't believe it. long ago millions believed the earth was flat too. we became educated.
northwest
That really says nothing. If 5 out of 7 billion people had a sudden urge to jump on one foot, it would also be considered normal in psychology. Psychology tries to figure out how the mind works, and what are its characteristics, if the observe homosexuality in many people, then of course it is their conclusion that it's normal

But normal, moral and legal are not the same things.
Something can be normal, yet illegal, or even immoral by some standards, and something that is moral can be illegal, or not normal

I'm not arguing for or against homosexuality, in fact I try to stay away from this thread, I'm just trying to say
that the idea of "normal" has little significance in this issue.
And psychology too agrees that they aren't even sure what normal means, it has many criteria but is still a blurry idea
dlv
QUOTE(Buddharat @ Sep 23 2007, 06:19 PM) *
I always here (hear) that the bible says it's a sin to be a homosexual (though I've also heard it's okay to be a homosexual as long as you don't act on it).

Old stigma will never die, especially when there are pushy people in the world. And division and hatred will always be around as long as flawed (man-made) sources are available. Just look at the AIDS stigma, we know the ones to blame on this one, don't we? And they're definitely not the gay people, etc., nor that so-called HIV whatever, right? But if you're unsure, then here's a clue: Who are the doctors with HUGE egos...? Talk about adding unnecessary fear and hatred and boring sexual-encounters to the world... Click the link below, open your eyes, and decide for yourselves:

http://www.ourcivilisation.com/aids/hivexist/index.htm

Let's point the fingers to the right direction. Or be like a good spiritual person or Christian, just simply forgive and let go, okay by you? Your choice.
law-enforcer101
This specific topic in general society is getting old. Who cares what sexual orientation a person is? Seriously, it doesn't change that person just because they are attracted to the same sex. These "sinners" are still the same people you watched grow up, still the same people you shared good times and bad times with.. and above all, they are people too! Every day I see some sort of gay hate crime take place, and its sad. Society has come a long way in the past decade but sadly, still has a long way to go before homosexuality is widely accepted.

A good question to ponder about is....... do you believe everything you read? disgust.gif
northwest
It's one thing to forgive....well actually, I have nothing to forgive , because It's non of my concern and I don't even care personally who is gay and who is not.....but another thing is to ask of Christians to change their belief so that they don't consider homosexual sex to be a sin.
How would they justify it to themselves, they would read the bible, come to the part about homosexuals, and say:
ok we skip this part due to political correctness and read on....

Bill Hill

QUOTE(Neognosis @ Sep 25 2007, 06:50 PM) *
I STRENUOUSLY object to the idea that sex for the sake of pleasure and pair bonding is immoral.


Oh god, nothing like old skool- fire and brimstone.
northwest
QUOTE(billyhill @ Sep 25 2007, 10:28 PM) *
Oh god, nothing like old skool- fire and brimstone.


actually that's new school fire and brimstone

dlv
QUOTE(northwest @ Sep 25 2007, 10:21 PM) *
How would they justify it to themselves, they would read the bible, come to the part about homosexuals, and say:
ok we skip this part due to political correctness and read on....

I'm not defending gays, nor do they need defending (I've met too many divas in this lifetime alone to know, and where I live, one cannot get away from them)..., but fortunately, there are numerous versions of Christianity, including cults. And not all Christians accept the bible, word for word.
Bill Hill

Ok, what about this one-
Genesis 13:10
And Lot lifted up his eyes, and beheld all the plain of Jordan, that it was well watered every where, before the LORD destroyed Sodom.

Surly, the reason the city was called Sodom, is because there was a lot of sodomising was going on. unsure.gif
no?
It's like calling a city 'Necrophilia'
dlv
QUOTE(northwest @ Sep 23 2007, 07:45 PM) *
sex out of marriage is sin,

Should one assume that you learned this in Sunday school, or is this what you REALLY believe, deep down?
northwest
QUOTE(dlv @ Sep 25 2007, 10:43 PM) *
Should one assume that you learned this in Sunday school, or is this what you REALLY believe, deep down?


We are discussing Bible here, aren't we?
I'm just talking about a book

And no I don't really believe that, it doesn't matter what I believe, because I'm not talking about my beliefs but just discussing Bible,
which the topic at hand


Lt_Ripley
QUOTE(billyhill @ Sep 25 2007, 06:39 PM) *
Ok, what about this one-
Genesis 13:10
And Lot lifted up his eyes, and beheld all the plain of Jordan, that it was well watered every where, before the LORD destroyed Sodom.

Surly, the reason the city was called Sodom, is because there was a lot of sodomising was going on. unsure.gif
no?
It's like calling a city 'Necrophilia'


no. we associate sodomising with the name sodom. it is not how it got it's name, furthermore the sexual acts of sodom weren't homosexual but of rape - a crime usually commited by straight men regardless of the type of sex ( gay or straight)

so the crowd that wanted to rape ' the angels' and instead Lot offered his daughters were more than likely straight.



as for sex out of marriage. What of pologamy? widely accepted in the bible but not now ? why ?

concubines ? why not now ? the bible didn't change. did it ? or is it man grew beyond the beliefs of those who wrote the bible ?

as they will with homosexuality. the more it is understood as a natural part of the world and not a sin by the uneducated misled by scripture that not only has been taken out of context to refer to male prostitutes , but a society that didn't understand the natural world.


there is no excuse anymore for this ignorance.
dlv
QUOTE(billyhill @ Sep 25 2007, 10:39 PM) *
Ok, what about this one-
Genesis 13:10
And Lot lifted up his eyes, and beheld all the plain of Jordan, that it was well watered every where, before the LORD destroyed Sodom.

Surly, the reason the city was called Sodom, is because there was a lot of sodomising was going on. unsure.gif
no?
It's like calling a city 'Necrophilia'

I believe that Sodom was destroyed because they lost touch with God, that consciousness of this psychic bond (Kundalini energy) was neglected, or even forgotten. Not because a male sticks his penis on somebody's buttocks. Why would God care about something so mundane???
dlv
QUOTE(northwest @ Sep 25 2007, 10:49 PM) *
We are discussing Bible here, aren't we?
I'm just talking about a book

And no I don't really believe that, it doesn't matter what I believe, because I'm not talking about my beliefs but just discussing Bible,
which the topic at hand

Thanks for clarifying.
northwest
QUOTE(billyhill @ Sep 25 2007, 10:39 PM) *
Ok, what about this one-
Genesis 13:10
And Lot lifted up his eyes, and beheld all the plain of Jordan, that it was well watered every where, before the LORD destroyed Sodom.

Surly, the reason the city was called Sodom, is because there was a lot of sodomising was going on. unsure.gif
no?
It's like calling a city 'Necrophilia'


grin2.gif actually sodomy was named after Sodom, not the other way around.

There isn't much mention of homosexuality around the story of Sodom, except for a place where
people come pounding at the door where Lot and 3 god-persons were (angels I suppose), and wanting to have sex with
these "people". Or was it two of them, can't remember. Either way, the story is that someone at the door, a group of people
wanted them to come out and have sex with them.

It's amazing how giant myths can be born out of a few sentences in a book.
Sodom was simply a town gone mad, but somehow Sodom became a symbol of homosexuality.
dlv
QUOTE(Lt_Ripley @ Sep 25 2007, 10:50 PM) *
so the crowd that wanted to rape ' the angels' and instead Lot offered his daughters

Excellent point, Lt_Ripley. Today, however, sodomy is not necessarily due to rape. In fact, the word "sodomize" is an in word among certain group of people, it gives certain excitement when spoken...
MissMelsWell
And likely every man at the door of Lot demanding to "send the strangers out so they may know them" were all MARRIED. Adultry, not homosexuality. They weren't Jewish men either, they were Pagan men who did not know God, therefore, they were used to their rites of *gasp* TEMPLE Prostitution ... which the Jews didn't like for a lot of really good reasons.

It wouldn't have mattered if the angels were male or female... the moral of the story would be the same. Don't rape people, don't commit adultry, farming someone out for prostitution is NOT ok, AND, be good to your guests and protect them. Those are the morals. It has nothing to do with homosexual relationships.
Lt_Ripley
QUOTE(dlv @ Sep 25 2007, 06:56 PM) *
Excellent point, Lt_Ripley. Today, however, sodomy is not necessarily due to rape. In fact, the word "sodomize" is an in word among certain group of people, it gives certain excitement when spoken...


among straight men it seems the best way to humiliate one another and to prove dominance is through rape . sodomy and oral forced between them. it doesn't make them gay. it makes them criminals.

gay men fear jail in todays society for the same reason. they are especially singled out. to say they would like it is absurd. that would be like raping a woman and saying she liked it. only a moron would think that.

as for the term sodomy , it was just to show the surroundings of how the term came about. erroneously people assumed the rapists were gay because it was man on man rape when most man on man rape is committed by straights. yet Lot willing to hand over his daughters proves this point. it didn't matter what sex they were given. if indeed they were gay why would Lot choose too ? could he have offered himself if indeed it was some mad bunch of gay men ? it doesn't make sense except to know it was a mob of straight men. now why this occurred ? who knows.

sodomy doesn't happen just because of rape of course and plenty of straight people practice it - yet still illegal in some states.
Lt_Ripley
QUOTE(MissMelsWell @ Sep 25 2007, 07:04 PM) *
And likely every man at the door of Lot demanding to "send the strangers out so they may know them" were all MARRIED. Adultry, not homosexuality. They weren't Jewish men either, they were Pagan men who did not know God, therefore, they were used to their rites of *gasp* TEMPLE Prostitution ... which the Jews didn't like for a lot of really good reasons.

It wouldn't have mattered if the angels were male or female... the moral of the story would be the same. Don't rape people, don't commit adultry, farming someone out for prostitution is NOT ok, AND, be good to your guests and protect them. Those are the morals. It has nothing to do with homosexual relationships.


I couldn't have said it better. yet even most scholors don't think that the hebrew of ' to know them' had anything to do with sex. as for the rest of the arguement at the moment I can't recall.
northwest
QUOTE(MissMelsWell @ Sep 25 2007, 11:04 PM) *
And likely every man at the door of Lot demanding to "send the strangers out so they may know them" were all MARRIED. Adultry, not homosexuality. They weren't Jewish men either, they were Pagan men who did not know God, therefore, they were used to their rites of *gasp* TEMPLE Prostitution ... which the Jews didn't like for a lot of really good reasons.

It wouldn't have mattered if the angels were male or female... the moral of the story would be the same. Don't rape people, don't commit adultry, farming someone out for prostitution is NOT ok, AND, be good to your guests and protect them. Those are the morals. It has nothing to do with homosexual relationships.


These weren't Jews back then, Jewish tribes were made after that. So you can't call them pagan, because
there were no Jews, in fact Abraham went from town to town and they all knew the god, sometimes god even speak to others,
there were no chosen people back then, they all pretty much knew god more or less
Bill Hill

Ok this one is interesting

Matthew 26:74
Then began he to curse and to swear, saying, I know not the man. And immediately the 'cock crew.'

Now, I'm not an expert on gay slang but cock crew sounds suspicious.
dlv
QUOTE(billyhill @ Sep 25 2007, 11:23 PM) *
Ok this one is interesting

And immediately the 'cock crew.'

Now, I'm not an expert on gay slang but cock crew sounds suspicious.

Lol. A head of you there, bud.
Bill Hill

QUOTE(Lt_Ripley @ Sep 25 2007, 11:50 PM) *
concubines ? why not now ? the bible didn't change.


Oh yes, concubines... you're quite right and it appears, also 'queens..'

Song of Solomon 6:8
There are threescore queens, and fourscore concubines, and virgins without number.
MissMelsWell
QUOTE(northwest @ Sep 25 2007, 04:22 PM) *
These weren't Jews back then, Jewish tribes were made after that. So you can't call them pagan, because
there were no Jews, in fact Abraham went from town to town and they all knew the god, sometimes god even speak to others,
there were no chosen people back then, they all pretty much knew god more or less


Right, I didn't say that well.. I meant to say the story was authored by Jewish authors. The good being Lot, who would have been an example of a future "good man" and "jew" whether he was or not. I meant it as a perspective but I didn't explain it well.
Bill Hill

QUOTE(Lt_Ripley @ Sep 26 2007, 12:10 AM) *
gay men fear jail in todays society for the same reason.


I disagree Lt Ripley, to gay men- jail would be a sort of 'twisted heaven', which is probably why there is so much homosexual behaviour in men's jails.
Not all of it is rape...
But anyway, on the flipside..As a straight man- I wouldn't mind being sent to a woman's prison.


Lt_Ripley
QUOTE(billyhill @ Sep 25 2007, 09:31 PM) *
I disagree Lt Ripley, to gay men- jail would be a sort of 'twisted heaven', which is probably why there is so much homosexual behaviour in men's jails.
Not all of it is rape...
But anyway, on the flipside..As a straight man- I wouldn't mind being sent to a woman's prison.


you would be dead wrong billy. A friend of mine is a guard at a maximum prison so I hear it first hand as well as this has been studied in the prison systems.

your faulty opinion doesn't stem from fact but from old stereotypes thought up by straight men. not real life. Gay men in prison , real gay men are viewed as less than and treated horribly. although gay s*x takes place between straight men in prison ( gay for the stay) the reason it's treated different is because they don't view it as such. as well as they know that actually they are straight. ( sex alone doesn't dictate sexuality).

yes it's confusing but it's the rules inside and how they act.

as for you thinking you'd like to be in a womens prison? you might . once you realize how many are there for killing their husbands/boyfriends. are addicts and gang related. as many that may want you is as many that will beat the hell out of you.


ps - the last gay man put in the general population at the prison up north where my friend is working had his jaw broken and his eye socket crushed for being gay before they could break it up. She said he looked tough enough , was in for armed robbery , but someone probably got wind he was really gay and a few jumped him.

guard is a job I wouldn't want - they are all stressed out nuts.
Lt_Ripley
QUOTE(dlv @ Sep 25 2007, 06:37 PM) *
I'm not defending gays, nor do they need defending (I've met too many divas in this lifetime alone to know, and where I live, one cannot get away from them)..., but fortunately, there are numerous versions of Christianity, including cults. And not all Christians accept the bible, word for word.


curious . did you move into a area that has a large gay population or did it become so as time went on. ?

if the latter did you find your property values went up ?

around here , where ever gay men move , the property values increase. Great for businesses as well.
Paranoid Android
QUOTE(Lt_Ripley @ Sep 26 2007, 08:50 AM) *
as for sex out of marriage. What of pologamy? widely accepted in the bible but not now ? why ?

concubines ? why not now ? the bible didn't change. did it ? or is it man grew beyond the beliefs of those who wrote the bible ?

as they will with homosexuality. the more it is understood as a natural part of the world and not a sin by the uneducated misled by scripture that not only has been taken out of context to refer to male prostitutes , but a society that didn't understand the natural world.
there is no excuse anymore for this ignorance.
Many wives and concubines was allowed in that culture, but nowhere was it condoned and many places was it condemned. Just because something was societally accepted did not make it accepted by God.........

QUOTE(billyhill @ Sep 26 2007, 09:23 AM) *
Ok this one is interesting

Matthew 26:74
Then began he to curse and to swear, saying, I know not the man. And immediately the 'cock crew.'

Now, I'm not an expert on gay slang but cock crew sounds suspicious.
I'm not sure whether you are making a joke or not........

dlv
QUOTE(Lt_Ripley @ Sep 26 2007, 02:13 AM) *
curious . did you move into a area that has a large gay population or did it become so as time went on. ?

if the latter did you find your property values went up ?

around here , where ever gay men move , the property values increase. Great for businesses as well.

Actually at one time, this particular city had more gay activities, such as parades, clubs, restaurants, and so on. AIDS and the internet ruined the scene, basically, at least many of my gay friends complained. Also, the city got too upscale and pretentious for many gays to hang around. And contrary to popular belief, there are many poor gays out there. I also been told that many gay-males prefer a little danger in the atmosphere..., especially if one is into leather. Interesting you would mention: gay areas usually attract opulence and style and gaiety. Speaking of opulence, a gay neighbor of mine is moving to a warmer climate called Palm Springs to be freer, sexually, especially now that he's getting on in years. He just bought a nice condo while it's still affordable there. It's understandable in a way because our hood is surrounded by three churches, Jewish and Buddhist and Hindu temples, schools, a police station at the end of the street with lots of police cars and two helicopters, etc. The stigma of lustful sin is really not just for gays, but also for those who are not "married...," if one wants to buy into that gig. Unfortunately for my neighbor, he bought into that because of upbringing and perhaps his generation...

My property value went up, not because of the gay element, but because of a new zoning law, however.
MissMelsWell
QUOTE(billyhill @ Sep 25 2007, 06:31 PM) *
I disagree Lt Ripley, to gay men- jail would be a sort of 'twisted heaven', which is probably why there is so much homosexual behaviour in men's jails.
Not all of it is rape...
But anyway, on the flipside..As a straight man- I wouldn't mind being sent to a woman's prison.


I know you're being flip here.

However, I would like to set the record straight.

There's a lot of exaggerated talk going on here.

Rape in prison doesn't happen as frequently as people think it does.

Someone close to me 10 did years inside. Walla Walla State Pen. A notorious worst offender type of prison.

The inmates are under such constant watch, that the opportunity to perpetrate something like rape would be incredibly difficult. It does happen, but it's more rare than you'd think. My friend says that in his 10 years, mostly at Walla Walla, but also in County and at McNeil Island, that he only heard of 2 for sure, and 1 was a rumor, that was never confirmed as true or not.

What's more common is someone quickly getting shanked or clobbered in the yard. Rape takes too much time away from the prying eyes of security.
Lt_Ripley
QUOTE(MissMelsWell @ Sep 26 2007, 01:58 AM) *
I know you're being flip here.

However, I would like to set the record straight.

There's a lot of exaggerated talk going on here.

Rape in prison doesn't happen as frequently as people think it does.

Someone close to me 10 did years inside. Walla Walla State Pen. A notorious worst offender type of prison.

The inmates are under such constant watch, that the opportunity to perpetrate something like rape would be incredibly difficult. It does happen, but it's more rare than you'd think. My friend says that in his 10 years, mostly at Walla Walla, but also in County and at McNeil Island, that he only heard of 2 for sure, and 1 was a rumor, that was never confirmed as true or not.

What's more common is someone quickly getting shanked or clobbered in the yard. Rape takes too much time away from the prying eyes of security.


yes you are correct ! the friend of mine who is a guard here in Michigan in a correctional facility that has no individual cells. it's 7 bed open bays.

but it happens.
dlv
QUOTE(MissMelsWell @ Sep 26 2007, 05:58 AM) *
I know you're being flip here.

Me thinks: billyhill watched too many Oz episodes.
Emma_Acid
QUOTE(billyhill @ Sep 25 2007, 01:22 PM) *
I only know this one-

James 2:3
And ye have respect to him that weareth the gay clothing, and say unto him, Sit thou here in a good place; and say to the poor, Stand thou there, or sit here under my footstool:

Respect those who wear gay clothing.
I think it means, respect those who wear leather trousers, chaps..leather hats.. cowboy costumes etc.


Ha ha ha! Sorry.
Bill Hill
QUOTE(Lt_Ripley @ Sep 26 2007, 03:05 AM) *
your faulty opinion doesn't stem from fact but from old stereotypes thought up by straight men. not real life. Gay men in prison , real gay men are viewed as less than and treated horribly. although gay s*x takes place between straight men in prison ( gay for the stay) the reason it's treated different is because they don't view it as such. as well as they know that actually they are straight. ( sex alone doesn't dictate sexuality).
Please... er if having sex with a man isn't homosexual I don't know what is.Sex alone doesn't dictate sexuality? er that doesn't make any sense.
QUOTE(Lt_Ripley @ Sep 26 2007, 03:05 AM) *
yes it's confusing but it's the rules inside and how they act.
Don't worry, I've noticed a lot of confusion when it comes to the subject of homosexuality.
QUOTE(dlv @ Sep 26 2007, 07:53 AM) *
Me thinks: billyhill watched too many Oz episodes.
yeah maybe grin2.gif
Buddharat
QUOTE(billyhill @ Sep 26 2007, 09:30 AM) *
Please... er if having sex with a man isn't homosexual I don't know what is.Sex alone doesn't dictate sexuality? er that doesn't make any sense.


Well let me ask you this. What sexuality is a man who wants nothing more then to have sex with another man, only likes men, but because there are no men around, he gets out his urges by having sex with women (but if there was another man around that was willing, then he wouldn't be sleeping with the women)? Is he gay or straight?
Bill Hill

QUOTE(Buddharat @ Sep 26 2007, 02:52 PM) *
Well let me ask you this. What sexuality is a man who wants nothing more then to have sex with another man, only likes men, but because there are no men around, he gets out his urges by having sex with women (but if there was another man around that was willing, then he wouldn't be sleeping with the women)? Is he gay or straight?


He's not gay or straight- but obsessed with sexual desire. His only concerned with his selfish pleasure.
As you're stated in your example 'he wants nothing more than to have sex with a man'
He's a cenobite. Concerned only with the pleasure of the flesh.

But I think the confusion comes from thinking it's straight vs gay... or straight and gay.
It's not true.
Heterosexuality is the headline and homosexual is an offshoot from heterosexuality.
Afterall don't gaymen still emulate the 'act of heterosexual sex', as do lesbians; albeit with an artificial object of some kind.
eqgumby
QUOTE(Lt_Ripley @ Sep 25 2007, 04:59 PM) *
true but millions more don't believe it. long ago millions believed the earth was flat too. we became educated.

I think you re TOTALLY wrong, MILLIONS do believe homosexuality is wrong! I'm not saying they are right but they do!

Edit. OK, maybe I misread this. Sorry.
I'm just saying that belief does not make something true, as well as disbelief does not make something false, and much of this discussion is perception, not fact.
northwest
QUOTE(eqgumby @ Sep 26 2007, 03:53 PM) *
I think you re TOTALLY wrong, MILLIONS do believe homosexuality is wrong! I'm not saying tehy are right but they do!


Earth being flat or not is a fact which can be verified and has nothing to do with opinion.
whether homosexuality is acceptable or is a matter of opinion, and really has nothing to do with education.
Whether it is natural behavior or not, whether it is normal or not, has nothing to do with it.

Neognosis
QUOTE
I also been told that many gay-males prefer a little danger in the atmosphere..., especially if one is into leather.


As if there aren't straight people who like "danger" and leather, or Lesbians into S&M. You sound ignorant.



QUOTE
Heterosexuality is the headline and homosexual is an offshoot from heterosexuality.


good lord, this nonsense again? What the heck does that even mean? Nothing.

QUOTE
He's not gay or straight- but obsessed with sexual desire. His only concerned with his selfish pleasure.


Um, no, a man who falls in love with another man is considered gay in our society.


I'm starting to think that you just have a problem with any sex that is not for procreation and is instead for pleasure and bonding and the enrichment of a relatinship.

is that about right? You continuously call any sex not for procreation "selfish." Am I getting closer here?

dlv
QUOTE(billyhill @ Sep 26 2007, 02:27 PM) *
He's a cenobite. Concerned only with the pleasure of the flesh.

Ah, HELLRAISER now, is it -- "Perhaps you're teasing us. Are you teasing us?"
Bill Hill

QUOTE(Neognosis @ Sep 26 2007, 05:13 PM) *
good lord, this nonsense again? What the heck does that even mean? Nothing.


er... it's fact. Unlike saying the earth is flat, and believing it. it's not true Neognosis.

QUOTE(Neognosis @ Sep 26 2007, 05:13 PM) *
Um, no, a man who falls in love with another man is considered gay in our society.
I'm starting to think that you just have a problem with any sex that is not for procreation and is instead for pleasure and bonding and the enrichment of a relatinship.


You're sounding confused Neognosis- I was replying to Buddharat example (see below). Love wasn't a issue... love wasn't mentioned, nor was sex as enrichment of a relationship mentioned.

QUOTE(Buddharat @ Sep 26 2007, 02:52 PM) *
Well let me ask you this. What sexuality is a man who wants nothing more then to have sex with another man, only likes men, but because there are no men around, he gets out his urges by having sex with women (but if there was another man around that was willing, then he wouldn't be sleeping with the women)? Is he gay or straight?



dlv
QUOTE(Neognosis @ Sep 26 2007, 04:13 PM) *
As if there aren't straight people who like "danger" and leather, or Lesbians into S&M. You sound ignorant.

There is nothing ignorant about my particular sentence earlier because you have to see the context of the post. I was merely sharing what my (male) gay friends told me. Yeah-yeah, there are hetero, lesbian, trans-x, handicap, animal, and manimal "leather freaks." And I'm sure you know, they have their own flag, too. And in SF (and no, I'm not from SF), they have their day "to let it all hang out," or so I've been told.

If you're into leather and hetero and you felt that you've been left out, then I'm sorry. Again, one must read the whole context of the post...

And my dear, there is nothing ignorant about me.
Bill Hill

QUOTE(dlv @ Sep 26 2007, 05:14 PM) *
Ah, HELLRAISER now, is it -- "Perhaps you're teasing us. Are you teasing us?"


yes Hellraiser! thumbsup.gif But yeah I've met some people who act like cenobites- they're warped who only care about their personal desires being satisfied.
Although I'm sure some gaymen from San Francisco could give the cenobite's a run for their money.
dlv
QUOTE(billyhill @ Sep 26 2007, 04:24 PM) *
You're sounding confused Neognosis- I was replying to Buddharat example (see below). Love wasn't a issue... love wasn't mentioned, nor was sex as enrichment of a relationship mentioned.

Me thinks: Neognosis needs to take a class on Critical Reading, 101, just my most humble opinion. (ki-ki-ki)
Bill Hill

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I think, he just thinks- the Nature's rules- ie female and male having sex to produce children is 'homophobic.'
northwest
I can see a future trend in which anyone who doesn't experiment with homosexuality at one point in life is homophobic and a freak
Neognosis
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I think, he just thinks- the Nature's rules- ie female and male having sex to produce children is 'homophobic.'


I thought we were past this idea that "nature's rules" are anti-homosexual. There's plenty of occurences of homosexuality in nature.

it seems like you are coming from a position that any sex for reason other than procreation is somehow inferior. does that sound like an accurate reflection of what you think?

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